Topic: Looking at profiles
tanyaann's photo
Sat 06/05/10 04:31 PM

Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


winking That is one sexy avatar! And I :heart: lots of questions! Marry me! :laughing:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/05/10 04:34 PM




You have mail


Alright...I guess it's not dates I need to find first, but women who will offer me tips about potential dates.
Thanks Lorie! :smile: drinker flowerforyou


It's the mother in me that wants to help you....laugh



I think you'd end that role real quick if I would be about 10 miles down the road. laugh :tongue:



Oooooo, if you can melt my ice cream from across the country I can only imagine what you could do 10 miles apart....and I have a great imagination!! laugh :wink: :tongue:

You'll be fine..relax, she's out there for ya!!flowerforyou

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 04:35 PM


Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


winking That is one sexy avatar! And I :heart: lots of questions! Marry me! :laughing:


Do you want to marry a cartoon character? :smile:

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 06/05/10 04:57 PM
Hummmmmmmm question is out of all those that viewed you how many did you view back and not leave a message either???whoa

no photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:07 PM

Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


I get lots of views and almost none of them contact me. And when they do, it's usually to complain. Can't please everybody. Or anybody. Or something.

At least I made sure that there's a whole bunch of stuff to read in it.


tanyaann's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:12 PM



Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


winking That is one sexy avatar! And I :heart: lots of questions! Marry me! :laughing:


Do you want to marry a cartoon character? :smile:


Yep! bigsmile

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:17 PM

Got me all curious so i took a peek.

Sorry, Im just a busybody. I nose about but mean no harm or disrespect.



Who are you apologizing to? And it's a dating site..peeking is allowed

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:25 PM



Got me all curious so i took a peek.

Sorry, Im just a busybody. I nose about but mean no harm or disrespect.



Who are you apologizing to? And it's a dating site..peeking is allowed


Im apologizing to Mr. Atlantis. Peeking is technically allowed but many folks read more communication into it. I am sure that out of all the folks who peek, there are at least a portion who mean it as communication...like, 'Im letting you see me lookin on purpose' rather than MY excuse, 'Im too lazy to go into stealth mode'


oh, he's beautiful isn't he?

mssilverfox's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:38 PM





No, it means so so intimidating that they are afraid to approach you.



Good! :banana:

I need a woman with a set of steel labia majoras, since they can't have a set of balls. :smile:


Just with your threads and your posts...it's intimidating to some. Think about some of the topics you post...were friends so I get it. A stranger would see such things and possibly feel..hummm, could I reach this person. He's seems so jaded, un reachable, un touchable.

I have gotten emails telling me such things...and I know I'm a good person. I know you are too. It's a process...


I can't figure out why I would be intimidating. frustrated


Because your deep and gorgeous...your topics are deep, many want simple. And your physical attractiveness is also intimidating. Men are not the only ones who feel intimidated to approach an attractive women, women feel it also. I don't, but maybe the younger do.
Anyone who can melt my ice cream from over a thousand mile away..is
attractive enough to be intimidating to some. laugh :wink:
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Yep, I was just going to say all of that! bigsmile flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:38 PM





Got me all curious so i took a peek.

Sorry, Im just a busybody. I nose about but mean no harm or disrespect.



Who are you apologizing to? And it's a dating site..peeking is allowed


Im apologizing to Mr. Atlantis. Peeking is technically allowed but many folks read more communication into it. I am sure that out of all the folks who peek, there are at least a portion who mean it as communication...like, 'Im letting you see me lookin on purpose' rather than MY excuse, 'Im too lazy to go into stealth mode'


oh, he's beautiful isn't he?


sure sure Im just sayin...he was one of those folks who read more into it so I dinnut want ta be rude n such

meh, can o worms anyone?


I hear ya..he already thinks it's only the "older women" who want him and not any younger, so now he'll think you want him too....he's delusional. Besides he reads too much into everything...one of those kind of thinkers.

Yeah, were talking about ya in your own thread Ferenc....laugh

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:41 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Sat 06/05/10 05:44 PM



Got me all curious so i took a peek.

Sorry, Im just a busybody. I nose about but mean no harm or disrespect.



Who are you apologizing to? And it's a dating site..peeking is allowed


Im apologizing to Mr. Atlantis. Peeking is technically allowed but many folks read more communication into it. I am sure that out of all the folks who peek, there are at least a portion who mean it as communication...like, 'Im letting you see me lookin on purpose' rather than MY excuse, 'Im too lazy to go into stealth mode'


If I would really care about privacy relating to this discussion, I would have done it in emails. So far 216 people have clicked on it and probably have read at least the first post of the topic, so no worries! flowerforyou




I hear ya..he already thinks it's only the "older women" who want him and not any younger, so now he'll think you want him too....he's delusional. Besides he reads too much into everything...one of those kind of thinkers.

Yeah, were talking about ya in your own thread Ferenc....laugh


Now you gonna read my mind eh?grumble What is it saying right now? :angel:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:44 PM
Yup, lots of lookers...you know who your friends are winking

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:50 PM

Hummmmmmmm question is out of all those that viewed you how many did you view back and not leave a message either???whoa



Finally! Someone who said exactly what I wanted to hear! :banana:

Yeah I was trolling like a fisherman for this question. I think many women automatically think that by "viewing" a guy's profile, the guy will think that it's a "sign" of attention.

Wrong. And why is that?

Because if you just "pop in" to view a profile, perhaps some other guys will jump on you, but not me. If you really want something, you better be emailing me or at least send a nudge, since most women say the same that "I want an email and not just a view of my profile".

Am I right or wrong?

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:10 PM

Its not about right r wrong, its Im a loon and so are you, who among you will dare to poke me with the message stick?


So you think I'm a loon? shocked

no photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:15 PM

Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


It's definitely not just you. Most who view my profile don't contact me either.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:16 PM




Got me all curious so i took a peek.

Sorry, Im just a busybody. I nose about but mean no harm or disrespect.



Who are you apologizing to? And it's a dating site..peeking is allowed


Im apologizing to Mr. Atlantis. Peeking is technically allowed but many folks read more communication into it. I am sure that out of all the folks who peek, there are at least a portion who mean it as communication...like, 'Im letting you see me lookin on purpose' rather than MY excuse, 'Im too lazy to go into stealth mode'


If I would really care about privacy relating to this discussion, I would have done it in emails. So far 216 people have clicked on it and probably have read at least the first post of the topic, so no worries! flowerforyou




I hear ya..he already thinks it's only the "older women" who want him and not any younger, so now he'll think you want him too....he's delusional. Besides he reads too much into everything...one of those kind of thinkers.

Yeah, were talking about ya in your own thread Ferenc....laugh


Now you gonna read my mind eh?grumble What is it saying right now? :angel:


pffft. I can read your mind...sometimes. Those comments I posted have nothing to do with mind reading, you have posted that the "over 50 " crowd the ones interested in you...

doh..no mystery there!

skydancingA's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:25 PM
I hope this lessens your paranoia.

I click on profiles every time that
person says something of interest,
or funny, or deep, or something about
where they live, or their age,
anything can trigger a quick peek.

It is not perving, or qualifying in
any way.
It is pure curiosity.

Same thing when I get hits, curiosity
compels me to check who did so, but
with no agenda whatsoever.

And when you post a lot, you are going
to get the drive-bys.

So I drove by.
Sue me :heart:

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:34 PM





Got me all curious so i took a peek.

Sorry, Im just a busybody. I nose about but mean no harm or disrespect.



Who are you apologizing to? And it's a dating site..peeking is allowed


Im apologizing to Mr. Atlantis. Peeking is technically allowed but many folks read more communication into it. I am sure that out of all the folks who peek, there are at least a portion who mean it as communication...like, 'Im letting you see me lookin on purpose' rather than MY excuse, 'Im too lazy to go into stealth mode'


If I would really care about privacy relating to this discussion, I would have done it in emails. So far 216 people have clicked on it and probably have read at least the first post of the topic, so no worries! flowerforyou




I hear ya..he already thinks it's only the "older women" who want him and not any younger, so now he'll think you want him too....he's delusional. Besides he reads too much into everything...one of those kind of thinkers.

Yeah, were talking about ya in your own thread Ferenc....laugh


Now you gonna read my mind eh?grumble What is it saying right now? :angel:


pffft. I can read your mind...sometimes. Those comments I posted have nothing to do with mind reading, you have posted that the "over 50 " crowd the ones interested in you...

doh..no mystery there!


It's a fact. That's why I removed images of me from my photos with a facial hair. There is one there now just for references.

Christinacospgs's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:47 PM

Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw? laugh


Nah, you're just too funny, cool, and intelligent for most... lol

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/05/10 06:52 PM






Got me all curious so i took a peek.

Sorry, Im just a busybody. I nose about but mean no harm or disrespect.



Who are you apologizing to? And it's a dating site..peeking is allowed


Im apologizing to Mr. Atlantis. Peeking is technically allowed but many folks read more communication into it. I am sure that out of all the folks who peek, there are at least a portion who mean it as communication...like, 'Im letting you see me lookin on purpose' rather than MY excuse, 'Im too lazy to go into stealth mode'


If I would really care about privacy relating to this discussion, I would have done it in emails. So far 216 people have clicked on it and probably have read at least the first post of the topic, so no worries! flowerforyou




I hear ya..he already thinks it's only the "older women" who want him and not any younger, so now he'll think you want him too....he's delusional. Besides he reads too much into everything...one of those kind of thinkers.

Yeah, were talking about ya in your own thread Ferenc....laugh


Now you gonna read my mind eh?grumble What is it saying right now? :angel:


pffft. I can read your mind...sometimes. Those comments I posted have nothing to do with mind reading, you have posted that the "over 50 " crowd the ones interested in you...

doh..no mystery there!


It's a fact. That's why I removed images of me from my photos with a facial hair. There is one there now just for references.


Yeah I know...just like all I get are the 38 and under crowd...and yes, I don't like you anymore without the facial hair, so maybe it's working.