This is my rant and for some it will make angry and some of you pissed
But just keep in mind no one is forcing any of you to read this
All I wanted yesterday on the day of Dads was to see my daughter
But would my ex allow me this simple request oh no "we are going to see
her grandmother"
Now I know that their are many other days to be with my little girl and
surely the next won't be the last
But why does my ex go out of her way to act like this on a day when
children should be with their dad's
I want to get custody of my daughter but my ex is trying to take the
wind from my sail
I know what you are thinking "take her to court" and every time I do I
get to pay more child support they won't let me have her because I am a
male
Why is this I wonder I work two jobs and have my own place I work to
support my daughter until I am dumb
But it's ok for her to have custody and live with her parents and sit on
the couch with her ass on her thumb
Yes this is my rant but I have good reason to do so because I am a dad
that happens to care
If you don't like what you have read so far there are other threads out
there
I will never understand how our court system works
Almost all of them fiiled with nothing but jerks
They act like they are on your side and say "Oh yes you'll win, you are
the better parent I am sure they will see this"
But then they return and look at you and say something stupid along the
lines like I am sorry you didn't win it must be because I have a penis.
By now those of you that know me are like how much longer can he go on
with this
This isn't the person, surely, that I know, this isn't Chris
No I am not done yet and yes I am he
And this is just the beginning of all of this for me
Now it's time to spend a whole lot of money and this part isn't funny
I had to work for what I spend but my ex will just get it from her rich
ass mommy
How am I to win, I know I must try
When she's got her whole family helping her and Chris only has me,
myself, and I
I spend almost my whole day and night working
I am so tired of all of this I am not joking
The only relief that have at the end on the day is hope and pray and
maybe just maybe things will go my way
I don't care how much it cost me to be with my daughter of course I will
pay
Just once for on this topic ok I am done I will drop it but I must say
that even though this rant is at and end
The only things that keeps me sane at the end of the day is having love
for my daughter and Katie in my life and all of you my friends

awww, good luck to u hun.

thanks sweetie I am gonna need all the luck I can get on this one

Son

MOM

ur a good man. my ex hasnt tried to see the kids once since we got
divorced

I would see my daughter everyday if my ex wasn't a child

awwww, i sorry hun. u wanna borrow one of mine?

thanks for the offer
I was supposed to take her to fly her first kite today
I have been waiting for a week to do so
BUt apparently everything else is more important to my ex than my little
one seeing me

cant see how anyone could do that to their kids, it's not fair to them.
and if she keeps it up when ur little girl is grown up she's going to
resent her mother from keeping her from her father.

I would hope so
But my ex, even though my kiddo is young is already feeding her lies
about me
I will not do the same
but it still sucks

yes it does. well, keep us posted hun. i'll keep u in my prayers.

Hey bro' I know just how you're feeling
For I have the same ceiling.
Life can be a b..ch
even when you're rich.
When you don't have much money
It's even less funny
You do what you can
As just a poor man
The system it sucks
Because of dumb f...ks
Who think they know better
Use the law to the letter
And it's men who must bear
loads of pain through the years
Not able to see
what's really half me
when the promise was made
that there'd be no tirade
And yet we can try
as hard as we will
there's always new bills
Just to see who we love
We work hand in glove
for a fair and good outcome
for daughters and sons
So if you're feeling down
friends and bro's are around
You just let me know
And I won't be slow
In helping you out
In these hurtful bouts.
You know where I am
at all times 24/7 man.

Thanks brotha
I know and it is very appreciated
But I have to go to work again soon
even though I just got home not to long ago
It must be nice for her to feed off of her parents
I wish I had that luxery

CHRIS, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, I HAVE HAD PROBLEMS WITH MY BOYS MOM IN THE
PAST, BUT IN TIME SHE HAS COME AROUND. YESTERDAY SHE ACTUALLY BROUGHT MY
SONS TO ME, THIS WAS A FIRST, IN SEVEN YEARS, THAT SHE HAS DONE THIS. IT
TAKES TIME, JUST KEEP DOING THE BEST YOU CAN, AND DON'T GIVE UP.

Thanks Tiger
I love my daughter to much to give up
I don't car if it costs me every single penny I own or puts me in debt
I WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON THIS

Sorry everyone
I don't normally rant
I just needed to today

{{{{{{{{{{{{Chris}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I know its hard on you, and all I can say is dont give up
where thier is a will thier is a way,,, Your an incredible
Father your Daughter will always know you love her as she
grows up,,, and one day the bad will turn to good,, Strength
and Love will guide you thru this time in your life,,

Hugs My Friend

((((((((((Chris)))))))))))))

I feel for you as well there are plenty of fathers that deserve to have
there kids. What ever you do take notes. Get you a notepad and every
time she don't let you see her or things she says and does write it all
down notes notes and more at times will help more than one knows. Find
out from a lawyer what in reality will help you in getting your little
girl. Per sey place of your own re-married , full time babysitter , work
hours what ever then work towards the goals they will also focus on. I
have seen fathers get there kids it can happen. Sometimes it is just
finding the right lawyer. Good luck.!

awwwwwwwwwwwww Chris......you sound like an awesome Dad...take heart and
hopefully things will get better