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Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me. sorry i laugh at almost everything and everyone, i can't help you with that request. by the way, you might want to use the correct 'plane' in your first post if you're so big on vocabulary.  Yes I failed spelling and my spell check helps alot. But it interests me that you noticed. I really figured you for kind of glossing over things. Apparently your deeper than that. Im impressed. i don't like to either and, most times, i don't bother - unless someone sounds like they think they are smarter than anyone else. Honestly people, I AM NOT TRYING TO SOUND SMARTER!!! I AM NOT LOOKING DOWN ON YOU!!!! I like all of you for various reasons. I am just trying to be me!!! You seem very nice. Most people are just f!cking with you brother. Just lighten up a bit.......  I dont mind people messing with my mind, I just dont like the way it makes me feel inside. I know most people dont consider the feeling of those they are talking to, but I do, and some of the things that have been threaded to me in the last two days have shown me that in this I seem to stand alone... But hat its not the first time. Im a survivor. Were all survivors, we all feel things differently, we all show our love in a manner that works for us, we all have compassion for that which we are passionate about. Keep being yourself... I'll not stop being a lady because of a myth that the gentleman is gone, I don't believe it for a minute, I know better. Were all adjusting to the return of the divine feminine, it's a confusing time. All will balance out shortly, lets not lose our faith in each other. |
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Thank you so much for believing you are a lady. I agree with you in all you said. Its just a shame more ladies dont see themselves that way. Thank you.
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Truthfully most of us aren't used to men opening the doors, removing our coats, etc. It's something I rarely see or have experienced in a long time. I'm sure there are plenty of ladies & gentlemen out there but I feel it's a dying breed in both sexes. I usually see this in the older generation. Rarely do I see this type of respect in the younger generation. She picked the steak house,,and as we entered to when we left,, She lead,,,and upon me asking her at our seating, if she preferred me on her side,,or across from her,,she quickly stated OH,,ACROSS I need my elbow room,,,,giggle, giggle,,OK,,so now she is a smoker as I ,,and I lit her cigarette and then later, after we ate,,I missed lighting another one for her,,,she let me know that.. And as I said I was sorry but we were talking and that went right past my notice,,(that she needed a lite),, So WE then got talking about courtesies, and when asked if her ex,,had done that for her,,she replied,,of course! So as we talked deeper into all that he had done,, WHICH,,was EVERYTHING,,I simply told her SHE had lost a very GOOD MAN there,,when they Divorced... Then commented again on my be-half,, I said, there is a fine-line between doing something for someone out of respect and compassions,,,verses,,Being TRAINED! And as I followed her to the door,,she grandly stepped aside when reaching it,,so as I could open it for her..in which I did.. THAT,,was our only time to meet or see each other.. I am the type of man to always do for my lady,, BUT,,thats through feeling she is caring and inwardly appreciated that there done,,as they say and show theirs through words,,like thank you,,or,,,that was sweet,,it in THOSE WORDS,,I DO,,not because the woman, IS EXPECTING IT to be a GOD SEND DUTY.. I have NEVER demanded my lady to DO,,,ANYTHING!,,, Nor,,have ANY DUTIES,,that our solely HERS TO DO... I believe that a working relationship TAKES BOTH,,to give and take in it..and WE OUR THE SAME,,50/50,,, When I feel her LOVE,,through her ALL,,of what I do for her. then I shall always be her door opener, and her lite, and her drink getter,,,,but IF,,,my small wants get over-looked,,then WE ARE NOT in that 50/50 relationship equals... I don't want to CONTROL HER,,nor HER CONTROL ME,,, WE,,,just love each other both enough that WE just DO when we CAN ALWAYS for EACH OTHER....wink,,,,,THATS MY GOOD RELATIONSHIP. anyway???,, |
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Truthfully most of us aren't used to men opening the doors, removing our coats, etc. It's something I rarely see or have experienced in a long time. I'm sure there are plenty of ladies & gentlemen out there but I feel it's a dying breed in both sexes. I usually see this in the older generation. Rarely do I see this type of respect in the younger generation. She picked the steak house,,and as we entered to when we left,, She lead,,,and upon me asking her at our seating, if she preferred me on her side,,or across from her,,she quickly stated OH,,ACROSS I need my elbow room,,,,giggle, giggle,,OK,,so now she is a smoker as I ,,and I lit her cigarette and then later, after we ate,,I missed lighting another one for her,,,she let me know that.. And as I said I was sorry but we were talking and that went right past my notice,,(that she needed a lite),, So WE then got talking about courtesies, and when asked if her ex,,had done that for her,,she replied,,of course! So as we talked deeper into all that he had done,, WHICH,,was EVERYTHING,,I simply told her SHE had lost a very GOOD MAN there,,when they Divorced... Then commented again on my be-half,, I said, there is a fine-line between doing something for someone out of respect and compassions,,,verses,,Being TRAINED! And as I followed her to the door,,she grandly stepped aside when reaching it,,so as I could open it for her..in which I did.. THAT,,was our only time to meet or see each other.. I am the type of man to always do for my lady,, BUT,,thats through feeling she is caring and inwardly appreciated that there done,,as they say and show theirs through words,,like thank you,,or,,,that was sweet,,it in THOSE WORDS,,I DO,,not because the woman, IS EXPECTING IT to be a GOD SEND DUTY.. I have NEVER demanded my lady to DO,,,ANYTHING!,,, Nor,,have ANY DUTIES,,that our solely HERS TO DO... I believe that a working relationship TAKES BOTH,,to give and take in it..and WE OUR THE SAME,,50/50,,, When I feel her LOVE,,through her ALL,,of what I do for her. then I shall always be her door opener, and her lite, and her drink getter,,,,but IF,,,my small wants get over-looked,,then WE ARE NOT in that 50/50 relationship equals... I don't want to CONTROL HER,,nor HER CONTROL ME,,, WE,,,just love each other both enough that WE just DO when we CAN ALWAYS for EACH OTHER....wink,,,,,THATS MY GOOD RELATIONSHIP. anyway???,, You said it all I tip my hand to a true gentlemen... |
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Truthfully most of us aren't used to men opening the doors, removing our coats, etc. It's something I rarely see or have experienced in a long time. I'm sure there are plenty of ladies & gentlemen out there but I feel it's a dying breed in both sexes. I usually see this in the older generation. Rarely do I see this type of respect in the younger generation. She picked the steak house,,and as we entered to when we left,, She lead,,,and upon me asking her at our seating, if she preferred me on her side,,or across from her,,she quickly stated OH,,ACROSS I need my elbow room,,,,giggle, giggle,,OK,,so now she is a smoker as I ,,and I lit her cigarette and then later, after we ate,,I missed lighting another one for her,,,she let me know that.. And as I said I was sorry but we were talking and that went right past my notice,,(that she needed a lite),, So WE then got talking about courtesies, and when asked if her ex,,had done that for her,,she replied,,of course! So as we talked deeper into all that he had done,, WHICH,,was EVERYTHING,,I simply told her SHE had lost a very GOOD MAN there,,when they Divorced... Then commented again on my be-half,, I said, there is a fine-line between doing something for someone out of respect and compassions,,,verses,,Being TRAINED! And as I followed her to the door,,she grandly stepped aside when reaching it,,so as I could open it for her..in which I did.. THAT,,was our only time to meet or see each other.. I am the type of man to always do for my lady,, BUT,,thats through feeling she is caring and inwardly appreciated that there done,,as they say and show theirs through words,,like thank you,,or,,,that was sweet,,it in THOSE WORDS,,I DO,,not because the woman, IS EXPECTING IT to be a GOD SEND DUTY.. I have NEVER demanded my lady to DO,,,ANYTHING!,,, Nor,,have ANY DUTIES,,that our solely HERS TO DO... I believe that a working relationship TAKES BOTH,,to give and take in it..and WE OUR THE SAME,,50/50,,, When I feel her LOVE,,through her ALL,,of what I do for her. then I shall always be her door opener, and her lite, and her drink getter,,,,but IF,,,my small wants get over-looked,,then WE ARE NOT in that 50/50 relationship equals... I don't want to CONTROL HER,,nor HER CONTROL ME,,, WE,,,just love each other both enough that WE just DO when we CAN ALWAYS for EACH OTHER....wink,,,,,THATS MY GOOD RELATIONSHIP. anyway???,, I hear u my friend...just looked..were did u go...and u didn't call me last night....lmao....miscomunication....I wasn't my dialing day..lol So, my heading is pretty out there..but what I did say in my post about it...from all the fun that did come from it... I'm not looking to be wearing that golden diamond thing on my head...oops forgot what I called it.. Balance and love and compassion and most of all....compromise....no one can possibly think alike always... so is that the last time u saw her?????lmao |
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Truthfully most of us aren't used to men opening the doors, removing our coats, etc. It's something I rarely see or have experienced in a long time. I'm sure there are plenty of ladies & gentlemen out there but I feel it's a dying breed in both sexes. I usually see this in the older generation. Rarely do I see this type of respect in the younger generation. She picked the steak house,,and as we entered to when we left,, She lead,,,and upon me asking her at our seating, if she preferred me on her side,,or across from her,,she quickly stated OH,,ACROSS I need my elbow room,,,,giggle, giggle,,OK,,so now she is a smoker as I ,,and I lit her cigarette and then later, after we ate,,I missed lighting another one for her,,,she let me know that.. And as I said I was sorry but we were talking and that went right past my notice,,(that she needed a lite),, So WE then got talking about courtesies, and when asked if her ex,,had done that for her,,she replied,,of course! So as we talked deeper into all that he had done,, WHICH,,was EVERYTHING,,I simply told her SHE had lost a very GOOD MAN there,,when they Divorced... Then commented again on my be-half,, I said, there is a fine-line between doing something for someone out of respect and compassions,,,verses,,Being TRAINED! And as I followed her to the door,,she grandly stepped aside when reaching it,,so as I could open it for her..in which I did.. THAT,,was our only time to meet or see each other.. I am the type of man to always do for my lady,, BUT,,thats through feeling she is caring and inwardly appreciated that there done,,as they say and show theirs through words,,like thank you,,or,,,that was sweet,,it in THOSE WORDS,,I DO,,not because the woman, IS EXPECTING IT to be a GOD SEND DUTY.. I have NEVER demanded my lady to DO,,,ANYTHING!,,, Nor,,have ANY DUTIES,,that our solely HERS TO DO... I believe that a working relationship TAKES BOTH,,to give and take in it..and WE OUR THE SAME,,50/50,,, When I feel her LOVE,,through her ALL,,of what I do for her. then I shall always be her door opener, and her lite, and her drink getter,,,,but IF,,,my small wants get over-looked,,then WE ARE NOT in that 50/50 relationship equals... I don't want to CONTROL HER,,nor HER CONTROL ME,,, WE,,,just love each other both enough that WE just DO when we CAN ALWAYS for EACH OTHER....wink,,,,,THATS MY GOOD RELATIONSHIP. anyway???,, You said it all I tip my hand to a true gentlemen... Terry is my bestest friend here..we love each other very much...almost 3 yrs of great friendship and support..xoxoxo |
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The most amazing revelation I have ever had was when I really understood that not everyone thinks like I do...
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Meh, sounds like a gripe-fest. Guys blaming gals, gals blaming guys for the lack of simple respect. And that's all it is, respect.
Women who get offended when a guy opens the door are idiots, and vice versa. Smile, "thank you" and move on. It's not going to cause you to melt or shrivel. Ditto to the guys. The men claiming to be gentlemen, do you sit and listen to "the guys" slam women up, down and all around, or do ya'll actually stand up and say, "Hey, I don't want to hear that". That whole boys will be boys attitude is what pisses the women off. And this works for the women who gripe about guys, do any of ya'll tell the other women to knock it off? Yes, crap happens. Discussing it in the hopes of learning from it is fine. It's the ones who keep rehashing it, and become bitter that ruins it for everyone. |
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Meh, sounds like a gripe-fest. Guys blaming gals, gals blaming guys for the lack of simple respect. And that's all it is, respect. Women who get offended when a guy opens the door are idiots, and vice versa. Smile, "thank you" and move on. It's not going to cause you to melt or shrivel. Ditto to the guys. The men claiming to be gentlemen, do you sit and listen to "the guys" slam women up, down and all around, or do ya'll actually stand up and say, "Hey, I don't want to hear that". That whole boys will be boys attitude is what pisses the women off. And this works for the women who gripe about guys, do any of ya'll tell the other women to knock it off? Yes, crap happens. Discussing it in the hopes of learning from it is fine. It's the ones who keep rehashing it, and become bitter that ruins it for everyone. Beautiful  Well said
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Meh, sounds like a gripe-fest. Guys blaming gals, gals blaming guys for the lack of simple respect. And that's all it is, respect. Women who get offended when a guy opens the door are idiots, and vice versa. Smile, "thank you" and move on. It's not going to cause you to melt or shrivel. Ditto to the guys. The men claiming to be gentlemen, do you sit and listen to "the guys" slam women up, down and all around, or do ya'll actually stand up and say, "Hey, I don't want to hear that". That whole boys will be boys attitude is what pisses the women off. And this works for the women who gripe about guys, do any of ya'll tell the other women to knock it off? Yes, crap happens. Discussing it in the hopes of learning from it is fine. It's the ones who keep rehashing it, and become bitter that ruins it for everyone. I can't handle anyone complaining all the time or about the same things when around them..My friends,,don't BASH verbally, their other-half??I speak up for ALL when someone GENERALIZES MEN or WOMEN if I read that here,,wink,,so YES,,I am not WELL LIKED,   
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Hello grumpy bears, are we still hashing the lady, gentleman thang :)
Sekin, sorry to see you've been taking a beating. Your fine hun. We are all fine |
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yeah.....................................it's time.
to poop in the corner and round up the flies.      tee hee! mew. |
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yeah.....................................it's time. to poop in the corner and round up the flies. tee hee! mew. Oooookkkkaaaayyyy then!
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Wed 04/14/10 01:28 AM
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yeah.....................................it's time. to poop in the corner and round up the flies. tee hee! mew. Oooookkkkaaaayyyy then! but but butt...bottom..... i'm not a gentleman....i have wayyy too much fun!  yeah those. 
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yeah.....................................it's time. to poop in the corner and round up the flies. tee hee! mew. Oooookkkkaaaayyyy then! but but butt...bottom..... i'm not a gentleman....i have wayyy too much fun! yeah those.
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Hello my friends, Im here if anyone would like to heckle me for awhile. Im getting to where I think you about half like me. Its nice to be a part of something, even if its something as twisted as us...
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Hello my friends, Im here if anyone would like to heckle me for awhile. Im getting to where I think you about half like me. Its nice to be a part of something, even if its something as twisted as us...  IT must be late? THATmade sense to me....................  <----and NOTHING ever makes sense HERE .lol
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Long live the ladies and gents
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Hello my friends, Im here if anyone would like to heckle me for awhile. Im getting to where I think you about half like me. Its nice to be a part of something, even if its something as twisted as us... Oh stop it, you're making me admire you.... 
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Hello my friends, Im here if anyone would like to heckle me for awhile. Im getting to where I think you about half like me. Its nice to be a part of something, even if its something as twisted as us... Oh stop it, you're making me admire you.... Admiration??? I dont think I have ever been admired before. Its kind of a nice feeling, warm and fuzzy, that you very much. |
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