I gotta tell ya, I had such a HARD time trying to adjust with the last one.It was extremely difficult to adjust my ways and let someone else into my routine.


I got sooooo thrown outta whack despite what happened.....its scary.


How do you adjust after being set for so long ???

I don't know Moe.. When my ex and I moved in together we just did.. There were things that went wrong but it wasn't adjusting to living with someone it was his insecurities, etc...

Thats why I say you got to love me as I am, I am not changing my ways for no one. Love me or hate me.

Someone will, if it's not you.

I look back soemtimes now and see that it wasnt easy on either side.I liked things doen a certain way and to look a certain way.


I guess cause Id be on my own since 04 really.My apt doesnt exactly have the look of being lived in.


I realized I nagged at him so much....but then it was a whole other list of things that were bigger that bugged me even more and that just caused all holy hell to break lose.


I guess if its someone you REALLY want to make it work with, itll flow and youll both adjust as needed.


Just shows me it was wrong from the start, even despite well, ya know.

Nope I won't change for anyone either...

If you really love me, love ME.


Not for who you think I am, or who you want me to be.

K...another subject.

I was at JC Penny's looking for shoes and a bathing suit for bug today.

I saw this person (worker) I could not tell, tall, extremely skiiny no breasts but looked both male and female. Wearing skinny jeans and those stupid shoes and untucked puke green shirt over a ribbed v-neck muscle shirt. shaggy nasty hair, he/she really looked female but man it was hard to tell.

First off a hate that look...secondly no man or woman should ever be caught dead in skinny jeans. Those are the worst things ever invented. There have been many fads but that one has got to be the worst. Makes me wann throw up when I see a male or female wearing them.

It'll happen... You two are too awesome for it to not happen....

Miss J.....Dont leave yourself out of that equation.



You're pretty awesome there yourself m'lady.



And thank you

It will happen for all of us...just one of us will be last.

Probably an "undecided" vote in either direction of sex.


And a great candidate of the show "What NOT to Wear"

Eh I left myself out on purpose... I don't think I want it.. Too much bs, too old and getting very tired... Just gotta figure out what I want...

I know what you want

Oh you do, do ya...

Ya know....something I noticed a while back about us 6 kids.


Out of the 6 of us, Im the only one with no child, never married, hence never divorced.


The only one whos had no REAL attachement to another person in such a strong way.


Yet I think Im the one who has wanted it the most out of all of us.


I think thats weird....who knows.



Anyways...I have two different color sox on Miss J.

Uh oh.....time for me to leave....like the beginning all over again !!!

And you may be the only one true to yourself


At least they're socks Moe

please tell me neither of you wear those toe socks...they freak me out!!!

oh heck no... I can't stand things between my toes...

nice segue btw...