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Topic: I met a new man...
mry's photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:26 PM
I met a new man for coffee today. However I was visibly nervous...Gawd...he was HOT...and very nice! My question is...Is being noticeably nervous a bad thing?

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Thu 03/11/10 04:29 PM
I'd think being visibly nervous was a sign that you're actually into the other person and trying to be on your best behavior, hoping it worked out. I'd think it was cute if my date was nervous, rather endearing....

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:30 PM
Good for you! I'm sure he'll find it cute like LA said.. It's far better than being CoCky and obnoxious... flowerforyou

RowBaby's photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:31 PM
I don't think it's a bad thing.

How did the coffee date go?

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:31 PM
Woman nervous, cute.

Guy nervous.....may not get date number two.

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Thu 03/11/10 04:32 PM
We've all been in that situation. I am glad for you! I hope it works out!!! flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:33 PM

Woman nervous, cute.

Guy nervous.....may not get date number two.


naaaa, a guy can be nervous, wouldn't ruin it for me.

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Thu 03/11/10 04:34 PM

Is being noticeably nervous a bad thing?
Only if you're standing in line at the bank.... smokin

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Thu 03/11/10 04:35 PM
A cute guy blushing would cause me to swoon and go squeeeeeee....only quietly, because I might scare him.laugh

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:36 PM
I think it was good that you were nervous...especially if the guy is hott! I'd probably fall out if I was dating a hot guy.

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Thu 03/11/10 05:10 PM
Good for You.

A little nervous is OK, leaving to go vomit because of nerves is not.



Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 03/11/10 05:25 PM

I think it was good that you were nervous...especially if the guy is hott! I'd probably fall out if I was dating a hot guy.


hummm, there's lots of hot guys out there...I'd fall out if he's a sweetheart and a gentleman and treated me like a princess.

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 03/11/10 05:30 PM


I think it was good that you were nervous...especially if the guy is hott! I'd probably fall out if I was dating a hot guy.


hummm, there's lots of hot guys out there...I'd fall out if he's a sweetheart and a gentleman and treated me like a princess.


I definitely agree with this.

buttons's photo
Thu 03/11/10 06:53 PM
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh that happens to me too when i meet in person someone im interested in! geesh i dont know why but i shy right up! well glad u met someone u like!! congrats!flowerforyou

kissablekiss's photo
Thu 03/11/10 06:59 PM

We've all been in that situation. I am glad for you! I hope it works out!!! flowerforyou
I beg to differ .. how did it go apart for butterflies in yah stomach

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 03/11/10 07:18 PM

I met a new man for coffee today. However I was visibly nervous...Gawd...he was HOT...and very nice! My question is...Is being noticeably nervous a bad thing?


Only if you were so nervous that your hands shook and you wound up spilling your coffee into his lap.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 03/11/10 07:19 PM

Woman nervous, cute.

Guy nervous.....may not get date number two.


More like " definitely won't ".

Funny how that works, eh?

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Thu 03/11/10 07:47 PM

ohhhhhhhhhhhhh that happens to me too when i meet in person someone im interested in! geesh i dont know why but i shy right up!
Fortunately shyness is sexy :wink:

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 03/11/10 07:51 PM


Woman nervous, cute.

Guy nervous.....may not get date number two.


More like " definitely won't ".

Funny how that works, eh?


Why..am I missing something here? Why can't a guy be shy on a first meeting? Is it just ok for the gals..man, I have really been out of the loop far to long!

74Drew's photo
Thu 03/11/10 08:34 PM

...Gawd...he was HOT...and very nice!

it's good to know that as i grow older i'll still be judged on my appearance.


I met a new man for coffee today. However I was visibly nervous...

My question is...Is being noticeably nervous a bad thing?

probably not. he was probably nervous too and you just didn't notice because of how nervous you were.


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