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Topic: what to say(females only)
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Mon 04/26/10 09:32 PM



Ask her to turn on the web cam!!!!
Or ask if she has any 'intimate' photos she'd like to share.


oh yeah...that works.whoa


Oh the OP will get a 'respond'.....now it may not be exactly what he was looking for. laugh laugh laugh


rofl.:laughing: fair enough.

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Mon 04/26/10 11:15 PM
you know what ? some women dont like to be called sexy when you havent met yet! But just be yourself and tell them about you! and if they dont write back and tell you something even if its "your not there type" at least they have a little class and told you something! keep trying dont give up good luck!

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Tue 04/27/10 04:46 PM
Edited by Glenoran1 on Tue 04/27/10 04:47 PM

you know what ? some women dont like to be called sexy when you havent met yet! But just be yourself and tell them about you!


Well said. If you state something a woman already knows (she's pretty, or has a nice smile), it just means you have eyes in your head. But if you introduce yourself to her, giving a few details about mutual interests or a positive comment about something she put in her profile, it's more likely to get the conversational ball rolling. Also, she gets a good first impression of your ability to converse, at least in writing.

You wouldn't walk up to a lady in a park and say, "Hi, you're pretty." You'd (at least, I would hope you would) strike up a conversation about something you may both have noticed, such as squirrels collecting acorns. In writing, her profile is the on-line equivalent of the park locale, and if you refer to something in it, it shows you cared enough to read her profile before contacting her, not just look at the photo(s).

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Tue 04/27/10 08:47 PM
Like I have said previously in this thread.

I emailed a woman and told her that she had beautiful eyes.

She liked the compliment enough to take a look at my profile and decided that she liked what she saw enough to respond positively.

We now have a date planned for May 28th.

I would think that it would completely depend on the woman and whether or not she can actually appreciate a sincere compliment.

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Tue 04/27/10 08:57 PM


you know what ? some women dont like to be called sexy when you havent met yet! But just be yourself and tell them about you!


Well said. If you state something a woman already knows (she's pretty, or has a nice smile), it just means you have eyes in your head. But if you introduce yourself to her, giving a few details about mutual interests or a positive comment about something she put in her profile, it's more likely to get the conversational ball rolling. Also, she gets a good first impression of your ability to converse, at least in writing.

You wouldn't walk up to a lady in a park and say, "Hi, you're pretty." You'd (at least, I would hope you would) strike up a conversation about something you may both have noticed, such as squirrels collecting acorns. In writing, her profile is the on-line equivalent of the park locale, and if you refer to something in it, it shows you cared enough to read her profile before contacting her, not just look at the photo(s).


I agree looking at a persons profile instead of just their looks. I get emails all the time from others wanting more kids!! Heck, no!! I'm done with the kids thing!!! I can have more but I won't!!

Monier's photo
Tue 04/27/10 10:26 PM
Tell me what to say - Jason Derulo - song keeps going through my head now

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Tue 04/27/10 10:32 PM

Like I have said previously in this thread.

I emailed a woman and told her that she had beautiful eyes.

She liked the compliment enough to take a look at my profile and decided that she liked what she saw enough to respond positively.

We now have a date planned for May 28th.

I would think that it would completely depend on the woman and whether or not she can actually appreciate a sincere compliment.


they just make me feel awkward.ohwell

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Wed 04/28/10 07:37 AM

Like I have said previously in this thread.

I emailed a woman and told her that she had beautiful eyes.

She liked the compliment enough to take a look at my profile and decided that she liked what she saw enough to respond positively.

We now have a date planned for May 28th.

I would think that it would completely depend on the woman and whether or not she can actually appreciate a sincere compliment.


It would depend on whether it's a sincere compliment. The "you're hot" or "you're sexy" compliments in a first email, without much else are not a very interesting way to start a conversation.

However, I will check out someone's profile no matter what they say. If they have nothing in their profile and their initial email says pretty much nothing, I'm not going to have much to respond with. However, if they have an interesting profile, that will give me more to respond with.

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Wed 04/28/10 09:17 PM


Like I have said previously in this thread.

I emailed a woman and told her that she had beautiful eyes.

She liked the compliment enough to take a look at my profile and decided that she liked what she saw enough to respond positively.

We now have a date planned for May 28th.

I would think that it would completely depend on the woman and whether or not she can actually appreciate a sincere compliment.


they just make me feel awkward.ohwell


That's fine. Like I have said numerous times....it completely depends on the woman involved.

Some are able to take compliments a little better than others.

Hell..the same applies for guys.

If I got a complimentary email ( not like it's ever happened lol ) I would probably think I was the target of some kind of odd joke.

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Wed 04/28/10 09:19 PM


Like I have said previously in this thread.

I emailed a woman and told her that she had beautiful eyes.

She liked the compliment enough to take a look at my profile and decided that she liked what she saw enough to respond positively.

We now have a date planned for May 28th.

I would think that it would completely depend on the woman and whether or not she can actually appreciate a sincere compliment.


It would depend on whether it's a sincere compliment. The "you're hot" or "you're sexy" compliments in a first email, without much else are not a very interesting way to start a conversation.

However, I will check out someone's profile no matter what they say. If they have nothing in their profile and their initial email says pretty much nothing, I'm not going to have much to respond with. However, if they have an interesting profile, that will give me more to respond with.


Right. It's not like I sent a " You're hawt " or some such drivel to her.

I actually used a few real words and put them together in the proper order. I even spelled all of them out.

* shrugs *

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Wed 04/28/10 10:30 PM

Right. It's not like I sent a " You're hawt " or some such drivel to her.

I actually used a few real words and put them together in the proper order. I even spelled all of them out.

* shrugs *


no way. Spelling...who woulda thunk!

laugh

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