How's come good ones are what "Most women" say they are looking for and Want? Do women really think there are none out here?? Than how's come we hadn't met yet? Ok Well I'm one of them! For real! I'm not by far Prince charming but in return I'm not Ugly! I guess you can say My Heart up for that!! Lol I've Never ever "strayed" around with another, while being in a relationship with someone else!!. Is that not what most people worry about when in a relationship is TRUST? So why does it always come down to Looks, Money, what they drive? Why. do we always go for looks? We are all only Human right? I'm Honest, caring, Trustworthy, I have goals! Etc... Can anyone honestly say they are open and say they can be true to there heart when it comes to finding there soul mate, true love, there life long companion! And there best Friend???? Be open and honest with yourself is it not supposed has to start from within your heart right? Ok well enough from my heart what about your???? I'm a man of 44yrs young and for most my life this is what I've heard. Thanks for your time! :)

I would love that in guy! That's always where I start is from the heart!

Thanks for your comment, and stay true thank U!! ;)

Your smiley looks confused, but thanks for the reply..

Both of course!

We must be attracted to our partners. Some level of attraction is present from the start; however, it might change or strengthen as the relationship grows -- but attraction is the first step.

Personality, integrity, and soul are the second part of the equation.

Ask 100 people this question and you will get 100 different answers. Individually we are obviously different in what we are seeking in a partner, so this question is entirely subjective.

Take pleasure in dating and enjoy the site!

What is funny is you hear all these men/women say how good they are and they will do this or do that and want do this or that and when you finally meet them and the more you get to know them everything they said was just a cover then you get to know the real person. They end up not being anything as they say they are shshshhs.......


Sorry not towards the OP just a bad day

I'll go to my corner and see how this comes out later

Ohh and for the record I have never went for the money nor the looks but sure you have to find something that attracts you to that person... maybe I should just go the superficial way at least then I would know they were fake from the start......


Okay off to my corner carry on.............

hello and welcome

And I am Batman.

You are rite and thanks for the opinion! I know that an honest opinion as yours is very nice for all of us to see and take in to consideration about who we really are and do we need to become a better person from within! Thanks again!! Sorry for your bad day :) enjoy a smile and come out that corner and mingle :)

ding ding ding ding and the winner issssssssssss Kristi

I think the same

kinda like why me but a subdued why me

Kuul glad to meet you batman lmao

Just making a point. Telling people who you are on the internet is a lot like saying 'I am Batman.' It doesn't go very far and few are willing to take you at your word, better to just do whatever it is you do and be yourself when you are online...let the masses make the decision for you.

If you start off thinking negative things about all those you meet, then only negative people will come into your life...

I've never thought negative thoughts about others when I first meet them or talk to them. Matter of fact I trust others maybe too much at times just the way I'm..... this is by experience I just expect those to be whom they say they are.....and then find out they are not......


But then I guess I could come back and say that one should not assume about another and the way they think when they have no clue about the person they make those assumptions about.............

We all have to be attracted to someone, I very few people would look at someone as say "wow, butt ugly but what a great personality, I'm want to date them"... We are not all attracted to the same look either.. Who I find attractive someone else may not... I like the ruggedly handsome and pretty boy looks.. Those are 2 different extremes... Most of my friends don't find the same men attractive that I do... I may be somewhat attracted to someone and then get to know them, their sense of humor, ability to communicate, intelligence, etc. any of the many things that I find attractive in a man and those other things will make me be even more attracted to him... And THEN if he does something/things that turn me off, like has a lack of ethics or does not have any of the same goals or desires in life that I do, then I will lose my attraction for him...

We have different tastes, desires, needs, wants, etc. If we don't see that in a person then really looks have nothing to do with it but to even want to get to know a person most people need to be attracted to a person...

Every time I've seen this topic the OP gets compliments and isn't interested in those giving the compliments or those showing the interest.... Most times I see this topic the OP is unhappy b/c who "they" want may not want them, but they don't seem to stop and think about the people that "do" want them and how the role is switched b/c they don't want those people...

Hummmmmmmmm could not have said it any better for each time I have seen this same subject even though many say how they are and wonder why they have not found the one... When they have someone looking their way they seem to look past them for they are not what they are looking for.

We all have preferences and truth is finding another that we want and that wants us in return is not as easy as it seems...........it is more like finding a needle in a hay stack.......till it pricks you and opens your eyes you don't even see it....

Good point!

Posting a photo may help.....

I just want him great in bed!!

My eyes are closed... I don't care what ya look like!! Haha

if your that bad lookin.....

I keep a supply of paper bags in the nightstand drawer!!!