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I know, I'll find that strengh again somehow. I just want to be careful not to turn into someone that's cold and hard because of it. It's so hard, you know. She wanted me so bad, so completely. Then once she had me, it all went down hill from there. It all seemed so perfect and honest in the beginning. I was devoted to her all heart and soul, the way I thought it was supposed to be. I don't know how I will ever be able to trust someone else with that again. I've been there for the most part.. I don't have the answer about trusting again, that part I'm still working on.. But you first have to be ok with you before any of that matters again... I'm ok with me, still working on the trusting another part but I go by the "give them enough rope" rule... I watch and listen, if they blow it they blow it, I don't invest before that... That's not to say I'm hard or mean, just very careful and somewhat removed/void of DEEP emotion.. Doesn't that suck that people just take the best parts of what we used to trust relationships to be away? I'll definitely be looking for the red flags the next time. I just hate having to be that way, and to think the next person I'll be dating will probably be doing the same thing with me because of what they might have went through. it does suck and I don't have a quick fix answer for that... Just be you, be careful, don't do all the giving and DON'T let one person ruin what you could have with a good person... |
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I know, I'll find that strengh again somehow. I just want to be careful not to turn into someone that's cold and hard because of it. It's so hard, you know. She wanted me so bad, so completely. Then once she had me, it all went down hill from there. It all seemed so perfect and honest in the beginning. I was devoted to her all heart and soul, the way I thought it was supposed to be. I don't know how I will ever be able to trust someone else with that again. I've been there for the most part.. I don't have the answer about trusting again, that part I'm still working on.. But you first have to be ok with you before any of that matters again... I'm ok with me, still working on the trusting another part but I go by the "give them enough rope" rule... I watch and listen, if they blow it they blow it, I don't invest before that... That's not to say I'm hard or mean, just very careful and somewhat removed/void of DEEP emotion.. Doesn't that suck that people just take the best parts of what we used to trust relationships to be away? I'll definitely be looking for the red flags the next time. I just hate having to be that way, and to think the next person I'll be dating will probably be doing the same thing with me because of what they might have went through. it does suck and I don't have a quick fix answer for that... Just be you, be careful, don't do all the giving and DON'T let one person ruin what you could have with a good person... It's too bad your so far away. |
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Never too far for friendship and strength.. Like I said I've had my own "ouches" but I've learned that no matter how bad it seems to hurt at the time, we get past it but learning and gaining strength for it is up to us...
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Never too far for friendship and strength.. Like I said I've had my own "ouches" but I've learned that no matter how bad it seems to hurt at the time, we get past it but learning and gaining strength for it is up to us... Yeah, I just hope I find the real thing someday. The one that lasts forever. I wonder if it really exists |
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Never too far for friendship and strength.. Like I said I've had my own "ouches" but I've learned that no matter how bad it seems to hurt at the time, we get past it but learning and gaining strength for it is up to us... Yeah, I just hope I find the real thing someday. The one that lasts forever. I wonder if it really exists I hope and wonder the same thing.. But since I don't know the answer, I choose to be happy with me and content with life as I choose to make it.. |
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I guess that's all we can do. It just blows me away that what everybody wants, they can have, if they would just stop playing games with the ones thet're with when they have the relationship.
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I guess that's all we can do. It just blows me away that what everybody wants, they can have, if they would just stop playing games with the ones thet're with when they have the relationship. Remember the song "he wants her, she wants him, he wants somebody else, you just can't win"? That is how it is most of the time... |
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I guess that's all we can do. It just blows me away that what everybody wants, they can have, if they would just stop playing games with the ones thet're with when they have the relationship. Remember the song "he wants her, she wants him, he wants somebody else, you just can't win"? That is how it is most of the time... Is that "Love Stinks"? I think I know that one. |
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I guess that's all we can do. It just blows me away that what everybody wants, they can have, if they would just stop playing games with the ones thet're with when they have the relationship. Remember the song "he wants her, she wants him, he wants somebody else, you just can't win"? That is how it is most of the time... Is that "Love Stinks"? I think I know that one. Yep... and no matter what, avoid being part of that equation.. 
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Yeah, but the only problem is is that you usually don't see that until it's too late.
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Yeah, but the only problem is is that you usually don't see that until it's too late. most of the time.. once you learn the math it's only once in a great while... |
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Yeah, but the only problem is is that you usually don't see that until it's too late. most of the time.. once you learn the math it's only once in a great while... If only they taught these things in school, huh. |
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We wouldn't have listened..
I think "if only we knew then what we know now".... |
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We wouldn't have listened.. I think "if only we knew then what we know now".... Yeah, like Rod Stewart's song. I wish that I knew what I know, when I was younger. Wouldn't that be something |
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yes it would be... I say that quite often..
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Anyone have any ideas of how to move on with someone else when your heart is stuck on someone else? I know I should get over it, but how?  
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yes it would be... I say that quite often.. Thanks for taking the time to talk with me tonight sweety. Im going to hit the bed and try to get this off my mind for awhile. Im glad I got to talk with you. I'll definitely check in and talk with you again the next time Im on. Have a good night princess, and thanks again. |
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I think "if only we knew then what we know now".... Wise words 
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Only advice I have is you have to see the reality of it and realize that other person does not love you and has no intention of returning that love. Then and only then maybe you will see that what you want will never happen no matter what you say or do.
Down the road you will realize this when you do meet that certain one that feels the same way about you as you do them. Then you will look back and see the whole picture as it really was and that it was not what you thought it was at the time....... Time and patience will get you through as well as looking deep within your heart and being truthful to yourself and seeing reality as it really is...... 
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You gave her your heart because you loved her so much, you got to go on. It's not easy in fact it's hard but, everyday it will get a little better. I got this from someone else on the mingles community site. I keep it and read it everyday, it's helping me get over the one that i loved.
God never closes one door without opening another, the problem is we focus so much on the closed door we never see the other open. Keep your head up and move on. |
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