Topic: Whens the right time to ask for sex?
papersmile's photo
Wed 05/12/10 02:18 PM
if a guy has to ASK me for sex, he sure as heck wouldn't be a guy i'd ever be interested in having sex with.

that's kind of immature and begging-sounding to me.

give me a confident one that knows how to get his way.

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Wed 05/12/10 04:41 PM
Edited by TheresMyFriend on Wed 05/12/10 04:42 PM

if a guy has to ASK me for sex, he sure as heck wouldn't be a guy i'd ever be interested in having sex with.

that's kind of immature and begging-sounding to me.

give me a confident one that knows how to get his way.





And would pink suit you for the new Ferrari?



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FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 05/12/10 04:45 PM
After the money has been exchanged, before that is just bad business practice.

Cinderella75's photo
Wed 05/12/10 04:48 PM

I'm still talking to the lady I was talking about in the post I made Monday night. I have learned that maybe she just wants to be a FWB and that I dropped the L bomb way too soon. When it comes to asking for sex I'm kinda shy because I'm afraid that if I asked too soon in a friendship or relationship she would think that all I wanted was sex and nothing else. There for I usually wait until she asks or starts making sexual moves to me, well unless I'm drunk. I kinda have a wild and crazy side that comes out when I'm drunk. Do women like that when a man waits untill they want sex and lets the woman make the first move?


If you feel that you have to ask for it, well than its probably too early to even consider it.
You don't ask for it, you just do it when the time is right and the feeling is mutual....trust me you'll know when that time comes..

Goofball73's photo
Wed 05/12/10 05:00 PM
You know...I don't think I have ever just looked at a woman and asked, "Hey babe. You think, that after two hours of idle chit chat, that it is time to go and knock boots?". You ever seen a look a chick gives you when she WANTS sex from you? Dude....you can't miss it. I mean, it is like RIGHT THERE!

And, yes, when she is not wanting sex, oh boy can you tell that too.laugh

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Wed 05/12/10 05:27 PM
Ya I know this question seems a little odd, but heres my situation. Four years ago a woman broke my heart really bad. So I bought a bike and said the hell with dating if all I'm gonna get is a broken heart after six or so months and never dated anyone for four years. But this winter I started getting this lonely feeling and wanted a woman in my life again. When I meet this woman the other week and she seemed to be interested in me I stared to get all these butterflys in me making me nevouse wondering if when start making moves toward her, If I still knew the sighs that woman makes when she really likes me. But I feel it is all slowly coming back.smokin

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 05/12/10 05:44 PM

Ya I know this question seems a little odd, but heres my situation. Four years ago a woman broke my heart really bad. So I bought a bike and said the hell with dating if all I'm gonna get is a broken heart after six or so months and never dated anyone for four years. But this winter I started getting this lonely feeling and wanted a woman in my life again. When I meet this woman the other week and she seemed to be interested in me I stared to get all these butterflys in me making me nevouse wondering if when start making moves toward her, If I still knew the sighs that woman makes when she really likes me. But I feel it is all slowly coming back.smokin


Ok first of all Congratulations on coming back to the land of living. flowers

Personally telling someone you met a week or so ago that you L them is way way to fast and for most women would have them running I knwo it would me. As for asking for Sex, I don't think there is a set time.
If all you two are interested in is a FWB then lay all the cards out on the table along with the guidelines and rules etc...So no one gets hurt.


I personally as of other women have stated want the man to be intune with me, most of us will be giving off signals loud and clear to let you know. I guess you could always keep a bit of protection handy if she gives the signals.
Good luck

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 05/13/10 04:27 AM

dude, if you have to ask you will ruin the romance of the moment... learn to "listen" to her words, but more importantly her non verbal cues and body language... meeting someone new, connecting with them... listening, observing as you interact... making your move... getting close... her breath, her smell, her touch... looking deep into her eyes... touching her hand(s)... touching the back of her neck, fingers through her hair... kissing for the first time, feeling what she wants and how she wants it... it's not the stuff of asking, it's the stuff of listening, moving, taking action...

Make sense?

Well, I guess you could say "how about in the back of my stang"... *sigh*....

Frankly, if you have to ask -- your not ready! frustrated rofl :banana:

$.02 drinker


Could not have said it any better myself!!!:thumbsup:

Mystique42's photo
Thu 05/13/10 10:53 AM
noway

Pass the popcorn! LOL

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Thu 05/13/10 06:00 PM
Who needs to ask? Lick your eyebrows, and she will beg you for it.

Cinderella75's photo
Thu 05/13/10 06:40 PM

Who needs to ask? Lick your eyebrows, and she will beg you for it.


Yep, its that friggen easy...and you gotta do the finger guns too, with sound effects...works like a charm, I'm tellin ya!

realdutchess's photo
Fri 05/14/10 04:53 PM
she'll give u a sign when she's ready :wink:

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Sun 05/16/10 08:38 AM


Who needs to ask? Lick your eyebrows, and she will beg you for it.


Yep, its that friggen easy...and you gotta do the finger guns too, with sound effects...works like a charm, I'm tellin ya!


I like that, animation and sound affects, cool.


Alloguvnah's photo
Sun 05/16/10 08:44 AM
hmmm, askin for sex? dont know about asking, it should just happen naturally. i believe if you should have to ask, then something in the equasion is missing.

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 05/16/10 07:48 PM
noway ASK? ohwell

What is wrong with this picture? smokin

no photo
Sun 05/16/10 07:58 PM
^^^^^^

Id Ask....

devil

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Sun 05/16/10 08:04 PM


Who needs to ask? Lick your eyebrows, and she will beg you for it.


Yep, its that friggen easy...and you gotta do the finger guns too, with sound effects...works like a charm, I'm tellin ya!


This guy would have you melting....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ruzb7YH0sWQ&feature=related

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 05/16/10 10:00 PM

And just remember- when a woman says "no", they really mean "mount me now".:thumbsup:


Only if you want the knife to cut your balls off.

No means no. Train the dog to use a different word...

kc0003's photo
Sun 05/16/10 10:25 PM
with the right amount of ruffies and rope you don't have to ask!






































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IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 05/16/10 10:27 PM

with the right amount of ruffies and rope you don't have to ask!

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rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

I won't put up the same disclaimer....