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Edited by
Emmanuel123456
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its not my self esteem. i was not acting this way when i was 17 years old. i was very respectful and nice to females. girls at my high school never wanted to date me. cause they think i was retarded. cause i have assistant teacher helping me on my school work. so the girls there think they were better than me cause i dont meet there standards. girls on here are not talking to me. i said hi, your cute to them. and they didnt respond. and they didnt add me as friend. so i feel like im cursed. and my teacher told me, your a nice, sweet, good looking young man. i dont get why you dont have girlfriend. and i said thank you with a smile. and i said i try to talk to them, but they didnt want to get to know me. and she said, i dont get why girls dont like you. she said i was very sweet guy.
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Be confident in the fact that you know you are a nice sweet guy. If girls don't want to talk to you then its their loss. If you try to hard to get a girlfriend you're not going to get a good response from women as you may come across as desperate. Women need to feel like you want them for who they are, not that you would just be happy with any female who pays attention to you.
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Well...this plan is off to a winning start. Should we open the gates to the women, and let them flood him with attention...I mean...he's already been here a whole day!  
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Maybe they don't like you because you're yelling at them? Typing in all caps online is considered yelling and it's rude. Try posting in the forums and getting to know women before you email them or send them friend requests. I have no interest in talking to a man unless I know- and like- him from the forums. And like someone else said, work on having a more positive attitude, no one likes a downer or a whiner. Be cheerful, be happy and you'll attract others. Good luck to you.  Gotta agree once again with LA here.   
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chill, the best way to start is understand it takes trial and error to find someone, dont get worked up over it. Plenty more fish in the sea. yeah...i agree...you have plenty of time...im almost 32 and i havnt found the right girl yet...just dont whine, dont act needy, be yourself, and be confident! and dont compliment all of the time. girls get that all of the time...if you are going to compliment...compliment on something that you dont think other guys have complimented on a billion times before...talk on the forums and get to know people...good luck 
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FEMALES IS NOT TALKING TO ME OR ADDING ME. I DONT GET WHY GIRLS DONT LIKE ME. IM 20 AND NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND BEFORE. IT FEELS LIKE I WAS HERE BY A MISTAKE. I DONT GET WHY GIRLS DONT LIKE ME. ITS A CURSES. IM A NICE GUY. I DONT GET WHY GIRLS DONT LIKE ME. I HATE MY LIFE. I GET EMOTION SICKNESS EVERY SINGLE DAY WHEN GIRLS I LIKE DONT LIKE ME. IT HURTS ME A LOT. NOBODY UNDERSTANDS MY FEELINGS. IT HURTS ME A LOT. IT FEEL LIKE IM CURSED. I WISH I WAS NEVER BORN. I WANT OUT OF THIS WORLD just my 2cents |
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I can relate. I have been on here since 4:15 and haven't gotten one marriage proposal yet.
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I can relate. I have been on here since 4:15 and haven't gotten one marriage proposal yet.
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I can relate. I have been on here since 4:15 and haven't gotten one marriage proposal yet. I know the feeling. 
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people in here are so dumb...
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people in here are so dumb... If you don't like it you can leave. We won't stop you. |
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Saying to a girl "Hi, you're cute" is not a good way to start a conversation. Cute girls are told they're cute all the time. Try talking to them about common interests, that's how you start a conversation, and that is how you keep someone's attention.
And about them not accepting your friend request, this isn't myspace, people don't just add you on here to build up a list. Most people add people they've talked to and consider "friends." I've had several friend requests that I rejected, why? Because I didn't know them! I don't care how long my friends' list is, I don't add people I don't know, and I don't add men simply because they think I'm cute. I don't care what I look like and neither should they. Talk to women in the forums, get to know them, ask questions, volunteer info about yourself, build a friendship before you try to call it one. I know you think we're being hard on you, but we're not, we're trying to help. I don't want to date or be friends with anyone I don't know, so try getting to know people and your dates and friends will appear. I wish you luck. |
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Saying to a girl "Hi, you're cute" is not a good way to start a conversation. Cute girls are told they're cute all the time. Try talking to them about common interests, that's how you start a conversation, and that is how you keep someone's attention. And about them not accepting your friend request, this isn't myspace, people don't just add you on here to build up a list. Most people add people they've talked to and consider "friends." I've had several friend requests that I rejected, why? Because I didn't know them! I don't care how long my friends' list is, I don't add people I don't know, and I don't add men simply because they think I'm cute. I don't care what I look like and neither should they. Talk to women in the forums, get to know them, ask questions, volunteer info about yourself, build a friendship before you try to call it one. I know you think we're being hard on you, but we're not, we're trying to help. I don't want to date or be friends with anyone I don't know, so try getting to know people and your dates and friends will appear. I wish you luck. words to abide by...very smart! |
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Well, confidence is a biatch these days....
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Saying to a girl "Hi, you're cute" is not a good way to start a conversation. Cute girls are told they're cute all the time. Try talking to them about common interests, that's how you start a conversation, and that is how you keep someone's attention. And about them not accepting your friend request, this isn't myspace, people don't just add you on here to build up a list. Most people add people they've talked to and consider "friends." I've had several friend requests that I rejected, why? Because I didn't know them! I don't care how long my friends' list is, I don't add people I don't know, and I don't add men simply because they think I'm cute. I don't care what I look like and neither should they. Talk to women in the forums, get to know them, ask questions, volunteer info about yourself, build a friendship before you try to call it one. I know you think we're being hard on you, but we're not, we're trying to help. I don't want to date or be friends with anyone I don't know, so try getting to know people and your dates and friends will appear. I wish you luck. words to abide by...very smart! Thank you. 
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people in here are so dumb... If you don't like it you can leave. We won't stop you. |
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Edited by
jlove43
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Fri 04/02/10 06:10 PM
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people in here are so dumb... If you don't like it you can leave. We won't stop you. I didn't know she was bitter. I like her!
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people in here are so dumb... If you don't like it you can leave. We won't stop you. I didn't know LA is bitter. |
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people in here are so dumb... If you don't like it you can leave. We won't stop you. I didn't know LA is bitter. He didn't quote me, he quoted Myka.  I'm not bitter, I'm semi-sweet. 
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