sweetie it whats on the inside that counts youll be ok ,your just hurt
right now

big little short or tall skinny chubby it dosent matter ... if the
person is going to cheat they are going to cheat... my first husband
fcuked everything in a skirt he was a lil skinny man (course i was a lil
skinny woman then).. but anyway the size of the person isnt what makes
them cheat.. its whats corrupt in them that makes them cheat.

You are not going to be fighting a whole family, just her. They can say
what they want, but a judge will be able to see that their side is
biased b/c they are her kin.

Just know that your world is fit for a child and you'll have no trouble.

Look dude,
That's your decision. If you want skinny, then be patient and wait
for skinny. Mistakes are made but only allow one mistake, then move on.
You know, females rarely admit to mistakes. However, I have been
fortunate to have been admitted to that they made mistakes. After the
fact, after the break up.
The grass isn't always greener on the other side. "I made a mistake".
"Yes you did, have a nice life! I forgive you but I must move on."

I will be as polite as i can. You have been given a multitude of
answers, but you crawl back into that house, you call pain. There seems
to be a pleasure in your pain. Always an alternative for accepting
truth. If sincere, let your lawyer do the talking. Thought you said 2yrs
in your last post. May be wrong.

It seems that you do have a difference in situations. At the post: what
should i do, you say she left her bf to be with you. Then, it was two
years before she cheated on you. Did you stay with the next 8? My
question, to you sir, are you trying to gain the sympathy of an unaware
lady; use this to your advantage? You seem like you are running game.
Just hope no one i know.

if you had a relationship with a green* person

and they did you wrong would that keep you

from every being with another green person*

















*change to financially secure

just a thought

but hey what do i know

mayby i'm wrong but stop whining get a lawyer go to court get visitation
rights cause uless your a real fu==up you'll get them darling. and move
on with whatever it is you think you want

chubby .... thin..... didnt make the person do what they did it is the
insides that made her do that... so dont go thinking that she did that
cause she was chubby.. and dont think a slim person may not do that
also....

but you need someone that is happy

with themself cause if aint happy with themself

how can they be happy with another


but hey what do i know

K let me try to clear up all this here is how it went i been w/ her for
10 years at the 8 years of the relationship she left me to be with some
one else 6 months we where apart and she came back to me that was about
2 years ago whn we consive our baby my baby is just 11 months old and
now she did it again i would tell her i dnt like how that guy looks at
u, that things she was doing whrnt right but he and she kept doing it
till they ended up cheeting on me, he didnt want her after she left me
so now she has some one else. k the skiny chubby thing this is what i
was trying to say i know anyone can cheet dnt have nothing to do w/
fisic but if i got cheet on by a chubby person y not be w/ a slim person
if it would have the same potential of me getting hurt? i dnt want to
sound like a jerk i mean the way my ex its making me feel right now is
like she was with me cuz she taoght she clnt find some one else she
makes a friend and always end up cheeting. so i know it may be shalow
but y not try to be with some one i know can go w/ anyone who she wants
when ever she want. (oh god i feel so bad saying this)

can you say paternity test

thirs no doubt the bb is mine, altoght i feel the bb with lost at the
begining of our relationship wasnt

their is always a doubt

paternity test

and by the way ty for that paternety coment my dughter is all i have
left was verry nice of u to put that toght in my head. problbla true , i
guess i am no one n would never be anyone. im just an individual, who
dnt deserver anything in life. all i want it in life a women who love me
and who would love me the same a happy family and that was it. i guess i
asked for to mush n now u tell me my daughter may not be even mine k i
get it.

OMG stop whining if you think she's your get a test and fight to see
her. if your putting half as much effort into that as you are trying to
justify your views to us you should have no problems

can we say pity party?

your not shallow in my opinion. you just know what you want. we all have
standards whether we admit it or not. i like my women to be eye candy.
if that offends someone, oh well. its probably because their not much
for looks.

Um... YOU want your women to be eye candy? Have you taken a glance in
the mirror? I know I'm not quite a ten, and I'm not sayin I'm the sh!t
or anything. I'm just sayin ur chances with 'eye candy' are only as big
as your wallet...

whatever.