Topic: I needed to rant sorry
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Mon 06/18/07 09:58 AM
(((((CHRIS)))))

I can feel your frustration from this side of the border. Stay focused
on your daughter and don't let the situation with her mom blind you.

Breathe and be. Make sure you are taking care of yourself so you have
the presence and the strength to take care of her.

Best wishes. May all resolve in the highest good of your daughter.

flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

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Mon 06/18/07 10:06 AM
art my heart goes out to ya, i dont talk to my grown kids often but at
least one of them makes a point to call on fathers day and that meens
alot to me, take care!!

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Mon 06/18/07 10:14 AM
and worst case scenario bro, if everything else pans out (and I am not
saying it will, believe me I am living proof that fatehrs CAN win) then
remember you can always appeal ANY court order all the way up if
neccesarry. The days of courts automatically going witht he mother are
fewer and farther gone and they are continuing to dissapear, so
eventually you WILL have your angel with you, this I promise.
Just do like someone else suggested and keep notes on everything. And I
do mean EVERYTHING. If you have the money, hure someone to try and get
factual information about her if you have any reason to believe there is
something wrong that shouldnt be (as an example, mommy on drugs; and no
I am not suggesting she is, but mine was). ALl of this can be used in
court, and if you present enough evidence then eventually she will not
be able to win.
And sorry fact is, the fact that she lives with her parents only helps
her in a lot of eyes, because she has soemone else to take care of her
and pay the bills etc. She is able to use their life as a safety net to
suggest the angel is better off with her. It IS a bunch of BS and I
agree with you wholeheartedly.

Keep up the fight though brother of mine, and know that we are all here
for you when you need to rant and cry.
For we are your friends, loved ones and dear,
who all know what you have to fear.
We have been through it at one point or more,
and we will uphold all that is true not what's lore.
So take your mind off and ease back and rest,
let us take care of your worries and fears,
even if it is only one day, far or near.

We love ya bro keep your chin up!

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Mon 06/18/07 05:49 PM
Thanks everyone for the input
Txgal I have an entire book of this that I wrote down
Every time she said I couldn't see my daughter
Ever lame excuse
every time my ex called me and flipped out and then called and tried to
get me back
I kept notes of everything
I even have recordings of her flat out lieing
I keep really good records
When I do get my daughter I even write down everything that we do
I log everything her first steps and word
I keep all my receipts
everything
my lawyer has copies of all of this stuff

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Mon 06/18/07 05:52 PM
Thanks Dan
Thanks bro

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Mon 06/18/07 05:58 PM
hey Chris, I hope you are feeling a little bit better.
I am hoping and praying for the best for you and for your daughters
return to you.

I am always here if you need me bro.flowerforyou

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Mon 06/18/07 06:02 PM
Thanks Claudette
This all starts Friday afternoon
So if I disappear for a while it's not because of anything anyone here
did
I am going to be even more busy than I was before
indifferent

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Mon 06/18/07 06:08 PM
we all have you in our prayers bro
I am glad to know yu have everything recorded it will help big time...

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Mon 06/18/07 06:08 PM
:wink: you are welcome Chris and thanks for the heads up
Take care of you ok flowerforyou

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Mon 06/18/07 06:09 PM
I have been keeping track since day 1 Dan
For some reason I knew this day would come

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Mon 06/18/07 06:10 PM
I will Claudette
um
I will tryindifferent

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Mon 06/18/07 06:15 PM
awwwwwwww ((((((((((((((Chris))))))))))))))flowerforyou flowerforyou
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou
:heart: flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou :heart:

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Mon 06/18/07 06:16 PM
((((((((CLAUDETTE)))))))))
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 06/18/07 06:16 PM

Love will see you through...

:heart: flowerforyou :heart:

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Mon 06/18/07 06:17 PM
Thanks Purple
It has gotten me this far
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 06/18/07 06:26 PM
orgive me for putting it this way bro, but if you dont take care of
yourself, how will you take care of your angel? So keep yourself going
and take care so that you are ready when she comes home for good :smile:
OK?

drinker

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Mon 06/18/07 06:29 PM
I am working on it Dan
I will be back to one job soon
Then I only have to work three days a week and I still have more than
enough money to live on and spoil her
Aand catch up on the much needed sleep I have lost out on for say
2 years now

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Mon 06/18/07 11:48 PM
{{{{{{{{Lil Bro}}}}}}}}}flowerforyou flowerforyou :cry:

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Tue 06/19/07 01:15 AM
((((((((((Chris))))))))) Good luck hun and you have all of us behind you
supporting you

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Tue 06/19/07 06:30 AM
thanks bid sis and Katers
I may need back up on this one
(((((BOTH OF YOU)))))))))