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Topic: Have you ever been slandered?
Edy_ca's photo
Sat 02/27/10 04:26 PM


yeah, the worst was by my fiancé's mother, after he passed away from cancer. did everything she could to bash me after i gave up everything for him when he was sick, which of course i did out of love.


Well, it sounds like you rose above it all and forgave her. Good for you! I'm so sorry for your loss and the pain afterwards. I don't know why people have to be so cruel. Chin up! flowerforyou waving


thank you, he made me the person i am today! and I will see him again :wink:

Meg8771's photo
Sat 02/27/10 04:30 PM
Always remember - "The truth is the truth even if no one believes it and a lie is a lie even if everyone believes it". flowerforyou


Dict8's photo
Sat 02/27/10 04:32 PM

Always remember - "The truth is the truth even if no one believes it and a lie is a lie even if everyone believes it". flowerforyou


waving Hi Meg! :tongue:

Meg8771's photo
Sat 02/27/10 04:36 PM


Always remember - "The truth is the truth even if no one believes it and a lie is a lie even if everyone believes it". flowerforyou


waving Hi Meg! :tongue:


Hi doll! Long time no see flowerforyou

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 02/28/10 03:52 PM
Yes, and I was advised to hold on for a couple more years to the crap, slander and harrassment, that he gave me via email. So It's sitting in a folder.


TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 03/01/10 11:17 AM

Anybody ever wage a smear campaign on ya' cuz' they were angry at you? :tongue:


Only in almost every thread I start. LOL Sometimes people get upset because I clam to be able to do something they cannot. The say I'm lying or call me names. I think it's funny. Even if they are talking about how much they hate me, they're still talking about me. LOL

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 03/01/10 11:21 AM

Anybody ever wage a smear campaign on ya' cuz' they were angry at you? :tongue:


Yep...I thought it was funny, because most everything they said I just agreed with because it was true.laugh laugh

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Mon 03/01/10 11:36 AM
The only issue I've ever had with something like this was someone online being angry and telling people what a horrible person I was. I never did find out why that person was so angry. laugh

Shasta1's photo
Mon 03/01/10 12:05 PM

The only issue I've ever had with something like this was someone online being angry and telling people what a horrible person I was. I never did find out why that person was so angry. laugh


Why do people do that? To me, if it were a man, it might be attraction in a immature way. If it were a woman, I'd chalk it up to jealousy.

I've been set up- literally 2 different times in my life by people to make me look as if I were stealing.
I knew I wasn't so held my head up and ignored it all. The truth does come out in the end. They got too confident.

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Mon 03/01/10 12:14 PM


The only issue I've ever had with something like this was someone online being angry and telling people what a horrible person I was. I never did find out why that person was so angry. laugh


Why do people do that? To me, if it were a man, it might be attraction in a immature way. If it were a woman, I'd chalk it up to jealousy.

I've been set up- literally 2 different times in my life by people to make me look as if I were stealing.
I knew I wasn't so held my head up and ignored it all. The truth does come out in the end. They got too confident.


I'm not sure why they did it. It was someone I knew very little. Oh well!

Glad to hear you were able to ignore what was done to you and that it turned out ok in the end.

Shasta1's photo
Mon 03/01/10 04:02 PM



The only issue I've ever had with something like this was someone online being angry and telling people what a horrible person I was. I never did find out why that person was so angry. laugh


Why do people do that? To me, if it were a man, it might be attraction in a immature way. If it were a woman, I'd chalk it up to jealousy.

I've been set up- literally 2 different times in my life by people to make me look as if I were stealing.
I knew I wasn't so held my head up and ignored it all. The truth does come out in the end. They got too confident.


I'm not sure why they did it. It was someone I knew very little. Oh well!

Glad to hear you were able to ignore what was done to you and that it turned out ok in the end.


Thanks. Besides what other people think of me is none of my businesslaugh :wink:

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Mon 03/01/10 04:07 PM
i just dont pay it any mind...i so honest with people i tend to piss them off some times but everybody that matters knows who i am and how i am so if they choose to believe some made up crap then i dont need that type of friend any waydrinker drinker

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 03/01/10 04:08 PM
I've had people talk about me all the time in the past (present and probably future lol)

I can own up to my mistakes and if it isn't true, then I don't worry about pettiness. and I just laugh at people who believe it without even getting both sides.

Not really worth my time smokin

rara777's photo
Mon 03/01/10 05:23 PM
When they are talking about me, they are leaving some other poor S.O.B. alone.:laughing: rofl

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Tue 03/02/10 12:35 AM
Gossip is always a negative thing IMO and can end in hurting others very badly. The problem I see is that gossip is not something that will be going away any time soon in any given population. sad2 sad2

Dict8's photo
Tue 03/02/10 12:59 AM
True...gossip will never go away, but there's a difference between gossip and carpet bombing a persons reputation bu making phone calls and scattering e-mails to everybody around you . Gossip is day to day...having somebody call everybody you know and e-mail everybody you know and spreading slander is a bit different.:tongue:

ArtGurl's photo
Tue 03/02/10 01:20 AM
Yes I have ... a former co-worker ... she was mentally unstable so I put up with far more than I should have ... but I was young.

It sucked at the time!

flowerforyou

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Tue 03/02/10 05:03 AM

Gossip is always a negative thing IMO and can end in hurting others very badly. The problem I see is that gossip is not something that will be going away any time soon in any given population. sad2 sad2


No, it won't go away. Some people just love gossip way too much.

carold's photo
Tue 03/02/10 08:10 AM

True...gossip will never go away, but there's a difference between gossip and carpet bombing a persons reputation bu making phone calls and scattering e-mails to everybody around you . Gossip is day to day...having somebody call everybody you know and e-mail everybody you know and spreading slander is a bit different.:tongue:
There a some truely hurt by what has happened to them. And there will be a reaction. Try to mend the wrongs this person is feeling, is all one can do. Then leave it and go on.

wesssssss's photo
Mon 03/08/10 02:21 AM
Yes my ex set up a face book profile as me and she is putting all sorts of shite on it.

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