I learned something recently that I already knew, had preached to others but got caught up and forgot so I tripped... I won't forget again....

See, why cant we just run into the one we're all supposed to be with and be done with it ???


Whats the REAL point of this dating game, meaningless really for the most part.

True...I hear so many things that women go through on the first couple of dates and its ashame.

I have aslo seen what some women want on the first few dates and I am like go jump in a lake lady cause you are not getting that from me.

No trippin here again either.

Ugh.....gotta hide again.



Thought I turned my IM off.

It seems to be... I can't seem to be bothered with it....

I am working on a trip to Italy next year... not sure I'll make it, depends on "kids" and their needs but I'm almost done and it's time I start doing things I want to do.... I had always thought I'd do these things with a "special" person but that's not in the cards....


I hear you Tom... It's ridiculous on both sides a lot of the time... That's what I don't get.. Like what Moe said.... What's the point? Why does it have to be so difficult??????

It kils me...I dont even get as much as an email on here.

The only two people who email me are you two.

I wanna goto Ireland and Rome and Egypt....gotta climb the pyramids one day.


Thinking of somewhere for my 40th.....HOLY CRAP!!!


THATS NEXT YEAR !!!!

Sorry hon but maybe we're all you need for now... I get emails that well, let's just say I'd rather only get them from you two..

Dont feel bad, same here.


Only cause I added the pic I have am I getting any kind of attention.

Yeah, I agree, I liek emails for you two only as well.



Dating just bytes....cant we just be matched up autoamtically???

I dont know the point or why we crave it so bad....

I mean really why do we look for something we know is gonna turn out to be sheet. I guess cause we want to find that ideal situation. Some one told me the other night, they dont want a relationship of convenience. They want one of inconvenience, one where both parties go out of their way to be good to each other, do nice things and all.

Because as humans we crave anothers company, someone to share our dreams, set backs, feelings with etc etc..We crave a connection ot another to make us feel good inside etc.

You know what Tom, that is kind of true.. Although when we really care it's not going out of our way... The problem is we can't seem to meet the one that it works with.. It's either them or us not both at the same time...

It's like the song "You love her, but she loves him.
And he loves somebody else, you just can’t win"

Yeah but its never really about love, its more about getting busy.

It should be "You f**hed her, she F**ked him. And hes F**kin somebody else, you just cant win"

well I don't know about that but I guess that could be part of it sometimes... And it's not always love... these days it's more "into" than love...

Not alot of people these days wanna take the time to make the effort to make that real connection, to go beyong the norm either.Take a poll on most married couples or long term rel., and I bet quite a few arent with the one they consider their true soulmate.


Practically all my family has been divorced....too many got married because it seemed a good thought at the time or the right thing to do because one was pregnant etc.


I will NOT make that same mistake.


I dont care to be alone all the time, but Id rather be content alone than discontent with someone else.

Very true!!!

Habitual daters...people who wont or cant settle down.

Line from a movie...



Id rather be fighting with you than making love with somebody else.



Miss J.....you know movies, wheres it from ???

What was it we were saying a few weeks ago "dodged the bullet"... I've dodged a few....

Sometimes I wonder if I'll be old and too set in my ways before I meet someone that I really mesh with... I don't want that but I won't settle so I could end up really old and single but I'm cool with that so it's all good...