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Topic: A little Poll
AZKait Joined Wed 03/25/09 Posts: 110	Wed 05/05/10 06:27 PM
How many people have ever been so enthralled with someone intellectually/conversationally...they became sexually attracted afterward? And did it take you by surprise? Just curious...

skydancingA Joined Mon 11/30/09 Posts: 1605	Wed 05/05/10 06:31 PM
That's the way I ALWAYS fly :-)

Dancere Joined Sun 04/06/08 Posts: 14561	Wed 05/05/10 06:31 PM
Most every relationship ... A great mind is the sexiest thang ... Yeah, it can be quite shocking when it overtakes and morphs ...

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Wed 05/05/10 06:34 PM
Yes..... and No it didn't surprise me.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Wed 05/05/10 06:54 PM
no, not that I can remember....of course I can't remember much

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Wed 05/05/10 07:08 PM
How many people have ever been so enthralled with someone intellectually/conversationally...they became sexually attracted afterward? And did it take you by surprise? Just curious... Not in the past 2 years.

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Wed 05/05/10 07:12 PM
Yes, and no it didn't

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 05/05/10 08:37 PM
I am one and no, I wasn't taken by surprise, I do love surprises though

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 05/05/10 08:48 PM
How many people have ever been so enthralled with someone intellectually/conversationally...they became sexually attracted afterward? And did it take you by surprise? Just curious... First words out of her mouth were...."I can suck the wholes off of a golf ball". I was so "enthralled" that I married her.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 05/05/10 08:49 PM
It happens quite often.... No, it doesn't surprise me, that is what I'm attracted to...

jetlions Joined Fri 04/09/10 Posts: 742	Wed 05/05/10 08:52 PM
yes....not really surprised.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Wed 05/05/10 08:53 PM
Not long ago....my brother told me that he thought it was physically impossible for me to be sexually attracted to someone who doesn't stimulate my mind first. So no....it doesn't surprise me at all that it works that way for me.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 05/05/10 08:55 PM
It wouldn't surprise me if I date someone intellectually/conversationally enthralling, but looking at past ex boyfriends....pfft

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Wed 05/05/10 09:20 PM
Yes, I prefer good mental stimulation first. It's a necessity, actually. The sex only works for me if I'm enjoying myself mentally.

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Wed 05/05/10 10:22 PM
How many people have ever been so enthralled with someone intellectually/conversationally...they became sexually attracted afterward? And did it take you by surprise? Just curious... that's how it happens for me.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 05/05/10 10:24 PM
Pretty much every relationship for me, that is pretty much my main attraction...of course the **** hits the fan eventually, but the ride is pretty fun.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 05/06/10 10:13 AM
Once, and yes.

imsingle951 Joined Mon 12/01/08 Posts: 1984	Thu 05/06/10 03:36 PM
Been a looooong time

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Thu 05/06/10 04:00 PM
Engage my mind and my body will follow.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 05/06/10 04:46 PM
I misread to topic. I thought it said a little pole and I was gonna' laugh at all the guys who admitted to it.