Last week I was talking with this woman over a POF for four days then she just stoped talking to me and never said WHY. Also she mailed ME wanting to talk to ME and she said we had alot in common and wanted to know me. Sooo rude, If I mailed a woman saying I wanted to talk and then changed my mind and didn't want to any more I would tall her so. But that seems tooo hard for wemon to do. And whats with leaving there profile up on a dating only site when there not dating no more. Is it too hard to click on hide profile of atleast say they found a man and are not looking any more.

Why would you wanna put so much energy into understanding women????

We weren't meant to be understood!!!

My brain is hungrey for information and if some day I could understand all wemon life would be wonderful.

But if we understood women then there would be no challenge in life.

It's not just women; men are guilty as well.

Don't generalize.

Men don't understand women,and women don't understand men.I guess it is one of those things that if u figured everything out u would no longer be interested.The best advise I can give is to not put a lot of effort in trying to understand,if someone stops talking to u move on.It is their loss anyway-NEXT!

they do it that way because it hurts the most. there is a reason or reasons, of which may or may not apply to you, but you'll think it's you.... they will never ever tell you why. they never have, and never will. it's an unwritten rule. i came to this conclusion at about 30 years of age.

it's best to pick up, and move on.

last time it happened to me, she quit cold turkey, and things were perfect in our friendship, for that's all it was and could ever be. six months later she told me she stopped contact with me because she was getting feelings for me.....for me, a monster, so she stopped contact. this incident happened many years ago... so you may, or may never know why..... good luck.

men can be just as brutal, but different, and more direct. extremely direct. unless they are wimps, then they text or e-mail you to break it off.............my observations...

people forget that there is theoretically a human with feelings they are communicating with. plus some people just don't care. i find that most people are decent. don't let the inbreds get you down. and just for clarity sake i don't believe we have much in common. there aren't many people who catch my interest. oh and the ones who have are fabulous until date time and they no show. i'm still disappointed. being stood up not fun. happens though :-((

No chit. Smarter men than I have tried with no success.....

I just let them win, always... If you do that then its a win win situation. for the guys, for the ladies

Ya it's sad when people forget about the other persons feeling. I have been doing this internet dating for around a year and sadly theres alot of people who complaine about hurt feeling and can't find a decent human being, but there just as bad.

Ya I usally say f*** it and move on. This post is what I was thinking about at that moment. Tomarrow will be a new day and I'll forget about it. LIfe goes on!

Gee ... this has the potential to get all philosophic 'n introspective 'n stuff, but let's just say that the 'net has depersonalized the formerly fine art of communication between people. We live in a time when people, just like our cars and household appliances, are considered disposable - or interchangeable. I'd like to think there's a good answer to this problem - there's not. Best way to deal with it is to accept this as the 'new given' for dating online, accept it for what it is, and move on. We are now reduced to the old college trick for determining which clothes needed to be washed: Throw 'em at the wall - wash the ones that stick to it.

I know, I got a idea I should invent a computer that will give the user a little electrical shock when they forget about others feeling they aboused.

Hummmm guess I just have never put much thought into why some quit talking after a few e-mails. Hell always figured it was due to they were not interested and moved on. I mean how much is really invested after only a few e-mails?

To me until I actually meet them and take it to the next step then I don't let it worry me at all.

E-mails are just chit chatting back and forth and if someone gets attached that much over a few e-mails hummmmmmmmm they need to step away from the computer for a bit.....JMO

And yes this happens with men/women believe me men do it just as much as women do.

Ohhhhhhhhh and to try to figure women/men out is a waste of brain power hell I would just rather enjoy them the way they are I like it not knowing what they are thinking. Much more fun then to know every move they are going to make or do....

Damn. That almost made sense.....

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