Let's say I can count 20 "profile views" on my account. And out of 20, I get zero messages. Does it mean, that out of the 20 who looked, none of them liked what they saw?

No, it means so so intimidating that they are afraid to approach you.
You have become un approachable Atlantis....welcome to my world!

I love the headline on your profile, that is was so funny! Thanks, I needed that!

Good!

I need a woman with a set of steel labia majoras, since they can't have a set of balls.

yeah...it's a true story, not even making it up!

Just with your threads and your posts...it's intimidating to some. Think about some of the topics you post...were friends so I get it. A stranger would see such things and possibly feel..hummm, could I reach this person. He's seems so jaded, un reachable, un touchable.

I have gotten emails telling me such things...and I know I'm a good person. I know you are too. It's a process...

I can't figure out why I would be intimidating.

Because your deep and gorgeous...your topics are deep, many want simple. And your physical attractiveness is also intimidating. Men are not the only ones who feel intimidated to approach an attractive women, women feel it also. I don't, but maybe the younger do.
Anyone who can melt my ice cream from over a thousand mile away..is
attractive enough to be intimidating to some.

Woah, I like that!

but aren't those things supposed to be good traits?

Yeah, they are for me...and many women. Maybe you should stop looking at the 19 year olds...you may frighten them. Get past the physical and look a little deeper. And don't say you do, cause you know deep down inside you want arm candy, most men your age do. Not that your like everyone else..but you know what I mean.

Look at the heart...that's really what ya end up living with later.
So many look first, then get to know the personality and heart. I realize on the net we have to start with the initial picture...when I look at profiles, I read, I look for key words or phrases that jump out at me. Even if he looks like Antonio Banderas..if the key phrases aren't there..I'm moving on.

Did you ever contact the one I sent you the email about? Remember???
Soon as I got to know her, you are the first person I thought of. She's deep, intelligent, beautiful heart...and gorgeous. maybe YOU were intimidated by her.

If I'm thinking who you are thinking then no she didn't intimidate me whatsoever. She just kinda disappeared one day.

She's still around...did you ever talk (email) with her?

Is this a person you know personally and lives in the same state as you ?

No....

She is not a good match for you. I emailed you some time ago about this one. Never mind. I'll send another email.

You have mail

Alright...I guess it's not dates I need to find first, but women who will offer me tips about potential dates.
Thanks Lorie!

William Shatner called ... his buddy 'Big Deal' got y'all a great price on a room ...

It's the mother in me that wants to help you....

Oh, and there is no e on the end of my name, now I'm deeply hurt.

ha, the thought of that is sooo intimidating to me. Atlantis scares me

I think you'd end that role real quick if I would be about 10 miles down the road.



Yeah but I like your name that way better.