Of course not all women are like that. Thankfully, as they get older some women wake up to the fact that their dream man is a mirage.

Sadly, it is not unusual for a younger "Christian" woman to complain about a man not having the right amount of faith, when her real complaint is that the man does not have the ability to give her the lifestyle that she wants.

Christian women want their flesh pleased as much as men want it.

Granted, there are men who play a religious game in order to attract women.

However, there are also "Christian" women who will choose a non-Christian man instead of a Christian man because the non-Christian is better at pleasing the women's flesh. Then the women will claim that they can persuade the non-Christian man to become a Christian, contradicting what Jesus says in John 6:44.

Where are our christian women

That is what I want to know.
I am beginning to think that there aren't any good Christian women on this website.

Yeah, but to bad you posted that back in Feb.,it's freaken almost october!

seems almost impossible to fine one =/

Yes it does, quite depressing. But always gotta keep in mind God doesn't want anyone to be sad, upset, or any foul emotion. Only wants happiness, so you gotta keep the trust that the lord will bring you to the one you will love.

This is true. I know he is out there, somewhere. It just seems that all the guys that make it known that they are interested in me are just interested in what they want to do with me. I am not that kind of woman. But I will continue to pray for a man that puts God before all.

I agree God wants us all to be joyful, joy comes from God, happiness is something we have that shouldn't be dependant on our staure or situation in life...isn't it enough to be alive and saved by the grace of God? that one thing in itself thru anything should make us happy, read the last few pages, we win..
As for women choosing non believers for their fleshly abilities that isn't fair...I settled for a non-believer, new believer whatever you wanna call him, fact is we weren't on the same page spiritually. I settled for my own reasons, none of which were because he was good in bedor because he had a big anything (pocketbook, doodle, dreams). Anywho, women are like men and sometimes we settle just because something is more than nothing, even when he beats us, puts us down, and makes us feel horrible everyday. Instead of making statements like that, this post was the perfect set up for a mature christian to counsel a younger one. With good intention and an open heart we should be guiding people to the trueth, in the Bible we have guidlines, but nowhere does it talk about internet dating, or how to date and look for the right guy in 2010. In our lives as mature Christians we learn and aquire some good relatable information for others, we should share it nicely, we were all brought together today for a reason, and we obviously haven't found our other half or we would not still be looking...maybe what I know could help you and what you know could help me, we share and learn and grow...we are divided too much by non-believers and the world to not be helpful to our own brothers and sisters in Christ searchung for a better way...just saying not preaching....

The expectations that we place on one another can be un realistic at times, especially if we ourselves have come to the revalation of the truth as described in the scriptures. Being that we are created in the image and likness of The Living God.
It is all too easy for us to expect others to walk our walk and have the same degree of understanding that we do. ( I'm preaching to myself now). The Christian walk is joyful in our position but sorrowful in our condition.
Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God but remember dear sister that our adversary the devil waits over the Word that he may go and steal it away just as soon as it has been sown. You can't make someone act right, believe me I've tried. The scripture warns against that. All we can do is present the Gospel of salvation in a clear and concise manner and let The Holy Spirit do the rest. We could drive ourselves crazy trying to do God's job.
Now concerning "EQUAL YOKING" there is more to that than not marrying a non believer. It is be tied to someone that does not have the same goals and destiny that you do but you are so bound to that person that you will not make a decision without them though you'll never agree because you don't have the same destiny.
Relationships are very complex and the light of the Gospel must be shed upon and applied to them in order to discern their true intent. And when I say the Gospel I mean the Whole Gospel, the whole counsel of God on any given subject, not just the stuff that fits into our plan. (I'm preaching to myself again.)
Anyway may the Lord guide and direct you and may the Blessings of The Most High be upon you in Jesus mighty name. Amen and amen.

Here is the point that I am trying to make:

Christian women are still creatures of flesh, and their flesh wants to be pleased when it comes to dating. So, when a woman says, "I want a good Christian man", she means "I want a Christian man who will please the desires of my flesh."

Keep in mind that the purpose of dating is to please the desire of the flesh. Sure, a Christian woman may seek spiritual compatibility within a potential mate, but she also seeks someone who will be compatible with her fleshly desires.

So, when a Christian woman claims to be seeking a "good" Christian man, she means more than she says.

I dont agree with this at all. When I say I want a good Christian man it means I want a man that will put God before the flesh. I'm not saying I want a man to please the desires of my flesh but to respect my flesh. I am waiting till marriage to do that, judge me as you will. But I do find it quite offensive that you would assume that of a woman, Christian or not.

Hello emmie,how r u?oh..well it's morning here so"best of mornin dear emmie nd how was ur nite?,ok am about 2 start preparin 4 church,so pls always take ur time to take good care of ur self nd say me"hi"to everyone around u.

The desires of the flesh pertain to more than sex. They also pertain to age, physical characteristics, income level, education level, work schedule, hobbies, entertainment preferences, etc.

Man and women alike seek significant others who best match their tastes and interests.

For the sake of argument, suppose that a single Christian man were a 20-year-old high school drop-out who earned minimum wage working nights and weekends as a janitor. Suppose that he was also 5'0" tall and made Woody Allen look like Mr. Universe in comparison.

Would such a man have a realistic chance of dating a college-educated Christian woman who grew up in Beverly Hills, who is 5'8" and who works week-days only?

Hello!

I agree with you, wwgagirl. I would love to talk to you. I have not posted a picture yet but I will do it soon. See you later. In Jesus name. Amen.

God Is one .....and i Believe every one agrees with his existence....IN God We Trust

Well not everyone believes. But even just simply believing he exist doesn't make a good Christian. Even the Devil knows that God exist

what you said is correct,may GOD bless you and your family. george

Am a very devout chst man from ghana..very religious and likes praise and worship..i agree with lady w..CHOOSING A PARTNER CAN MAKE OR UNMAKE U...CHOOSE RIGHT..

Am here 4 u..am 28 from ghana,but hey distance is nothing wat really matter is fate determines all..am here 4 u..very devout and likes praise and worship esp don moen..mail me on popsylain@yahoo.com can send u my pix.stay blessed

:D that's right you betta tell somebody the truth.Tori K