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Topic: Reluctant Cougar?
Sntmntl_lady's photo
Tue 04/20/10 08:43 AM
Edited by Sntmntl_lady on Tue 04/20/10 08:44 AM
:angel: I don't know about other single women of my age but I've found that I seem to attract younger men like popocorn does pigeons! Don't get me wrong! I love this and these young men seem to truely want to date. Its just that I still have a few hangups about dating younger guys. I'm attracted to them but sometimes these 18 to 30 yr olds just freak me out!!!smitten

tanyaann's photo
Tue 04/20/10 08:47 AM
Wow! You don't look like you are in your 50s! :thumbsup:

I would say.... determine what you want... fun, no strings attached dating -> go for the younger guys.... but if you want something more serious, try going on dates closer to your age.... doesn't guarantee that they are mature, but a slightly bigger chance.

Good luck and welcome to the site.

mscherbear's photo
Tue 04/20/10 09:20 AM
I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 04/20/10 09:25 AM
Lets keep this in context...

Are you looking for a deeper relationship?

Stick to your guns. LTRs involving serious age differences can be trying and have their difficulties.

Looking to get your groove on?

Why the hell not? Get past the minnows and you might have fun. Not all younger guys have their heads set on sideways.

I have had my fun with a cougar here and there. Again it is only something I keep as friendships and not serious LTRs. There are limitations to LTRs but then again I have seen a couple of cases where a cougar snagged herself a little "Buck" and both cases they were happily involved.

No shame if you have been thinking about putting on your Cougar Tail.

drinker Rome praises you!drinker

Goofball73's photo
Tue 04/20/10 09:29 AM
Yeah. I mean. I just wish these 18-24 year old young hot chicks would leave me alone. They are scaring me.scared rofl

timivanzeppelin's photo
Tue 04/20/10 09:48 AM
Hello! Cougar much? haha Yeah I read your post, and I understand where you are coming from. I'm 19, and I'm a very nice boy and mature for my age. If you are looking to just have fun. Lemme know!

no photo
Tue 04/20/10 11:26 AM

:angel: I don't know about other single women of my age but I've found that I seem to attract younger men like popocorn does pigeons! Don't get me wrong! I love this and these young men seem to truely want to date. Its just that I still have a few hangups about dating younger guys. I'm attracted to them but sometimes these 18 to 30 yr olds just freak me out!!!smitten


Bah... stick with us old guys... The young guns can't hold their water anywayslaugh

no photo
Tue 04/20/10 11:33 AM
good thing I took down my pics so now I wont get perved so much:smile:

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 04/20/10 11:45 AM

Hummmmmmmmmmm sorrry the 18-30 year old's don't even make it into my radar.......noway noway noway I prefer those much closer to my age and on the same level as I'm....bigsmile

I've had the offers and sure it does flatter me but...........still not my cup of tea....whoa



willing2's photo
Tue 04/20/10 01:16 PM
Ya only live once. Go for the gusto, Honey!! Send me pics!!:wink: laugh

nikita5's photo
Tue 04/20/10 01:33 PM
First of all I hate the cougar label.Like u I always seem to attract younger guys-when they pursue u how does that make a woman a cougar?Dating them depends on the individual-some have a better head on their shoulders then older men.If I like someone and they like me I will go forward-after all I would hate to miss out on something that could be outstanding becuz of an age difference.Older men have been dating younger woman forever and no one thinks anything of it-when we do it we get slapped with a label.noway

Goofball73's photo
Tue 04/20/10 01:40 PM

First of all I hate the cougar label.Like u I always seem to attract younger guys-when they pursue u how does that make a woman a cougar?Dating them depends on the individual-some have a better head on their shoulders then older men.If I like someone and they like me I will go forward-after all I would hate to miss out on something that could be outstanding becuz of an age difference.Older men have been dating younger woman forever and no one thinks anything of it-when we do it we get slapped with a label.noway


Actually Nikita....there is a label for a dude who dates a younger chick.....it's "Creepy"laugh

Duffy's photo
Tue 04/20/10 01:46 PM
ms. cugar...let me give u a bill clinton briefing.
younger males in the 19 year old range have one thing on their mind,and it ain't coming over for dinner. kabish?

i get this all the time, and i am older than dirt. it is looking for a "good time" they say.
now i believe some 19 year old will read this, and throw dirt, rocks, or whatever else he can get his hands on just to confuse the issue.

make urself a little ugly, by blackening ur teeth, and put flour in ur hair. trust me, they will leave u alone and stop calling u hot momma. they don't like missing teeth, and white hair.

but if they think 4 one moment, u might be interested, it won't stop til you strap them in the hi chair, and yell "get lost".pitchfork

nikita5's photo
Tue 04/20/10 01:54 PM


First of all I hate the cougar label.Like u I always seem to attract younger guys-when they pursue u how does that make a woman a cougar?Dating them depends on the individual-some have a better head on their shoulders then older men.If I like someone and they like me I will go forward-after all I would hate to miss out on something that could be outstanding becuz of an age difference.Older men have been dating younger woman forever and no one thinks anything of it-when we do it we get slapped with a label.noway


Actually Nikita....there is a label for a dude who dates a younger chick.....it's "Creepy"laugh

rofl rofl roflI guess I should be grateful they don't call us that!

Goofball73's photo
Tue 04/20/10 01:58 PM



First of all I hate the cougar label.Like u I always seem to attract younger guys-when they pursue u how does that make a woman a cougar?Dating them depends on the individual-some have a better head on their shoulders then older men.If I like someone and they like me I will go forward-after all I would hate to miss out on something that could be outstanding becuz of an age difference.Older men have been dating younger woman forever and no one thinks anything of it-when we do it we get slapped with a label.noway


Actually Nikita....there is a label for a dude who dates a younger chick.....it's "Creepy"laugh

rofl rofl roflI guess I should be grateful they don't call us that!


The problem with it is that the dudes who do it don't really mind the label "creepy dude dating young chick for sexual purposes"laugh For some derranged reason, they love the title. Like it is a badge of honor. noway laugh

Duffy's photo
Tue 04/20/10 02:10 PM
sugar dadies r the label 4 younger women dating older men..frown
older men dating younger women....insane, and creepy? laugh
older women dating younger menhuh
younger men dating older women....smokin

so what's the beef? ur all cougars in my opinion. young vs old, old vs. young.noway
why don't u just get out and have some fun? age is a number, but then again it signifies something.pitchfork

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 04/20/10 02:14 PM

First of all I hate the cougar label.Like u I always seem to attract younger guys-when they pursue u how does that make a woman a cougar?Dating them depends on the individual-some have a better head on their shoulders then older men.If I like someone and they like me I will go forward-after all I would hate to miss out on something that could be outstanding becuz of an age difference.Older men have been dating younger woman forever and no one thinks anything of it-when we do it we get slapped with a label.noway



So do we, Wolves!

Oh Yeah!:banana:

pitchfork

Duffy's photo
Tue 04/20/10 02:16 PM
oh yes. i forgot u r wolves. not sugar daddies. sorry for the slip.pitchfork

mscherbear's photo
Tue 04/20/10 02:38 PM



First of all I hate the cougar label.Like u I always seem to attract younger guys-when they pursue u how does that make a woman a cougar?Dating them depends on the individual-some have a better head on their shoulders then older men.If I like someone and they like me I will go forward-after all I would hate to miss out on something that could be outstanding becuz of an age difference.Older men have been dating younger woman forever and no one thinks anything of it-when we do it we get slapped with a label.noway


Actually Nikita....there is a label for a dude who dates a younger chick.....it's "Creepy"laugh

rofl rofl roflI guess I should be grateful they don't call us that!


That or dirty old men! laugh laugh laugh laugh

Goofball73's photo
Tue 04/20/10 02:58 PM
I just love women. love laugh

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