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Topic: SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 17
IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Wed 10/06/10 11:11 PM
I don't know the answer. My wife moved out quite sometime ago, she has started a new life, we are not divorced. I have yet to date, what do I do? And am I taken because I'm still married? Personally, I would say yes. What to do is GET the divorce, gain physical AND emotional closure, then think about dating. JMO

yoitbeme Joined Wed 08/25/10 Posts: 24	Wed 10/06/10 11:21 PM
Thanks, I think that if I had a physical relationship with a woman that I would be cheating, even though we live separately many miles apart. Doesn't matter though, I can't even find a woman who wants to be a friend.

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Wed 10/06/10 11:54 PM
Thanks, I think that if I had a physical relationship with a woman that I would be cheating, even though we live separately many miles apart. Doesn't matter though, I can't even find a woman who wants to be a friend. There should be no problem being friends (?), but just not commitment until old commitments are closed. I commend you for that frame of mind though, it says alot about your character. I felt like that for quite a while even after the divorce, even though it was done it just didn't feel right being with someone else. Before you can truly move on, you have to have a clear mind and heart to accept someone else.

yoitbeme Joined Wed 08/25/10 Posts: 24	Thu 10/07/10 12:26 AM
Thanks for the kind words of support, you have a wisdom of relationships. I agree. Then the difficult task. Once people get to know me, they think "hey. you're not bad"

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Thu 10/07/10 03:41 AM
Single forever!! Upon reading the above statement, the young single men began to

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Thu 10/07/10 04:12 AM
Single. Still.

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Thu 10/07/10 06:55 AM
Single. Sips a drink Ahh, the good life.

flawlessmeans Joined Tue 12/29/09 Posts: 2019	Thu 10/07/10 03:36 PM
Single and unfortunitaly too buisy at the moment to be dateing.

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Thu 10/07/10 06:14 PM
Single. Sips a drink Ahh, the good life. lol

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48961	Thu 10/07/10 06:49 PM
Single. Sips a drink Ahh, the good life. said the heart-breaker.

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Thu 10/07/10 06:51 PM
not sure.

flawlessmeans Joined Tue 12/29/09 Posts: 2019	Thu 10/07/10 07:20 PM
not sure. How are you not sure?

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Thu 10/07/10 08:38 PM
Single. Sips a drink Ahh, the good life. lol

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Thu 10/07/10 08:39 PM
Single. Sips a drink Ahh, the good life. said the heart-breaker. It's okay. It's when I turn 30 when I start breaking down crying if I'm still single.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 10/07/10 08:41 PM Edited by buttons on Thu 10/07/10 08:53 PM
hell im outta here lol! ok no way........ my mingle mutual match has taken my heart im affraid! and scared to death! im gonna just go with the flow!.... omg... i cant believe i am though after a month i really have absolutely no interest in even dating anyone else.. best dates in yrs and best time together. im really a digging him! hope it keeps going... and the best part? i dont have any doubt that it wont be! i'll say this again.... if it took 40 mutual matches <that never talked> to have one date with him.... it was well worth it!!!!!!!!!!!! though its much more than that! and many more to come!! no doubt in that... for the friendship has been built... and a definite connection like i have not had in humm 8 yrs? yea ! i learned to be picky! and thank you mingle!!!!!!!! lol ps......... he doesn't know how to read the forums!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 10/07/10 08:55 PM
lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!! i might teach him next month!!!!!

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Thu 10/07/10 09:06 PM
.............i learned to be picky! and thank you mingle!!!!!!!! lol ps......... he doesn't know how to read the forums! ah, so brains really don't matter? ...you know i'm just playing with ya! i hope it all works out for you...

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45420	Thu 10/07/10 09:27 PM Edited by soufiehere on Thu 10/07/10 09:30 PM
hell im outta here lol! ok no way........ my mingle mutual match has taken my heart im affraid! and scared to death! im gonna just go with the flow!.... omg... i cant believe i am though after a month i really have absolutely no interest in even dating anyone else.. best dates in yrs and best time together. im really a digging him! hope it keeps going... and the best part? i dont have any doubt that it wont be! i'll say this again.... if it took 40 mutual matches <that never talked> to have one date with him.... it was well worth it!!!!!!!!!!!! though its much more than that! and many more to come!! no doubt in that... for the friendship has been built... and a definite connection like i have not had in humm 8 yrs? yea ! i learned to be picky! and thank you mingle!!!!!!!! lol ps......... he doesn't know how to read the forums! hahahahaha I wondered :-)

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Thu 10/07/10 09:29 PM
not sure. How are you not sure? Ask yourself this question: What is certain about women? . .. ... .... silence...yeah, that' exactly my point.

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Thu 10/07/10 11:03 PM Edited by IndigoIllusions on Thu 10/07/10 11:24 PM
not sure. How are you not sure? Ask yourself this question: What is certain about women? . .. ... .... silence...yeah, that' exactly my point. Yeah, kind of how I feel about some of the guys. Tried with 3 in the past couple years, all 3 turned out to be lying cheaters. Meeting someone new tomorrow, hopefully this one will be different. ...and that isn't counting several that I talked to through email and phone, that turned out to be playing games and lying about different little things.