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Does this mean there will be no milk chicken bomb? Haha brilliant! Clearly, I need to get out more. I am not familiar with such traditions. lol well im ok with this idea~! |
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oh blah!!!!!!!!!!!!!! drama!
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yup sure is thanks
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so i went on my friends facebook that owes me the money i told her she can start making payments to mek or pay the whole thing or or i can look into small claims court this was her reply " really you dont have to be mean, you know that I have been without a job too, I have been working parttime. and babysitting, trying my best. you need to quite talking to people like this. I will get your money to you $60 by the 15th. we have lost 1200 a month. we are trying to get caught up on things too. wow I thought you were a friend. guess not .you get your money!!!!!!" i always told her she could pay me back in installments and im the mean person? good to know I think she should have been showing an effort by paying you something each week or month. 5 bucks or something at a wack. That would at least show good faith. |
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so i went on my friends facebook that owes me the money i told her she can start making payments to mek or pay the whole thing or or i can look into small claims court this was her reply " really you dont have to be mean, you know that I have been without a job too, I have been working parttime. and babysitting, trying my best. you need to quite talking to people like this. I will get your money to you $60 by the 15th. we have lost 1200 a month. we are trying to get caught up on things too. wow I thought you were a friend. guess not .you get your money!!!!!!" i always told her she could pay me back in installments and im the mean person? good to know I think she should have been showing an effort by paying you something each week or month. 5 bucks or something at a wack. That would at least show good faith. i always told her i would work something out with her to do payments.like i never hounded her |
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love with no expectation of anything in return
only loan $$$ to family to everyone else, if you can't give it, just say no, I am sorry, I only loan money to family - (what my gramma taught me) |
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See, this is what I see as the problem. Everyone lets people get away with things. I'm not against letting someone borrow money, but to just shrug it off is kind of a sad thing. We gripe about the morals of people, and the apparent lack of responsibility but ya'll are your own problems if you're shrugging it off and not expecting and demanding those people to pay you back. No wonder something as extreme as a murderer essentially gets away with it. He or she knows he will. No one will truly be expecting him/her much less demanding him/her be truly punished for the deed. "If you aren't going to stand for something, then you'll fall for everything" comes to mind reading this, and seeing people just telling the OP to write it off. She tried to do a good deed, and deserves to get paid back. To tell her to ignore it, is basically telling her she's not much better then a doormat and to heck with it. It's a simple respect issue. thanks a lot!  i was raised and taught that when you loan somebody money you will get it back im not going to just let it go,she said multiple times that she would pay me back and i told her several times that she could make small payments and she never did but deiced to run out and buy concert tickets but yet she told me she was struggling.
and as for slander,no i never ever said anything negative about her,or her character i told her she can pay my back or do it in payments or ill take her to court.i said nothing about her being a bad person at all. so yes im fine the friendship ended but im not just gonna forget about b.c she was a friend at the time she always says shes hard up for cash but goes and spends money on concert tickets? when every time i spoke to her she always promised to pay me back its been 3 months sense i gave her the money and she always told me id get the money back but 3 months went by with the same story so no,im not just going to let it go. after all the things i did to help her out to get back on her feet and she tried to turn around the next day and ask if she could borrow 300 dollars for me. it is a matter of her being a friend and respecting me and obviously she choose to spend her money on things like concert tickets but she told me shes struggling interesting..how respectful of her to keep to her word.. |
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See, this is what I see as the problem. Everyone lets people get away with things. I'm not against letting someone borrow money, but to just shrug it off is kind of a sad thing. We gripe about the morals of people, and the apparent lack of responsibility but ya'll are your own problems if you're shrugging it off and not expecting and demanding those people to pay you back. No wonder something as extreme as a murderer essentially gets away with it. He or she knows he will. No one will truly be expecting him/her much less demanding him/her be truly punished for the deed. "If you aren't going to stand for something, then you'll fall for everything" comes to mind reading this, and seeing people just telling the OP to write it off. She tried to do a good deed, and deserves to get paid back. To tell her to ignore it, is basically telling her she's not much better then a doormat and to heck with it. It's a simple respect issue. thanks a lot! i was raised and taught that when you loan somebody money you will get it back im not going to just let it go,she said multiple times that she would pay me back and i told her several times that she could make small payments and she never did but deiced to run out and buy concert tickets but yet she told me she was struggling.
and as for slander,no i never ever said anything negative about her,or her character i told her she can pay my back or do it in payments or ill take her to court.i said nothing about her being a bad person at all. so yes im fine the friendship ended but im not just gonna forget about b.c she was a friend at the time she always says shes hard up for cash but goes and spends money on concert tickets? when every time i spoke to her she always promised to pay me back its been 3 months sense i gave her the money and she always told me id get the money back but 3 months went by with the same story so no,im not just going to let it go. after all the things i did to help her out to get back on her feet and she tried to turn around the next day and ask if she could borrow 300 dollars for me. it is a matter of her being a friend and respecting me and obviously she choose to spend her money on things like concert tickets but she told me shes struggling interesting..how respectful of her to keep to her word.. no i did notice that but wasnt meaning too i did find out she bough a ring owes somebody else 200 bucks and mentioned about going to an amusement park down here |
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I have a friend that owes me about $2,500(i converted for you cos i know most dont know the value of a pound). Whilst i know i will get it back, its has been a pain in the bum, i will lend much more carefully in future if i ever do again.
That being said, i owe another friend of mine about $30k! But then i have never missed an instalment, and the debt is backed up in bricks and mortar so its not as severe as it sounds. |
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my suggestion is.. i would steer away from this friend, for she will bring that drama in your life.. and no one needs that. at this point there is not much reason to even mention it again.. im sure if you reminded her as many times as you have she hasnt forgotten. but i would assume you arent going to get your money back. if you do it obviously isnt when u wanted to get it back.maybe cut the contact a real friend would come back and contact you and pay you. try and forget about it.. maybe go find something to do to replace the money that you lost.
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What it all comes down to you have a few choices........
Take her to small claims court you most likely will win the case. But ......in doing so unless she has like a house or property then no lien and be put against her. The most that will happen is it will show that she owes it but still does not mean she will pay it. And you will have to pay for the court cost they charge. You can chalk it up and still be friends with them after wards. Or you can chalk it up figuring you will no longer see the money, But in the long run get rid of the friend. Due to a real friend will pay you back......... It is all up to the person that is dealing with it for everyone does it different..... The friend I loaned money to after 23 years of us being friends. I finally got almost half of it back then he quit answering his phone when I called. And I did not always ask him for the money I knew it would not do any good. So figured that if he wanted to let something like that come between the friendship then so be it........I will help you out the way I see it he made that choice and I will help him comply to it. I don't need friends like that.... |
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Hummmm but what gets me is when you hear someone complain about someone not paying them back but yet they owe money they have not paid back to another person!!!
 
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Hummmm but what gets me is when you hear someone complain about someone not paying them back but yet they owe money they have not paid back to another person!!!
yeah after i originally had made this posting i had found out from a mutual friend that she owed them $200 bucks but was bragging to the mutual friend about buying a ring and possible going to an amusement park.we were sharing info about this mutual friend that owes us money so we agree that this person that owes us money has a definite spending problem of some sort. |
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