Let's say a woman shows a lot of interest by asking how I am, what I'm doing, and sends text messages almost daily about what's happening or what I'm doing etc...

And yet avoids to meet (for an ice cream or to see a movie for example) at all cost? I have met her in person before and she acted very neutral, avoided all topics related to relationships and meeting again, only could talk about everyday topics..if one topic was headed toward dates or love etc..she changed the subject immediately.

I figured she is not interested so I didn't even try to push anything, but soon as I stopped responding to her text messages, she got all worried? And every time I ask when she is free again..she gives a day, but soon as the day approaches, she comes up with an excuse (busy,still working,other things to do etc.)

Even she comes up with a day and tells me, which day would be good, but just when the day comes, she comes up with an excuse again.

She did this 4 times now in a row.

What the hell does she want from me?

Are you women all like that? What am I supposed to do or say..I'm lost.

I dunno, maybe she is confused or is having difficulties she isnt ready to discuss. Or you r a back up plan? I dunno, since I dunno what kind of girl she is.

If she isn't wanting to meet you again (which I can not for the life of me even imagine) then she just isn't that into you. Possibly she has another guy she's seeing and is in the process of making a decision and doesn't want to let go completely, or she is just a game player and wants to string you along for some ego driven purpose.
Either way..she isn't into you or she would WANT to be with you.
Same for men..if a man is interested he will find a way, make it happen.

No, not all women do this, but you already know that.. just as all men don't.

Bottom line...if someone is interested, they will want to be with you!

4 times in a row...have you asked her what the hell she wants from you???

maybe she's using you and your attention (even subconsciously) for an ego-boost?

Yeah, time to be direct and ask her straight up what gives!?

perhaps she's still in doubt about going further than just friendship? sometimes women just want some company like going to movies, dining out, etc.

It is Disneyland my friend....Even after the preliminary things that you do, such as a ton of emails, a lot of phone calls, and even a few meetings happen....It isn't until you meet and are eyes to eyes, and that great connection happens........

Don't get me wrong.....It's fun, exciting, real in the head, and maybe even the heart to a certain extent. But until the connection of the heart is real as you are holding them and looking deep into their soul. I just don't think it is more than that.

I was about to say the same exact thing...

I agree, that HAS happened to me. Therefore the Disneyland theme.
I also have been lucky to have had people in my life from here that I do know as the real deal....For them I am greatful

No matter what her "reasons" are for her actions, she is acting like a wacko who doesn't know what she really wants. That spells trouble in my book. Ask her what the story is. And if you don't get a straight answer, dump her and move on.

Giving her the benefit of doubt, she might be nervous, scared but either way I would move her out of the "possible relationship lane" and into the "just friends lane" and if she doesn't have enough on her side to keep a friendship or for you want want a friendship then I'd move on down the highway...

I am thinking Paper is right and it's an ego boost thing.. I'm sure you have better things to do with your day..

You should say what you said to us...Go up to her and say, " What the hell do you want from me?"
I bet you will get an answer then

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She wants nothing from you, other than maybe some attention. C'mon, I am sure you have talked to girls you were not really interested in either because of a.) to boost your confidence, cuz you were having a bad day, been turned down by someone, bad day at work... or b.) cuz you were bored and horny and there was no one else to talk to. Anyways, she talks to you cuz she's bored or needs an egoboost, but as soon as she has to put in some 'effort', (i.E. meeting you and make time for you), she bails. She's a waste of your time. She's prolly playing a few guys like that.
Guys can be the same way, by the way. With them its about sex usually. The real horny ones only call ya or contact you when they want some.
Alot of men use women for sex and alot of women use men for attention and vice versa.

As far as confronting her and asking her "WTF you want from me" well , I don't think that will produce a valid answer.
Actions speak louder than words! If she was into u, she'd show it by meeting up with you again. Instead she sticks with the non-commital conversations when she needs her ego stroked.

Is she hot?..............

I have already met her twice, the closest she was to me was sitting next to me in my car.

I start to think she is afraid of me big time. I just remembered, that she wouldn't even tell me that she had to pee really bad, just like in the last moment she looked at me almost sweating and told me to "could you pull into that McDonalds really quick?" with a panicked face. And that was like RIGHT next to the McDonalds..I basically had to slam on the brake and do some manouvering to pull in. I thought she was gonna throw up or a much bigger emergency then I asked her "why didn't you tell me earlier..she didn't answer. Same thing with food....and it was like 7pm already and she asked me if I could just pull in to this hot dog place...and I'm looking at her...because we already discussed that we gonna go to this restaurant..but that was like another hour away..she basically just said, that she haven't eaten anything all day (and the day before?) and almost passing out.

I'm like..I gotta pull everything out of her with pliers almost..

...I mean...Jesus........am I that scary?

Wow, let see...she almost pees in her pants, didn't eat for 2 days and then stood you up 4 times? Sounds like she's the SCARY one! No offense....lol

I've heard it said that shy-ness is a turn on for men so I can see the challenge in this for you.... Sounds beyond the normal cute shy-ness...either way she keeps standing you up. You've been around her, it can't be that mind boggling to figure out, you should be picking up on some energy from her by now. I'm not buying the scary intimidating bit.

Oh yeah I do pick up energy..it feels like weird energy..she is also isn't honest...

oh well...last 3 years..I haven't met a lot of honest down to earth women, that's for sure.

Bingo EXACTLY what I was thinking