Topic: Looking at profiles
Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:53 PM


Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


Nah, you're just too funny, cool, and intelligent for most... lol


Hi Christina! waving

Christinacospgs's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:55 PM



Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


Nah, you're just too funny, cool, and intelligent for most... lol


Hi Christina! waving


:heart: Hiya back, been awhile

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:56 PM




Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


Nah, you're just too funny, cool, and intelligent for most... lol


Hi Christina! waving


:heart: Hiya back, been awhile


Yeah! How was you vacation away from mingle? :smile:

Christinacospgs's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:59 PM
I've missed Mingle - nice to be done with the students for awhile! Whoo hoo!

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 07:09 PM

I've missed Mingle - nice to be done with the students for awhile! Whoo hoo!


I know a few teachers around here, they can't wait until the vacation starts.

freeonthree's photo
Sat 06/05/10 07:11 PM

Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


I look and run alot, but thats because they say something like they love hiking and dancing, and I have a artificial leg, or they say no smokers, and I smoke, or they want someone for marriage, and I got nuthin to offer there. I'd just like to find someone, who would like to go riding once in a while, and be friends. Dennis

hmlover's photo
Sat 06/05/10 07:14 PM

I look and run alot...


I do the same, but it's usually because they live so far away from me... though I've been known to send an email anyway...

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/05/10 07:18 PM


I look and run alot...


I do the same, but it's usually because they live so far away from me... though I've been known to send an email anyway...


I have made some great friends that way...some male friends that I would call if I were ever in their town. So, it doesn't just have to be a "romantic" connection.

DrRob's photo
Sat 06/05/10 07:24 PM


Hummmmmmmm question is out of all those that viewed you how many did you view back and not leave a message either???whoa



Finally! Someone who said exactly what I wanted to hear! :banana:

Yeah I was trolling like a fisherman for this question. I think many women automatically think that by "viewing" a guy's profile, the guy will think that it's a "sign" of attention.

Wrong. And why is that?

Because if you just "pop in" to view a profile, perhaps some other guys will jump on you, but not me. If you really want something, you better be emailing me or at least send a nudge, since most women say the same that "I want an email and not just a view of my profile".

Am I right or wrong?


id agree with you..considering thats how i feel too...just because they look doesnt mean anything.
its when they actually email that it counts.

btw,why are you complaining?...youve got friends here,your topics and people actually answer your posts.?
thats more than most of us.well guys anyways..esp me.
i wish anyone talked about me like lori talks about you..know what i mean?

good luck,at any rate.


Fade2Black's photo
Sat 06/05/10 08:08 PM

Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


Yep. That's what it means. pitchfork












rofl rofl rofl rofl

Goofball73's photo
Sat 06/05/10 09:41 PM
I get perved in stealth mode, and then the chicks write and say, "Hi. I perved ya". Well gee. Thanks for telling me you came in my backdoor.noway laugh

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 09:43 PM


Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


It's definitely not just you. Most who view my profile don't contact me either.


I wrote back to you! And I know that you wanted my head on a plate one time. laugh :smile:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 06/05/10 10:47 PM

i wish anyone talked about me like lori talks about you..know what i mean?

good luck,at any rate.




We just aren't " beautiful " or " gorgeous " dude.

We just make the best of it.

Always cracks me up to see someone pissing and moaning about women actually viewing the profile.

I was here for over a year and got exactly THREE views.

Fishing seems to come to mind.

Totage's photo
Sat 06/05/10 10:52 PM

Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


I usually just send them a message and say hi if I notice them noticing me and I like what I see. 18 out of 20 don't responde, 1 out 20 may give a "pity" response. 20 out of 20 read the message, or atleast it gets marked as read.

chelsea466's photo
Sun 06/06/10 06:39 PM
I have been thinking the same thing..

Out of 20 people 1 of them will possibly sent me a message... I didn't think I was think intimidating. I just like put it out there and you can either take it or leave it..ohwell

no photo
Sun 06/06/10 06:43 PM
All view but never a HELLO very sad2 Then wonder why nobody meets their special one

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 06/06/10 06:43 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Sun 06/06/10 06:47 PM


i wish anyone talked about me like lori talks about you..know what i mean?

good luck,at any rate.




We just aren't " beautiful " or " gorgeous " dude.

We just make the best of it.

Always cracks me up to see someone pissing and moaning about women actually viewing the profile.

I was here for over a year and got exactly THREE views.

Fishing seems to come to mind.


Not that "gorgeous" and "dude" comments got me very far now, did it? LOL and it's you who have a profile picture with a woman in it now..how is that for being a hypocrite? whoa And just what is your problem with me anyway, I noticed how tightly you criticize anything I post. sad2

You know, don't think that I didn't email a bunch of people and my usual emails aren't 2 words....but usually spend about 20 minutes writing each.

I also had months that I had zero views, regardless of how much I posted or what I changed..it didn't matter. Not to mention the "lookers" are - I have to say - don't mean a damn thing.

My replies? Sometimes I get 1 or 2 (out of 10 emails sent out) but that's like "good luck to you" or "wish I lived closer" or "you shouldn't be single".. and then that's it. If i follow up on it, most of the time I get a silence or a similar repeat of the same old "you will find someone" and similar comments.

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 06/06/10 06:57 PM
I'll just perve ya, Atlantis, since we aren't closer. :tongue:

Christinacospgs's photo
Sun 06/06/10 07:01 PM



i wish anyone talked about me like lori talks about you..know what i mean?

good luck,at any rate.




We just aren't " beautiful " or " gorgeous " dude.

We just make the best of it.

Always cracks me up to see someone pissing and moaning about women actually viewing the profile.

I was here for over a year and got exactly THREE views.

Fishing seems to come to mind.


Not that "gorgeous" and "dude" comments got me very far now, did it? LOL and it's you who have a profile picture with a woman in it now..how is that for being a hypocrite? whoa And just what is your problem with me anyway, I noticed how tightly you criticize anything I post. sad2

You know, don't think that I didn't email a bunch of people and my usual emails aren't 2 words....but usually spend about 20 minutes writing each.

I also had months that I had zero views, regardless of how much I posted or what I changed..it didn't matter. Not to mention the "lookers" are - I have to say - don't mean a damn thing.

My replies? Sometimes I get 1 or 2 (out of 10 emails sent out) but that's like "good luck to you" or "wish I lived closer" or "you shouldn't be single".. and then that's it. If i follow up on it, most of the time I get a silence or a similar repeat of the same old "you will find someone" and similar comments.


Hey, I always respond to you, and you know I mean it when I say I wished you lived closer. I even invited you to go hiking! Can't believe you couldn't make that...flowerforyou We do love you, ya know... ya stinker

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 06/06/10 07:07 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Sun 06/06/10 07:08 PM




i wish anyone talked about me like lori talks about you..know what i mean?

good luck,at any rate.




We just aren't " beautiful " or " gorgeous " dude.

We just make the best of it.

Always cracks me up to see someone pissing and moaning about women actually viewing the profile.

I was here for over a year and got exactly THREE views.

Fishing seems to come to mind.


Not that "gorgeous" and "dude" comments got me very far now, did it? LOL and it's you who have a profile picture with a woman in it now..how is that for being a hypocrite? whoa And just what is your problem with me anyway, I noticed how tightly you criticize anything I post. sad2

You know, don't think that I didn't email a bunch of people and my usual emails aren't 2 words....but usually spend about 20 minutes writing each.

I also had months that I had zero views, regardless of how much I posted or what I changed..it didn't matter. Not to mention the "lookers" are - I have to say - don't mean a damn thing.

My replies? Sometimes I get 1 or 2 (out of 10 emails sent out) but that's like "good luck to you" or "wish I lived closer" or "you shouldn't be single".. and then that's it. If i follow up on it, most of the time I get a silence or a similar repeat of the same old "you will find someone" and similar comments.


Hey, I always respond to you, and you know I mean it when I say I wished you lived closer. I even invited you to go hiking! Can't believe you couldn't make that...flowerforyou We do love you, ya know... ya stinker


flowerforyou LOL.. well..you are in Colorado! Of course I don't mean it..when most of my repliers are from Texas, Colorado and California. The closest person here where I could actually drive to date would be Newarkjw, but even he is at about 3hrs away with 2 bridge tolls and the jerse turnpike plus a killer NYC traffic, and even if those aren't an obstacle, there is a major killer problem that he is a guy! And the last time I checked I'm still straight so there is my luck!