That would be willing, and able to love me??? I feel like noone ever will I just feel like giving up on the whole 'love' thing!!

Pets are better, they love you always.

I have my ups and downs, too, on the whole "finding that special someone" thing. The best advice I can give you is, take things one day at a time, and it WILL happen. You seem like a really nice person with a lot to offer, and that's a lot coming from a Yankees fan!(please don't beat me with a stick!) Hang in there; I intend to!!

I won't beat you with a stick!! (I can't, you are too far away)

If LUV comes your way then GREAT! If NOT then just be HAPPY that you are here today and enjoy all that you have in your life TODAY..............Tomorrow is a given just LUV yourself & take LIFE one day at a time. People need to just be happy with themselves before they can truly be loved! I don't know how else to explaine this, but just appricate what you have here and now then the rest shall come!

Welcome to the dark side.

I gave up a long time ago.

At this point, I really don't care if there is someone or not.

I hven't given up but have redirected my thoughts about it. Put your energy into giving love to others. Seems the times i had just laid it down and went on to the other things is when would meet someone. I do know exactly what you mean tho, sometimes that ache really can get ya.

I've been hurt to many times and I don't believe in true love. Maybe one day you could find that special someone.

Same here. I've been through so many bad relationships that it's impossible for me to consider there could ever be a good one.

That's how I feel!! The only really 'good' relationship I had was 6 years ago!! That one woulda lasted, but in '06 he unfortunately passed away I'm afraid I will never find that again!!

Just because you've been through hell, doesn't mean you have to stay there.

Sorry for your loss.

I've felt like this for the majority of the last fifteen years being single, but I stopped stressing about it a long time ago. I've accepted the fact that some people fly solo. I'm one of 'em apparently.

It's not so bad 99% of the time. The remaining 1% is effectively managed with a good cry or a rare alcohol induced delirium.

I'd rather be alone for eternity than with the wrong guy. It'll happen if and when it's supposed to, in my deluded way of thinking. Not much I can do but be me.

Hang tough! We can handle it. We're Sox fans for God's sake. We're used to heartbreak and misery. But doesn't it just make it that much sweeter when you're finally hoisting that trophy?

Recall '04.

And while '07 was sweet, it couldn't hold a candle to the one three years earlier, because we'd suffered for 86 years before that blissful event!

I look at my love life the same way. Before '04 I used to say I'd fall in love when the Sox won the series, jokingly meaning never. I was so thrilled to have to revise my motto. Now it's before Papelbon reaches the hall.

Hang tough Redsoxfan1! Sadness passes.

Hell is a piece of cake....Indianastan is something else again....!

Redsoxsfan........look to the goodthings in your life....have an openheart.....love comes in many different forms....never think you are alone........umm.....don't mean to sound like a hallmark card...damnit........ ....teasingbrunette

Guys are lame, puppies are AWESOME

Hmmm, perhaps you should look to import, unless there's a law or something. Or flee Indianastan, unless they have armed guards at the borders with orders to shoot narcissistic authors that might be trying to escape. Loneliness is a self imposed prison.

Don't give up Justaguy
At least someone cared enough to tie your monkey up

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