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Forgivness, of self and him. We finally apologized to each other and things healed after that for each of us. Somethings are simply not meant to be.
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just alot of laughing an friends
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Spending time with friends and meeting new people. That kept my mind off of it enough at the time until things got better.
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WE can and DO forgive and move on.
But true loves never really die, as we remember all of the good times and love that was shared through our togetherness. That pain that we had which caused our hearts to see them in another light, or darkness if you prefer..at our time of parting.. Was there and full of anger,,but through time that anger leaves. If your other was the result of a child being made with them,, their will always be that love that made your child,,left inside you BOTH. It will seldom come back to you, only through talking with your kids will it serve a presents,,and MANY have to go on with the reality of seperations yet maintaining fuctions with family get togethers or school activities where the childrens hearts need the two of you together in PRESENTS,,anyway.. Some people will never get over what (they feel) was done to them? But MOST,,get past that, and leave it behind them.. And FEW can openly talk about their pasts STILL,,w/o getting up-set. and to me,,thats the ones STILL in recovery of their split-up. Mine was ten years ago,,and all of the drama is way past my life now. But sharing stories on here with others and talking off screen, many have had very bad splits and it will take many years for them to be FREE of their thoughts,,of THAT TIME... But GOD made us to have the abilty to do WHATEVER we fully need to for us all to be able to love again...   
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I didn't have a girlfreind when I found the last one. Your time will come keep looking.
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If your other was the result of a child being made with them,, their will always be that love that made your child,,left inside you BOTH. Not necessarily I have absolutely no feelings for my baby daddy, nothing. Wished him well, moved on and have never looked back, never pined away for him... |
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three thumb clamps, prayers for boils on Michael Bolton's and Celine Dion's collective a$$, and a prostrate exam from a REALLY good nurse
....and extreme flippancy |
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prayers for boils on Michael Bolton's and Celine Dion's collective a$$, 
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...heart repaired? still in stitches and on life support. prognosis is bleak. . . . |
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...heart repaired? i'm workin' on that now. kinda difficult since we have the same friends and so far everytime I see him, I start crying.
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my heart has only been broken once and i think there will always be an irreparable part of it.
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Edited by
Seakolony
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Sun 04/25/10 04:58 AM
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in steps...
1-crying for a day or two intermittently 2- peotry and songs to release the emotional feelings of stress and pain 3- getting out with family and friends to not myself get isolated 4- reestablishing complete and utter independence 5- keeping myself consistently on the path I have embraced originally for myself that was unchanging from the beginning |
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Time helps.
Realizing it wasn't all her fault. Paying closer attention to the relationship this time. |
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Heart surgery. Really! An atrial septal defect, docs patched that hole up nicely.
Oh wait. Wrong meaning. Time, letters and a really large bonfire. Burn it all after crying. |
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Its why I joined mingel, to find some new friends and keep my mind off my broken heart, kind of working.
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....hmmmm.....my galfriend has the funniest saying....
'The best way to get out from under someone (emotionally)....is to get under someone else (sexually)...  '
 ...it works for some.
for me.... my heart does not repair....the fragments of the broken parts are there...always will be....but being such a flexible muscle...it expands to absorb new love... hearts are optimists... ....heads are pessimists.
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The only time I suffer from a true broken heart
is when someone I love passes away then I spend time with family and friends remember all the good and I learned that time does heal
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WE can and DO forgive and move on. But true loves never really die, as we remember all of the good times and love that was shared through our togetherness. That pain that we had which caused our hearts to see them in another light, or darkness if you prefer..at our time of parting.. Was there and full of anger,,but through time that anger leaves. If your other was the result of a child being made with them,, their will always be that love that made your child,,left inside you BOTH. It will seldom come back to you, only through talking with your kids will it serve a presents,,and MANY have to go on with the reality of seperations yet maintaining fuctions with family get togethers or school activities where the childrens hearts need the two of you together in PRESENTS,,anyway.. Some people will never get over what (they feel) was done to them? But MOST,,get past that, and leave it behind them.. And FEW can openly talk about their pasts STILL,,w/o getting up-set. and to me,,thats the ones STILL in recovery of their split-up. Mine was ten years ago,,and all of the drama is way past my life now. But sharing stories on here with others and talking off screen, many have had very bad splits and it will take many years for them to be FREE of their thoughts,,of THAT TIME... But GOD made us to have the abilty to do WHATEVER we fully need to for us all to be able to love again...
 Big T u allways have the rt ans dont u?hurry back this way 
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...heart repaired? My BFF's words.."quit cryin over some fool..he ain't the last man you'll get"..lol |
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Time and good friends... There are still some scars but scars don't hurt, they add character... lessons learned and good memories....
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