I have tried to make smart dating decisions and not settle to just be in a relationship. It has been important to try and find the one I will be haapy spending my life with. Now it seems that search has taken to long and I am losing time. I begin to wonder if I should think about settling?

keep looking,I wish you well.Don't settle you deserve more

No such thing as losing time. Stick to your guns and don't settle. Just make sure you don't write off somebody for a quirk that you may have grown to love over time.

hope u find someone and it isnt wrong...i have been trying to for a little bit...

Keep trying, cuz I am! It's hard to find that one right for you. I thought my last BF was it, but he decided other stuff/people were more important than us. So off to search for a new Mr Right. Just dont exclude someone for something trivial, even an older women.

never, never settle!! you will only be unhappy in the end and so will they and if you want to talk about wasted time, that would be it!. just wait the right one will come along when you least expect it, well at least thats what all my married friends say. geez what do they know, haha.

p.s. i LOVE huskies and yours is just beautiful!!, someday i will have one when i dont have any kids at home.

annie

I think, in the end, you may find that
'settling' is only a word.
We are all flawed, and imperfect.
When you find the perfectly imperfect
you will know it.

I don't know if by now you've found the love of your life, but I hope you didn't settle. I see people--too many people--who settle for someone they like, or sometimes, not even that with disastrous results. You deserve better. And the other certainly deserves better. Keep looking. Keep learning about what makes a good relationship and how to make and keep it strong, healthy, and secure. Keep learning about how to be a blessing to the love of your life once you find that person. Maybe you're not ready, maybe there's something more you need to learn. It will happen. Keep praying to find the right one and keep praying to be made a blessing to that person. It'll happen. And when it does.