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Topic: Why is it that the men...
bedlum1's photo
Tue 02/23/10 11:11 AM
Edited by bedlum1 on Tue 02/23/10 11:12 AM
its not that hard...self confidence ,dont be afraid of rejection, be yourself/like yourself. if someone says no...sooooo what..
dont take it personal

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Tue 02/23/10 11:11 AM

Well, this website is dead. If you had of posted this on plentyoffish or one of those more active dating websites lol they would "let you have it". Well you just have to get use to it, people are always lying online more than they do in actual life. Its a pain in the *** to deal with fakes all the time but hell, that's the internet for you and reality as well.


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Tue 02/23/10 11:12 AM
I aways had to make the first move cause I hade to blow her up!!noway bigsmile :banana:

shekargan's photo
Tue 02/23/10 11:13 AM
You are right. Go through the profiles irrespective of genders, it is really shocking. Everyone are separeted and they want to meet soulmate it seems. It really sounds funny. Does that carry any sense man. Everyone have to understand that whether marriage or friendship, it should be for a lifetime otherwise just keep awaya.

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Tue 02/23/10 11:15 AM
If you're interested in someone, do something about it. Don't wait around, worrying about who will make the first move. If I'm interested enough in someone, I will make the first move.

bedlum1's photo
Tue 02/23/10 11:21 AM
and strutting around like a peacock hoping a woman will notice and break the ice dont count as making the first moverofl

mscherbear's photo
Tue 02/23/10 11:22 AM


Well, this website is dead. If you had of posted this on plentyoffish or one of those more active dating websites lol they would "let you have it". Well you just have to get use to it, people are always lying online more than they do in actual life. Its a pain in the *** to deal with fakes all the time but hell, that's the internet for you and reality as well.




I've seen that clip so many times, but it fit so perfectly here! laugh laugh drinker

evian001's photo
Tue 02/23/10 11:25 AM


Ery1 has or had a lil supersl.Ut in them @ sum point...... Even me hehe

Sum ppl dont grow out of it. Thts whn it turns sad.
I totally agree with that...flowerforyou

but I still want you to call me a Superslut!

Makes me feel like a superhero of sorts!:banana:

"Its a bird
its a plane...

no....

its Superslut"!!!!


I evian001 hereby on this 23 day of the month of febuary in the current year of 2010 at the exact time of 11:20am california time do hereby thus decree tht lov2roknroll is deemed supersl.Ut #2. dont ask about supersl.Ut #1. From this day henceforth into eternity including afterlife. Wherever tht may be. CongraD-ulations !!!!

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Tue 02/23/10 11:29 AM



Well, this website is dead. If you had of posted this on plentyoffish or one of those more active dating websites lol they would "let you have it". Well you just have to get use to it, people are always lying online more than they do in actual life. Its a pain in the *** to deal with fakes all the time but hell, that's the internet for you and reality as well.




I've seen that clip so many times, but it fit so perfectly here! laugh laugh drinker

{{{{:laughing:}}}}Yes!I've grown very fond of these gif.'s.They save me so much time typing repetitive responses to these type of duh!remarks.Godspeed!Cy :smile: flowerforyou

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Tue 02/23/10 11:38 AM

its not that hard...self confidence ,dont be afraid of rejection, be yourself/like yourself. if someone says no...sooooo what..
dont take it personal


There's a lot of that going on. Not much self confidence. There have been many threads where men are talking about how they're tired of making the first move and that a woman should do it. Is that really supposed to make a woman want to make the first move? If a guy is whining about it, I'm probably not going to stay interested very long.

I'm sure the same goes for women as well.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 02/23/10 11:41 AM


Have to make the first move, whether it be the net or not.

This and many other questions like this have been posted on the forums many times.

In reality, it's harder for a man to get a reply from a women then it is the other way around. Now knowing I been on the net for a few years. My experense in reading profiles. Many of them say i'm looking for friends. Now to me, this means looking for people to chat with and pass time. So being a man and i'm expected to make the first move.

Question, does attraction have to do with anything in looking for a friend?

My personal thoughts on this. A lot of people lie to themselves or on their profile being on the net, and use the friend thing as a way to hide what there actually looking for.



OK, let me have itlaugh laugh


You looked at my profile & didn't say hi...So, doesn't that defeat the purpose for this...Or you were waiting for me to say hi...is that is?


Hummmmmmmmmmmm Baby boy seems ya just got busted hehehe

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 02/23/10 11:41 AM
maybe it has to do with the "old ways" that have some residuals left over from yesteryear

bedlum1's photo
Tue 02/23/10 11:43 AM


its not that hard...self confidence ,dont be afraid of rejection, be yourself/like yourself. if someone says no...sooooo what..
dont take it personal


There's a lot of that going on. Not much self confidence. There have been many threads where men are talking about how they're tired of making the first move and that a woman should do it. Is that really supposed to make a woman want to make the first move? If a guy is whining about it, I'm probably not going to stay interested very long.

I'm sure the same goes for women as well.
plenty of self pity threads period..guys suck, girls suck, same ole same ole...ITS CALLED LIFE.. neither good or bad just another step to becoming you

TheShadow's photo
Tue 02/23/10 07:26 PM


Have to make the first move, whether it be the net or not.

This and many other questions like this have been posted on the forums many times.

In reality, it's harder for a man to get a reply from a women then it is the other way around. Now knowing I been on the net for a few years. My experense in reading profiles. Many of them say i'm looking for friends. Now to me, this means looking for people to chat with and pass time. So being a man and i'm expected to make the first move.

Question, does attraction have to do with anything in looking for a friend?

My personal thoughts on this. A lot of people lie to themselves or on their profile being on the net, and use the friend thing as a way to hide what there actually looking for.



OK, let me have itlaugh laugh


You looked at my profile & didn't say hi...So, doesn't that defeat the purpose for this...Or you were waiting for me to say hi...is that is?



Some times ill see people on the forum, and ill look at their profile to see if I can get a little bit of an idea about them. It's not always about meeting somone for me.



What I was getting at was how you will see a lot of people put they are just looking for friends. So lets say I did send you an email. Does attraction play a part of, whether you will reply to the email or not? My answer to this is, I think a lot of people put attraction first with everything. So, when there are people that just want to chat because they might of found the persons profile interesting, the person that said they are looking for friends don't reply 99% of the time to emails. The forum is different. people are more then willing to chat with others.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 02/23/10 07:47 PM


Hummmmmmmmmmmm Baby boy seems ya just got busted hehehe



Nope, I never get caught:tongue: laugh


TheShadow's photo
Tue 02/23/10 07:53 PM

Men have to make the first move beCause whn a woman does- men wonder if she is a supersl.Ut who pics up men all the time.

Even if a guy plays it cool he still wonders

Thus us women have to play a lost deer in the headlights or lose our glass slipper to allow mens ego to be boosted. Resulting in him feeling like the grand "hero " he is nOt.

The truth hurts - dont it :)



Good luck on playing a lost deer in the headlights with me. because ill just run you over. Speed bumplaugh oops

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 02/23/10 08:23 PM
Actually believe it or not I answer all my e-mails regardless of whom they are. I feel that if they took the time to write me I could at least take the time to answer them as well.

Sure I get some wild ones at times and well I just have fun with those and blow their minds with my response......

For example I got one a while back from another site from someone real young that made a comment about me being old and called me Auntie.... I wrote him back and informed him if he was going to call me by anything then my real name to get it right for I was a granny first and foremost and informed him that I was not interested in one as young as him and wet behind the ears.......Hummmmmmm for some reason I never heard back from himwhoa :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

But now I have no problem contacting guys first if I see something I like I have the balls to send them and e-mail ya never know what will become of it.....bigsmile

skydancingA's photo
Wed 02/24/10 11:05 AM


Well.
Since you asked :-)
Men can look at a girl and fall in love.
Girls need to know more.
We use the friendship angle to get there.
We don't ask first because the first ask is
part of the mating ritual.
We like that one :-)

If I ever look at a girl on the net and fall in love.
Shoot melaugh

I have a small .22 for when the moment comes.
We can use cupid bullets.
I think they are rubber.

TheShadow's photo
Wed 02/24/10 11:13 AM



Well.
Since you asked :-)
Men can look at a girl and fall in love.
Girls need to know more.
We use the friendship angle to get there.
We don't ask first because the first ask is
part of the mating ritual.
We like that one :-)

If I ever look at a girl on the net and fall in love.
Shoot melaugh

I have a small .22 for when the moment comes.
We can use cupid bullets.
I think they are rubber.


laugh :smile:





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