I just spent a year with a man who I love dearly. The second six months we both took a block of really hard nursing science pre reqs. Class ended last week and he dumped me horribly, saying he only used me for grades. I worked so hard and got all A's...I was stupid and let him copy ALL of my homework and gave him test answers. Now I'm crushed and feel stupid at the same time. Am I the only person who has ever felt this way? :(

he sure didnt give crap can i him

I have had women go out with me only to get a chance at dating rich friends of mine. This has happened more than once. Talk about getting short shafted!

I've never had a woman go out with me.....remember that movie 40 year old virgin...

that was a good movie!

please do, what hurts the most is I'm madly in love with someone who could care less for me. Every kiss was a lie

used by a former business partner for....you guessed it MONEY!

used by an ex so that I could pay her way through college.

used by my dog...mostly for food, but you never know what they are capable of so I have my eye on him...

He will suffer a dishonorable fail of false success and you will be blessed with becoming truely succesful. Trust me, you've already won.

Forgive him so that you can move on. But, don't give him a second chance.

May you find one who truely deserves you.

really wonderful words....full of truth. learn the lesson, let your heart heal, trust again - you've learned something invaluable through this, forgiveness is the biggest task at hand. For you more than him..

I know I need to forgive him, it'll just take some time. I would give him another chance if he even wanted me, but he doesn't, so that's out the window. I feel anger and sadness all at the same time....I wish I didn't have to see him...then I could heal and forgive him easier.

Try to avoid him if you can. Go out with your friends and enjoy life. Keep yourself busy to keep your mind off him. If you can, maybe get a cat or a dog. It would help a lot if you live alone.

Celebrate a new you!

I have to see him only on Sunday's and i'm going to try to avoid him. My brother already did the big brother thing so he won't be talking to me lol It's just going to be hard to see him and not cry :(

That's good you have a brother. It will be hard for a while, but it will get better. Just remind yourself that you are better without him.

that so sucks i just spent 20yrs building a family supporting my wife who was to sick to work since the day i married her ,she gained alot of wieght and got up to 275 pounds i never made her feel bad about it and always loved her and tryed to make her feel special then 6 months ago she says i don't make enough money and leaves me taking my kids .at least u found out early.i make good money now and she wants to come back but i don't think i can do it anymore now that i know she was only useing me for a free ride .sucks trying to meet anyone after 20 yrs with the same person tho

Never let them see you cry, gives them the edge.

When this happened to me, I figured it was what I got for what I got.
Move on & learn from it, you will be better for it.

Hind site is 20/20 as the saying goes, you bear responsibility for your broken heart as much as he does actually. You went against your better judgement, and cheated, allowing him to get close to you. You basically opened the door said take advantage of my heart and mind, and open me up for heartbreak. I am not taking his side, because I do agree, what he did was devious and meant to deceive you as well. You are in college and an adult now. This is a new lesson in your college education.
You are a pretty, obviously intelligent, and vibrant looking young lady that I am sure can do much better than a Neandrathal Jock, rich kid or whatever he was anyways.

In the early 70's I was used so much as a sex boy toy, thrown around, used and abused. Over and over, and over. Used, I was.

I still think about it......................................a lot

I met a girl from another site awhile back who wrote a column for her local paper -- she wanted me to start writing the column for her, no pay, no acknowledgment -- but I didn't fall for that.

Previous girlfriends have used me for money, rides, a place to stay, all sorts of things. I'd like to think I've learned something from all of those experiences.

Poor poor you.
Payback rocks, ya?