i need somebody advice there is this grl i like and we wanna be together
and all but her mom won't let her because of how i used to be back in
the day with drugs and the police and everything her mom says she
dosen't trust me any ideas of how i can regain her trust?

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Ok I just went through a similiar situation with my 19 year old
daughter. Her boyfriend has the reputation of the local bad boy, but I
have seen a big change in him. He now comes over to the house, will go
out and do things with us. I didnt care for this boy at first, but I
know that my daughter had to learn to make her own path in life. Seeing
how he has changed, and some of it is due to her influence, I now
respect the young man. I also have chosen to accept him in our lives
because no one is worth losing my daughter over.

So talk to her mom, be willing to stay there, where she can see how you
are treating her daughter, communication is the key there, and pray that
she will eventually relent, and give you a second chance.
Good luck

sit down and talk to her mom, explain how you know that it will take a
while for her to have faith in you again, but that you are seriously
interested in her daughter, and are willing to go through that "trial
period" and show her that you are trustworthy. Good Luck!

show up and do work on the house,always give them something to feed on
get thier mind off of the subject,best way is to break something and
then fix it for her

i have been bein myself ive done everything i can think of and i haven't
touched drugs or been in trouble with the law in 3 years well past that
time in my life im just outta ideas

How old is this young lady?

How old is this young lady?

How old is this young lady?

how old is the daughter

and how old are you

if mom is a problem

does that mean she is under age

if so wait for her to grow up

if she is not under age

then maybe she needs to explain things to her mother

and then there is the possibility she
is just making mom the bad guy
and only wants a little fun on occasion

just a thought

but hey what do i know

the funny things is is that i think im in love with her daughter
and i have to figure out something maybe i should sneak over to thier
house tonight and take spark plugs wires off and switch them around and
show in the moring and fix it lol

I just hate it when my mouse sticks, and I smack it and end up posting
the same question 3 times

she's 16 and im 18 but she just got out of a relationship few months
back with a guy my age

Dude as a parent I can tell you this she may like you and you may
never be good enough for her daughter.

With that said, never say never. All you can do is live right and treat
her daughter with respect and love and when she sees that her daughter
is happy she may then tolerate you. j/k Maybe in time like you or
even love you.

well i know ill never be good enough for her daughter im just a simple
ole country boi that won't ever have to much and i know that she
deserves the world..........and ill do eveerything i can to give it to
her

Just curious countryboy how old is this girl notice you are only 18 so
how old is she that could have a lot to do with it

she's 16 but she just got done datein a guy my age whom the mother liked
a few months back

16 I believe is under age, so you may have to wait awhile. You need to
talk to her mom, ask her mom to set the rules, and obey them.