Yeah, well, they're all getting cards saying congrats and I'm not going anywhere near them for a year at least. Sheesh!

I see no problem with going out dancing at all.After all,She is pg not dead.Why not enjoy yourself?I used to go dancing when I was pg.All the doctor said was not raise my hands above my head.Like the gitterbug,or dances like that.Dancing is very good exersize.

give all the people there a fresh reminder of what can happen on a one night stand! lol

give all the people there a fresh reminder of what can happen on a one night stand! lol


Ha! That's a very good point!

well there are certain urges which are very strong during pregnancy

so sure! why not get your freak on? jiggy-n it.

gotta get the ball rollin somehow. plus a little exercise can
be a really good thing!

I think it's none of my damn business!

I think exposing the unborn baby to loud music and vigorous bouncing inside the womb is GOOD for the baby. It increases the baby's potential maximum IQ, and it has a larger tendency to become healthy and happy. His or her resilience to stress and harships later in life gets stronger. He can shrug off misfortune and setbacks much easier if he listens to loud music in the womb and gets tossed around. In fact, you know how fathers throw their babies in the air, and catch them on the way down? The babies love it. But the father would do much better for the babe if he was throwing his pregnant wife up in the air, three or four feet, and catch them on the way down.

In fact, my landlady 35 years ago went skiing when she was pregnant, and my sister went out and had safe, protected sex with hundreds of guys during her three pregnancies. (All three pregnancies were planned with her loving and doting husband, all three fruiting in a beautiful child.) The husband did not know, and nobody's going to dare to tell him because he's big and strong and very smart and rich.

The three kids are all geniuses. The oldest one my aunt (now deceased) called "a stupid goose", because she was, actually, the least bright. That little nip has a Ph.D. in French and English (the kid lives in Hungary.) The middle one is a teacher, and the young one is a director of a community centre, he's got no formal education, but he's the smartest. He just made a mistake by wanting to become nothing but an actor, and you know how hard that is in this day and age. He's got the talent, but not the looks -- he's tall, but chubby, and his face resembles his father's.

If she's having pushing pains, the dance will camouflage the pain in the their weaker, early stages, and the bouncing will cause the kid to pop out of there much quicker and easier. You know, it's easier to pour dry elbow macaroni out of a container if you shake it first. It's also easier to produce stool if you keep moving around, bending at the waist a lot.

I went out when I was pregnant with my son. I was camping in a sleeping bag in the middle of January when my water broke lol.

I would just stay away from alcohol and the smoke as much as possible, but I needed to get out and have fun once in a while

I do think kids start learning from the womb. But I think that music and dancing are good things because of it. I sang to my belly all the time and my little girl LOVES singing.

When I was pregnant with my first, I went to a dance club with my co-workers a month before she was born, I was up on the dance floor having fun. Granted I wasn't dancing as much as I would have liked but my friends made sure I was away from anyone smoke and that I was only drinking seltzer water with lime. (One friend had them put cherry juice in it to pretend it was something else, as a joke). My daughter turned out fine, loves singing and dancing.

My sister-in-law was at my other brother's wedding dancing a bit when she was nine months pregnant. She looked a little tired so wasn't dancing much but she was lucky for not doing it.....her water broke an hour after the reception ended and my niece was born twenty minutes after that.

Just because she is visibly pregnant does mean she has to be a shut in. If she wasn't drinking or smoking, she is fine.

The baby feeds off her emotions and can tell when mommy is happy. TRUST ME. There were times when my stress level would go to boiling point while I was pregnant and my baby would kick the living crap out of me as a natural reaction. Baby feeds off emotions as well as mommy's bloodstream.

So if mommy was happy and knew her limits to her body, leave her be. It's going to be a while before she can do that again.

OHH (can't say what I want). Women used to work all day, have HEALTHY babies & never think twice about it.
WHATEVER she is used to doing, she NEEDS to keep doing.
Unless there are medical conditions, complicating the pregnancy, activity helps make healthy babies. My frst wife rode horses, till the saddle horn started hurting her belly, at about 8+ months. She didn't carry 100lb sacks of feed, but did throw hay & do theother daily jobs needed.
Bsides, who has the right to judge another.
I say "MORE power to that lady."

I don't see a problem with it.

In my time, that's how you kept the woman faithful and in the house.
Pregnant in the summer and barefoot in the winter.