She is a sweetie damn straight anyone that was mean to her should be ashamed

Hello there. A great man here

I think a lot of us never thought that we'd be at this point at this age. Hell, as for me, I "thought" I was happily married to a man who loved me. Then one night, all alone, I saw the phonebill and found out that he had been cheating on me for who knows how long. Months of crying followed, by thoughts of "what is wrong with me". And he didn't even cheat "up", he picked some "lot lizard", but hey "she's a good woman". With 6 aliases, older then me, who knows how many times around the block, just like him and now that I am going out again, he is about ready to flip and lose his lid. Yeah, we're still in the same house, but have had seperate rooms for years now. I tried everything to save the marriage, but then I found out that even in counseling he was lying. And there finally came a point where I just resigned myself to the fact that he has no respect for me, he never will. But I am not letting him out till I am financially ready to. Seems he used me for whatever sick purpose, so you know what they say about payback.The last year has been hell. Well, actually more like the last 2+ yrs. I just want to find a decent guy who will love me without lies, but most guys don't answer when I respond to their profile. And the ones that do, by time they email me the 2nd time, here comes the sex talk, as if that is really what I am looking for right now. Heck, all I'd have to do is go to the corner bar and I am quite sure I could leave with a guy any night of the week. When will "most" (I know there are guys out there who do know the difference)men get that sex and intimacy is not the same! And at this point, I don't need or want the sex, I want the intimacy. Hell, I have not had a guy simply hug me in over 2 years. My soon to be ex, for all purposes that matter, he is my ex, withheld any physical contact from me for yrs. that will really mess with your head.
Sorry, didn't mean to rattle on, just wish that some of the local guys who keep complaining that nobody responds, would respond when someone writes them.
Again, sorry guys I got off topic.
Anita

i am male aged 40 looking for women

Well, I'm back, and bravo to my friends that defended me. I missed my peeps. Not letting anything bother me anymore. All I care about is how I treat others. And I'm backkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!

Well it's about time !Manlaw was not the same without you

theres lots of us down to earth guys out here just have to ask questions & don't play games, thats what being in your 40"s does to you. lol... geoff

hey thought i would drop a line to let you know that there are plenty of great guys your age that are looking for a women to love,your reading about one right now!!!!!

Well, this thread sure keeps going-lol!!! That is so funny! Well, bring it on men in your 40's. Those with a pic on their profile. lol.

Sorry you needed defended. I have some friends if you want me to make a call................

Welcome Back

Thanks, JT!!! Makes me laugh that this is still going!!!

/peeks

I dunno... all this talk of buses, handcuffs and 10 kids makes me wonder what in the world I have stepped in to here.

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mind matters not age

Hi

I think that somewhere along the line everyone got off the main subject... I've been visiting "Mingle2" fromm time to time and haven't found true love. Although, I must say, I made a lot of friends. This September I will be single for 2 years. I've managed to pay off my truck,start my own business and maintain my regular job. It all sounds great but I still have that empty space to fill. Perhaps one day, when I least expect it, I will find the woman of my dreams. Good luck to all...

Hello,
I have been here for few weeks, and I get few responds, but you want hear from a lady anymore.If, anyone out their want a friend, contact me.

Nice old guy here

Well if u can have kids,1 @ least you kno...hi