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i dont know what to do anymore. im so tired of the whole long distance
thing. and because of his past i am scared that i am getting played. |
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And the sad thing is you could be right!
 Hang in there the right one will come along.. |
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 sometimes it is really hard to know where you stand esp in LDRs
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What about his past is what scares you the most?
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that is a hard one.. but the heart knows so if it says stay try to stay
if it says run then put on your running shoes |
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im scared because of the number of ex's that he has. (if you want a clue
it is about 8x my number) |
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To put it bluntly (sorry) - what does he say about his ex's? What
does he call them? I was my ex husband's third wife (I was his fiancee before the divorce was over) and soon to be wife #4 was his fiancee before the ink was even dry. Be true to the words that he says - not what he promises - but literally what he says - it'll hold the truth how he views women. For someone who has been through that many women... why settle? I honestly do not feel optimistic. |
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it depends on who he is talking about. the one before me, he continually
trashes her because of what she did. but i mention a girls name that we use to know and hes like "oh i went out with her" or i hear stories when i mention him to other people and its just making my stomach very unsettled. |
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I would listen to my stomach, I might be hard, but your body is trying
to tell you something. 
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I agree with jade, I would listen to your sromach. There is obviously a
reason you don't trust him....go with your instincts |
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You should follow your instincts. Thats the only advice I can give. I do
not know your guy therefore I have no right to judge him. Its all really up to you. |
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Always to your inner voices.
Pardon a blunt old man, but he has 7-8 exs. Are these girlfriends or what? Your way to young to be getting this serious this quick. Leopards don't change their spots, that quick. If he is older, what the devil are you doing with him. Be young, enjoy life, GET AN EDUCATION Relationships will come in good time SLOW DOWN |
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Very well said sage.
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