Topic: At 40, with no experience...what should i expect?
DBR70's photo
Mon 05/17/10 06:55 AM

question..why are you in mexico,esp if you arent fluent in the language....
im curious as to how you ended up there.
and why you are staying there as well.



My mom wanted to move to Mexico because she thought we'd have a higher standered of living. I have to go where she goes. There was more of us ( my sister and her family) but there was some sort of falling out between my mom and sister, so now its just me and mom here. but everyone in my family seems to think that i'll have more freedom here because of less crime in Cozumel. So its safer for me to walk around without them being afraid for my saftey.

(Questions like this make me wish there was some way i could invite any of yall to my Facebook, if i could just PM one of yall and send a link. I've been asked these questions before, but everytime i answer, it's just unbelievable, if yall could just see my Facebook, though.)

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Mon 05/17/10 07:28 AM
Am really sorry 2 hear dat.First beliv in urslf,build ur confidence..Start making moves to lady whc u lack b4 okei no sin gettin 2 knw ladies.2 DONT BE DEPRESS 3.BELIV u stil have a gud chance and life ahead 4.Do attend more social gatherin the more u do tļe

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Mon 05/17/10 07:30 AM
Mail me if you are in need of my assistance

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Mon 05/17/10 07:35 AM

question..why are you in mexico,esp if you arent fluent in the language....
im curious as to how you ended up there.
and why you are staying there as well.


laugh I found this rather amusing asking a member why they live where they live laugh


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Mon 05/17/10 08:22 AM
There are social sites on the web that are for people with varying diabilities, are you on govt asssistance- is that why you were tested?
I had a accident in 91 and had cog difficulties so couldn't work for years. Being home, played around alot and found the site am talking about. There were people there who had all sorts disabilities, including Ashbergers. You could hook up with a few people there who are (were) in your situation, learn from them how they handled life.
I met quite a few nice people. Contact me here and I'll give you the name of one of them which is very decent, or you can search yourself. There people knew from the experience inside out to help identify and problem solve.

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Mon 05/17/10 08:57 AM


question..why are you in mexico,esp if you arent fluent in the language....
im curious as to how you ended up there.
and why you are staying there as well.


laugh I found this rather amusing asking a member why they live where they live laugh


I agree!!! people ask me why I live in Nebraska all the time! Becuase rent is cheap and the sheep are free!!noway Just make the best of where U are at and do the best U can do!!!!! just DONT make a doll squeal the whole neighborhood hears it!drinker

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Mon 05/17/10 09:02 AM
Look for a store close by that sells lube ... NOT the kind you buy for your car, either ...

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Mon 05/17/10 11:45 AM
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Cinderella75's photo
Mon 05/17/10 12:55 PM

Look for a store close by that sells lube ... NOT the kind you buy for your car, either ...


whoa surprisingly... childish.

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Mon 05/17/10 01:20 PM


Look for a store close by that sells lube ... NOT the kind you buy for your car, either ...


whoa surprisingly... childish.


Just love me for what I yam ... like Popeye ... btw, it's only 'childish' if y' DON'T know which lube to use ... that 40W gets mighty 'clingy' after a while, I hear ...

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Mon 05/17/10 01:21 PM
DBR,

I don't care what they diagnosed you as having... You express yourself and your emotions perfectly here... There is no easy solution but Cozumel is a wonderful place and people visiting are generally happy to be there... make the most of them and enjoy your life, things will fall into place...

Cheers

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Mon 05/17/10 01:25 PM
I think the best thing is to flirt.. Say something nice to women.. That seems to work a lot.. Don't be aggressive.. They seem to hate that.. If they want to talk to you, you will know it..

If all else fails pay for a escort or a hooker.. (Just Kidding i think)..

DBR70's photo
Mon 05/17/10 02:25 PM

If all else fails pay for a escort or a hooker.. (Just Kidding i think)..

LOL! Even if i was that desperate, just think...where would i get the money????
I'll leave you to think of that scenreo.

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Mon 05/17/10 02:33 PM
Edited by Kings_Knight on Mon 05/17/10 02:34 PM


If all else fails pay for a escort or a hooker.. (Just Kidding i think)..


LOL! Even if i was that desperate, just think...where would i get the money????
I'll leave you to think of that scenreo.


(Psssst ... over here ... it's called 'barter' ... )

DBR70's photo
Mon 05/17/10 04:02 PM



If all else fails pay for a escort or a hooker.. (Just Kidding i think)..


LOL! Even if i was that desperate, just think...where would i get the money????
I'll leave you to think of that scenreo.


(Psssst ... over here ... it's called 'barter' ... )

Well, my "barter" is my mom. she access to all the $$$$$

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Mon 05/17/10 04:12 PM

I was really feeling depressed about this. Since i never had a girlfriend because for the plain simple fact i was just "no one's type" (theyd always say i'm not thier type.) and then for the past few years until last July, i was living in the boonies, couldnt drive, unless drivin, and so it was too far to walk anywhere. and now, trying to leard a 2nd languge, which is hard. But now i'm abit worried because most women my age are married with kids, and even if they're not, they have alot more life experience than i do. I know i can't possably expect a virgin. I can say that once, my dad married a woman who was 20 years younger than him and had a son, so thats at least a glimmer of hope.
And the way i am around social gatherings like that dance on the square every Sunday night, i'm still abit shy...like im back in high school again, ive never really been around people my age since high school, or maybe collage when i last went there 1995, when i took a music class, and even then it just wasnt the same. And the churches were a differant story, they seemed to believe if a man CAN not (not just will not) provide for himself and live independantly outside of his parents home then he can not ever marry...so he doesnt even have any business dating. I never really had a friend who "fixed me up" or took me out to a singles bar or someother social gathering and coached me into talking to women. (or in this case strangers i've never met) Noone ever helped me out of that, theyd just blow it off and say, "Its just God's will you're single". Thats what i've lived with my entire life. I always had a social inn addiquitsy (if i'm using the word right), they say its aspergers. I dont know anymore, all i know is, i feel like i never recieved the kind of help i really needed and now, i'm scared it just might be too late.
you may want to see if there's a support group of any kind for people with Asperger's Syndrome. I suggest you do as much as possible for yourself and others - volunteer work if you cannot work at paid employment - at a hospital or a church. Keep taking classes - the kind of classes where you will be interacting wiht the other students like excersize, art, photography, computers. Also many churches have clubs for their members who are single. Just make friends - joining clubs/classes, volunteering and at work are the best places to do that. I'd avoid singles bars.

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Mon 05/17/10 04:13 PM


Look for a store close by that sells lube ... NOT the kind you buy for your car, either ...


whoa surprisingly... childish.
or predictably childish - that's my take on ityawn

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Mon 05/17/10 05:05 PM
LOL! Even if i was that desperate, just think...where would i get the money????
I'll leave you to think of that scenreo.


Ok i figured it out.. Borrow some money from the mums.. Find your local drug dealer, Cope some stuff (Find out what's popular in ya hood), hit the corner & make that money.. Be sure to pay ya mums back.. It's either this or start selling ya body..

I'll leave you to the scenario of what you're gonna do.. :wink:

But back to the actual topic try to find something that you like to do (Such as pool, bowling or a arcade) & hit that spot & hopefully you will interact with a girl that knows & like what you like & see what happens..

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Tue 05/18/10 03:05 AM
Edited by DrRob on Tue 05/18/10 03:07 AM

laugh I found this rather amusing asking a member why they live where they live laugh


Fascinating....surely a logical question to ask,as it relates to why he is in the situation at hand..

hrmmm
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ru9e2rTHeuk

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Tue 05/18/10 05:39 AM


Do like i did and buy a Blow up doll!! cheap effective AND they dont talk much!!noway bigsmile laugh drinker


and you can make'm squeal if you lay on top and prick'em wiff a needle....bigsmile
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