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is it stupid when you found out that your bf cheated on you and you still forgive him and back together? help help Interesting question. A very smart person told me a long time ago that you can never go back........ 
Wise, wise words, Jeff. All of us have felt used or betrayed at one time or another...whether it was cheating, lying, or a myriad of other stupid acts causing loss of trust...it's hard to get past that feeling of being an idiot. But you gotta remember...THEY are the offender...you didn't ask for it the first time...but you DO ask for it the 2nd...or 3rd...or 4th, etc...time. It's easy for someone to tell you to get over it & move on...but believe me...it will happen when you least expect it. I wish you luck... I know. Thank you T. You are very sweet...... 
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People can say what they want to but only the one dealing with the situation can decide.
True I'm not one that can go back to one that cheated and make it work. Maybe I'm just not that forgiving but....I would never tell another that it can't happen for I have seen others work it out and make it work. To me the only one that can decide that is each person what works for one will not always work for another... 
At times we all tend to put up with more then we should at times it is what we need to do in order to finally see it is time to move on and it gives us the closer we all need in order to do just that.. Good luck but do what you feel you need to do just don't close your eyes and heart to what is happening around you. |
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I'm going to stay neutral about this. It's up to you and you only. Umm...well....if you do end up forgiving him, you will find it hard forgetting. It's hard when their at your house or whatever and you're trying so hard not to shout at them. I know how hard that is. Don't let anyone sway your decision. It's your life hun. x
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I'm going to stay neutral about this. It's up to you and you only. Umm...well....if you do end up forgiving him, you will find it hard forgetting. It's hard when their at your house or whatever and you're trying so hard not to shout at them. I know how hard that is. Don't let anyone sway your decision. It's your life hun. x
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The trouble with all lying within a relationship, is that if you TRY to keep things going, you will never be sure you can trust them again. My ex, I gradually discovered, BELIEVED IN LYING to get things done the way she wanted. She never cheated on me. The lies were enough to destroy the marriage, because when things got touchy, I KNEW I couldn't rely on her to tell the truth.
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