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I'm still talking to the lady I was talking about in the post I made Monday night. I have learned that maybe she just wants to be a FWB and that I dropped the L bomb way too soon. When it comes to asking for sex I'm kinda shy because I'm afraid that if I asked too soon in a friendship or relationship she would think that all I wanted was sex and nothing else. There for I usually wait until she asks or starts making sexual moves to me, well unless I'm drunk. I kinda have a wild and crazy side that comes out when I'm drunk. Do women like that when a man waits untill they want sex and lets the woman make the first move?
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Edited by
Kings_Knight
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Wed 05/12/10 11:12 AM
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" ... Whens the right time to ask for sex ... ?" ... Why, as soon as the waitress shows up at the table to take your order ... !
But seriously, I'm a bit confused here - if all you want IS sex, what's wrong with that? It's okay as long as it's put on the table (which is a whole 'nuther scenario) and disclosed fully. It's only when ONE partner wants it and the other doesn't that it becomes a problem. That's why I always order as soon as the waitress arrives ... I usually order coffee then, too ... |
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Personally I like the guy to make the move for sex.My body language lets him know I am interested in being closer-if he picks up on it that means he is in tune with me. That is pretty important to me. Just my opinion.
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Personally I like the guy to make the move for sex.My body language lets him know I am interested in being closer-if he picks up on it that means he is in tune with me. That is pretty important to me. Just my opinion. Can I interest you in some coffee ... ? |
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Hmmmmm is there a wrong time to ask for sex?
Seriously though...if you think that she is only interested in a FWB type situation, then surely she would be open to you expressing an interest in sex? If you are not sure of what she is interested in, I would clarify first though... Not all women are open about sex or give out clear signs of their intentions when it comes to sex. The easiest way to find out...ask her! I mean what's the worst that can happen? She says no? If she likes you, then yall can move past it to get to a point where she is interested in having sex. If it makes her run then odds are she wasn't really interested in you anyway. |
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Personally I like the guy to make the move for sex.My body language lets him know I am interested in being closer-if he picks up on it that means he is in tune with me. That is pretty important to me. Just my opinion. im the same way 
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This should be interesting!
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awww ^^
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And just remember- when a woman says "no", they really mean "mount me now".
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awww ^^ Can I interest you in some popcorn ... ? |
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yes i want some popcorn
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yes i want some popcorn
Cool ... walk this way ... |
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you cant steal the man's popcorn... ggeeezzzz
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you cant steal the man's popcorn... ggeeezzzz Well, sure, but he already put too much butter on it ... oh HEYYYYYY ... that gives me a MUCH better idea about how that extra butter can be used ... |
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I'm still talking to the lady I was talking about in the post I made Monday night. I have learned that maybe she just wants to be a FWB and that I dropped the L bomb way too soon. When it comes to asking for sex I'm kinda shy because I'm afraid that if I asked too soon in a friendship or relationship she would think that all I wanted was sex and nothing else. There for I usually wait until she asks or starts making sexual moves to me, well unless I'm drunk. I kinda have a wild and crazy side that comes out when I'm drunk. Do women like that when a man waits untill they want sex and lets the woman make the first move? The L bomb? Are you saying you told this lady that you just met recently that you loved her? |
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Edited by
AGoodGuy1026
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Wed 05/12/10 11:50 AM
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dude, if you have to ask you will ruin the romance of the moment... learn to "listen" to her words, but more importantly her non verbal cues and body language... meeting someone new, connecting with them... listening, observing as you interact... making your move... getting close... her breath, her smell, her touch... looking deep into her eyes... touching her hand(s)... touching the back of her neck, fingers through her hair... kissing for the first time, feeling what she wants and how she wants it... it's not the stuff of asking, it's the stuff of listening, moving, taking action...
Make sense? Well, I guess you could say "how about in the back of my stang"... *sigh*.... Frankly, if you have to ask -- your not ready!   
$.02 
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Personally I like the guy to make the move for sex.My body language lets him know I am interested in being closer-if he picks up on it that means he is in tune with me. That is pretty important to me. Just my opinion. im the same way
Well Nikita & Elisha thats how I feel as a man. If you have to ask, well....Listen to her body language to know if she's interested. It does mean a lot to be in tune with each other, and read whats in their eyes. Take Body Language 101 Ron |
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Does this question really need to be asked?? Wow, I thought intuition should kick in.
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Does this question really need to be asked?? Wow, I thought intuition should kick in. Yes, it should. If it doesn't, then someone is really not paying attention. |
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i guess as soon as she turns 18, or what ever the laws are in that state
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