Topic: Reluctant Cougar?
_The_Sugar_Fire_'s photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:29 PM

I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.


NOOOOOOOO!!!! I love cougars. There's nothing wrong....with me..... lovin' you....

And why is it that young guys only offer a good time?? (We do)

But I've got a lot more to give...


mscherbear's photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:32 PM


I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.


NOOOOOOOO!!!! I love cougars. There's nothing wrong....with me..... lovin' you....

And why is it that young guys only offer a good time?? (We do)

But I've got a lot more to give...




Yeah, yeah, I've heard THAT before... laugh laugh laugh :wink:

_The_Sugar_Fire_'s photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:36 PM



I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.


NOOOOOOOO!!!! I love cougars. There's nothing wrong....with me..... lovin' you....

And why is it that young guys only offer a good time?? (We do)

But I've got a lot more to give...




Yeah, yeah, I've heard THAT before... laugh laugh laugh :wink:


And what's so wrong with a good time, anyway?? I love good times.

s1owhand's photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:37 PM
"Try it, You'll like it!" drinker

mscherbear's photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:39 PM




I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.


NOOOOOOOO!!!! I love cougars. There's nothing wrong....with me..... lovin' you....

And why is it that young guys only offer a good time?? (We do)

But I've got a lot more to give...




Yeah, yeah, I've heard THAT before... laugh laugh laugh :wink:


And what's so wrong with a good time, anyway?? I love good times.

Absolutely nothing--good times are, well, good! laugh drinker

_The_Sugar_Fire_'s photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:44 PM





I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.


NOOOOOOOO!!!! I love cougars. There's nothing wrong....with me..... lovin' you....

And why is it that young guys only offer a good time?? (We do)

But I've got a lot more to give...




Yeah, yeah, I've heard THAT before... laugh laugh laugh :wink:


And what's so wrong with a good time, anyway?? I love good times.

Absolutely nothing--good times are, well, good! laugh drinker



Ok, now that we've settled that, why don't you and I find a cozy little restaraunt...

Do you like Salsa dancing??

mscherbear's photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:51 PM






I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.


NOOOOOOOO!!!! I love cougars. There's nothing wrong....with me..... lovin' you....

And why is it that young guys only offer a good time?? (We do)

But I've got a lot more to give...




Yeah, yeah, I've heard THAT before... laugh laugh laugh :wink:


And what's so wrong with a good time, anyway?? I love good times.

Absolutely nothing--good times are, well, good! laugh drinker



Ok, now that we've settled that, why don't you and I find a cozy little restaraunt...

Do you like Salsa dancing??


I don't know. Are you offering to give lessons? bigsmile

newarkjw's photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:54 PM







I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.


NOOOOOOOO!!!! I love cougars. There's nothing wrong....with me..... lovin' you....

And why is it that young guys only offer a good time?? (We do)

But I've got a lot more to give...




Yeah, yeah, I've heard THAT before... laugh laugh laugh :wink:


And what's so wrong with a good time, anyway?? I love good times.

Absolutely nothing--good times are, well, good! laugh drinker



Ok, now that we've settled that, why don't you and I find a cozy little restaraunt...

Do you like Salsa dancing??


I don't know. Are you offering to give lessons? bigsmile


You kinda sound like a reluctant cougar......smokin

_The_Sugar_Fire_'s photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:54 PM







I agree with Tanya. I get this all the time, and if all I was interested in was just dating and a "good time", I would go for it! But since I'm looking for something with a little more meaning, I refuse to date anyone more than 10-12 years younger than me.


NOOOOOOOO!!!! I love cougars. There's nothing wrong....with me..... lovin' you....

And why is it that young guys only offer a good time?? (We do)

But I've got a lot more to give...




Yeah, yeah, I've heard THAT before... laugh laugh laugh :wink:


And what's so wrong with a good time, anyway?? I love good times.

Absolutely nothing--good times are, well, good! laugh drinker



Ok, now that we've settled that, why don't you and I find a cozy little restaraunt...

Do you like Salsa dancing??


I don't know. Are you offering to give lessons? bigsmile


I could teach you a lot of things.devil

mscherbear's photo
Tue 04/20/10 04:55 PM
laugh laugh laugh I'm just reluctant. I am definitely NOT a cougar! :tongue: laugh

mssilverfox's photo
Tue 04/20/10 05:22 PM

ms. cugar...let me give u a bill clinton briefing.
younger males in the 19 year old range have one thing on their mind,and it ain't coming over for dinner. kabish?

i get this all the time, and i am older than dirt. it is looking for a "good time" they say.
now i believe some 19 year old will read this, and throw dirt, rocks, or whatever else he can get his hands on just to confuse the issue.

make urself a little ugly, by blackening ur teeth, and put flour in ur hair. trust me, they will leave u alone and stop calling u hot momma. they don't like missing teeth, and white hair.

but if they think 4 one moment, u might be interested, it won't stop til you strap them in the hi chair, and yell "get lost".pitchfork



Well, my hair is naturally white and has been for over 10 yrs.. Yep, I just turned 68 but most think I am mid 50's.. Blows their minds!!! But I am always getting hit on by guys 30-40 but I won't date younger than my kids... oldest will be 49 this yr.. Actually, 55+ is what I prefer.. Just consider it a compliment!!

_The_Sugar_Fire_'s photo
Tue 04/20/10 05:25 PM

laugh laugh laugh I'm just reluctant. I am definitely NOT a cougar! :tongue: laugh


You have no choice in the matter, honey...

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 04/20/10 05:28 PM

laugh laugh laugh I'm just reluctant. I am definitely NOT a cougar! :tongue: laugh


Wanna check out my etchings???spock

no photo
Sat 04/24/10 10:46 PM
Hey that's not fair, you don't know what you're missing with the experience that comes with age.

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 04/28/10 08:32 PM
Very, and again I say VERY common trend in the past 10 yrs. (You can thank Demi/Ashton for this as well LOL) I've dated younger guys for about 7 of those.

I refuse to be referred to as a cougar because I am not the one doing the hunting. And it's not about sex. I think younger and just hit it off better than with guys in my generation. And I'm more attracted to their look as they are mine. They like a woman who knows what she wants and is secure in herself :wink:

I was dating guys as young as late 20's. Yes, 30 years younger than myself. blushing I love their more "immature" fun attitude. (I know. Doesn't make sense =) But the problem is when you have kids they really don't like you dating guys younger than they are. Well only what age some of my kids are. :tongue:

I have gone from dating guys 30 years younger than myself to a more practical age difference of maximum one full generation. So guys in late 30's and above. I still have no problem with that age difference and never will. Anyone who knows me sees me ending up with a younger guy.

It is what it is.

But it's certainly not rare or taboo anymore. Just sayin. :wink:

thewaterbearer's photo
Wed 04/28/10 08:38 PM
Isn't a cougar supposed to be a wildcat that lives in the wildspock :angel: tongue2

Goofball73's photo
Wed 04/28/10 08:40 PM
I just wanna know who came up with the term "cougar" for ladies who are in there 40's, 50's and such? Riddle me that homeies!

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 04/28/10 08:41 PM

ms. cugar...let me give u a bill clinton briefing.
younger males in the 19 year old range have one thing on their mind,and it ain't coming over for dinner. kabish?

i get this all the time, and i am older than dirt. it is looking for a "good time" they say.
now i believe some 19 year old will read this, and throw dirt, rocks, or whatever else he can get his hands on just to confuse the issue.

make urself a little ugly, by blackening ur teeth, and put flour in ur hair. trust me, they will leave u alone and stop calling u hot momma. they don't like missing teeth, and white hair.

but if they think 4 one moment, u might be interested, it won't stop til you strap them in the hi chair, and yell "get lost".pitchfork



LMAO. Duffy you're still here! I've been gone a year and it's great to see you still dishin it. :thumbsup:

But yes .. you are right. Give them 1 tiny inkling you could possibly consider it and they are like flies to sand paper. LOL smokin

And I love the other poster with the complaint that older men dating younger women never got labels. Well Duffy is right .. they are called sugar daddies. LOL But honestly it wasn't treated like weird or depraved for guys to date younger women, but let it be older women and younger men ... OMG you'da thought we are the most perverse things on the planet.spock

Gimme a break. whoa whoa whoa

Goofball73's photo
Wed 04/28/10 08:50 PM
"cough"

Scuse me Miss Fade. But, older dudes dating hot younger chicks do get a label.....it's "Creepy old dude". But, being men, and being that we just don't have a soul laugh , we just don't care what ya call us cause at the end of the night.....we is hittin dat young booty while she runs up our charge cards.:banana: laugh laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 04/28/10 08:51 PM

"cough"

Scuse me Miss Fade. But, older dudes dating hot younger chicks do get a label.....it's "Creepy old dude". But, being men, and being that we just don't have a soul laugh , we just don't care what ya call us cause at the end of the night.....we is hittin dat young booty while she runs up our charge cards.:banana: laugh laugh




Spoken like a true professional "creepy old dude" ha ha ha

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