when you feel you are out of options? I am a 34 year old single female, no children, no 'luggage' but I only seem to attract the wrong men. ha ha ha I came on here as my last option. WHERE DO YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONES??????

Sorry, guess I am feeling a little frustrated today. Take a deep breath, step back from the situation, and start over...... Hello all

You have to figure out what makes them the wrong ones and stay away from that trait in the future.

Good luck. Join in the forums and get to know people. There are some great people here

Welcome to Mingle... Not sure you'll find the love of your life but many have so good luck... At the very least you'll make some great friends...

I have figured out what makes them wrong. The problem is that most men all possess those wrong qualities. I've been in the streets, bars, met them at work, church, hook ups with friends....a ll the same result. Maybe I should lower my standards. But is it wrong to look for a man who is your equal? Don't want a sugar daddy. I take care of myself. I don't need a father figure, my dad is great. A man who knows what he wants, works, takes care of himself, stays clear of drugs (of all sorts), and loves with all his heart..... ha ha ha, sounds impossible to me too, now.

It might take longer to find what you are looking for, but I wouldn't lower what I am looking for. You just have to be patient. Don't settle for less than you are looking for or you will be in the same situation as before.

Where to find the right one...very few people would know that answer on here...hence why we are here...good luck

Hey!!!

Love will find ya....don't look so hard

it's the ones who look and look and look that never find it!!!

If ya relax and just live your everyday life doin whatever ya do- withot worrying about having someone- men tend to gravitate towards ya

they really don't like women who are looking like wolves in the woods and whining about it- it scares them- they wanna know your content with your life no matter what


Good luck to you!!


Tammy

Try this for a week: Take a piece of paper and write on it the names of five people you admire and what quality about them you admire; then number it 1-5; then when you wake up in the morning, roll a die and if it selects a person, act like you were that person for the day; if it rolls a six, just be yourself; see if you can practice these qualities you admire by pretending to be that person.

I'm not sure either. Just let the past go and look for the morning sun! Its springtime, summer is almost here!

The biggest thing and possibly the hardest is to just be happy being you.Treat being single as an adventure not a misfortune.If u find happiness in yourself and are comfertable with who you are it will attract people to you.

WELL,,I WAS going to answer YA,,,BUT THEN i REALIZED I always look IN THE WRONG places as well,,,

there are always options. some are just not desirable ones. for me, i won't compromise my standards. but, it would be an option if i so chose.



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I tend to investigate them to much. I've been hurt so much that I use my work interrigation techniques through out the date or conversation to determine if shes lying. Actually I tend to do that with most people, it's like I can't turn it off when im not working

i wish i knew where all the good woman went to no i take that back i wish i knew where just one was at i am 35 single and going out my mind trying to find that one who is a keeper so i know it is hard to find some one now a days

Have you tried Alaska yet ?

"LOVE WILL FIND YOU"

Glad I changed my address.

Seriously, I get the whole "you've got to get out there" thing (even though I'm going on dating websites...which is NOT "getting out there" technically, but why nitpick?).


It's the waiting game that's sticking in my craw.
But I won't be pushy.

Love's got my number. My phone's on all the time.
Unlimited minutes.
That's right, ladies. Unlimited minutes. Start swooning.....now.

Change what type of guy you go for, if you go for the same type every time, you will get the same result every time .

Looking for love is like looking for car keys ... You NEVER find it while you are looking, BUT one day when you least expect it you open that junk drawer and there it is!

HAHA I should write greeting cards!!

This was originally posted in March... and that person hasn't logged on in over a month...