Topic: first date... first meet...
samantha198403's photo
Fri 10/06/06 02:32 PM
ok, i am at a total loss for words on this subject... depending on my
schedule, i might have a date on tuesday for coffee, but i met this guy
on a dating site, i dont know how i should look, (i was thinking jeans
and a t shirt), and i sure as hell dont know what to talk about, and
when i get nervous i start babbling on about stupid shit... please help
on topics... and if you have any advice.... please...

greeneyedlady42's photo
Fri 10/06/06 02:49 PM
Two words-Be yourself
wear what makes you comfortable and ask him questions-You'll find out
how much you have in common or how much you dont.
Just be you- If you try to be something your not youll spend your dating
life trying to live up to that and wont be happy.
Your perfect the way you are.

samantha198403's photo
Fri 10/06/06 02:58 PM
thank you, i usually dont have this problem, but this is the first time
im actually meeting someone i met on the internet... and i hope i dont
make myself look stupid, one more question, if i get there first, do i
satnd up and shake his hand, or just stay sitting and say hi?

ShagnaC's photo
Fri 10/06/06 06:38 PM
Just be yourself, If he doesnt accept that fuck him!! KNow you are ok
just as you are and enjoy yourself, I know I get nervous also but it
does go away within like 5 minutes lol Have fun!! but also be careful
please.

Jimi366's photo
Fri 10/06/06 07:14 PM
I can only say what everyone else has said.
BE YOURSELF.
If you're nervous that's ok. Tell him you're nervous.
He will be as nervous as you I guarantee.
Don't prep yourself on what to say.
Don't rehearse anything.
Just go with the flow.
Good luck!

no photo
Fri 10/06/06 09:35 PM
I were just myself on my first date with a guy on the site we truly just
talk about what we been through in finding someone special. I have to
amount I did go out with some guys would exspected me to give it up on
the first date, but I did't I'm not type of woman:)

no photo
Fri 10/06/06 09:43 PM
just go out and have a nice time.

no photo
Sat 10/07/06 01:39 AM
just be yourself samantha. from the few posts that i have seen you come
across as down to earth and thoughtful, you'll be fine. it can be hard
to get a feel for who someone really is if they are tryin to impress all
the time.

Sportychic's photo
Sat 10/07/06 01:45 AM
hey Samantha just be yourself and have fun he shouldnt expect anymore
then that

samantha198403's photo
Sat 10/07/06 11:23 AM
thank you all, i appreciate it... its tuesday... and ill tell yall how
it goes

samantha198403's photo
Tue 10/10/06 08:35 AM
ok, well... its happened again... but this time i got stood up before i
even left the house... oh well... i have to work tonight, so that means
a lil extra sleep...lol...hiss loss. thank you all for the advice.

no photo
Tue 10/10/06 11:25 AM
JUST BE YOUR SELF AND KEEP IT REAL...DONT TRY TO IMPRESS THEM.HE SHOULD
LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE.TRY NOT TO PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE
ELSE-AGAIN,JUST RELAX AND BE YOUR SELF...YOU CAN DO IT!BEST WISHES-
sINCERELY DEBBIE m

Ontario's photo
Tue 10/10/06 11:37 AM
You got stood up before leaving the house... ha ha, thats kinda funny.
I have a first date tonight also... (dating my ex-girlfriends friend)
Volumes 1&2.
Volume 3 the date goes domn tonight, she has called this morning to
confirm.
I will give a stunning report about the details tomorrow.