Saddle up girl, here comes the Mingle Prayer Train, hop on!! Have you seen how many Mingle passengers have climbed on for the journey? I know everyone here will be with you for the duration......... Help is on the way!!!! I am dedicating the following to you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZSNQ_pb8Ak

When the winds seem like they are too strong
for you alone to stand against,
remember that your roots are strong and grounded,
and that there are so many who will fight
against and shelter you from the wind.

All the best to ya, Baby Girl.

my thoughts and prayers are with you ((((red))))!

I stopped and said a prayer for you as soon as I read this!



I SEND YOU NEW YORK LOVE LIL RED!!!!!!!!!!!

youre in my prayers Red. you need me, im right up the road!!

Thinking of you.

There's a lot of love being sent your way.

xxx

Thank you everyone, it means so much to me to know that people do care and are willing to stand by my side an help in this fight. All of your words have brought tears to my eyes. I never knew how many people really did care for me. As soon as I found out anymore info I will let you all know.

I am really scared about all of this, things do not seem to be in my favor. When I first had the mole removed my mother was cleaning it one night an noticed there was 3 white spots, we asked the doc about it an he said that is the "stem" of the mole. Also the doc asked me if I had any swelling in my right armpit..which didn't seem like much to me but it did. I would have swelling when the mole would break out an become more inflamed an scaly an at random times. This started to happen in Aug when I first noticed the mole, never happen before this.

So all that I have to say now is please please please wear sunscreen, this is something no one should have to go through. I am kicking myself now for not wearing any when I went out. I had many summers of sunburns. I wish I would have put some on now :(

My thoughts and prayers are with you.. It was caught early so may not be as bad as you are thinking.. Hang in there, we are all here for you..

You are in my thoughts and prayers Red. You are stronger than you know, have faith.

My prayers are with you Red......

may the warm embrace of the mother give you strength hope and light

Many prayers and thoughts are with you

Thank you

The thought of cancer can scare the bejeebies out of some. They are taking from your lymph nodes to biopsy to see if the cancer has gotten into them. They are the thoroughfares to other parts of the body. All should check them esp if cancer is in your family. It is more of a reassurance that it hasn't spread. They usually will do it for most cancers. Chemo isn't that bad, will make you sick- varying degrees to what type of medicine you are given. Make sure you take everything the md says even if you feel fine.(experience ) Put sun screen on every 3-5 hours if you are going to be in the sun. Some think once is enough for being outside all day. For you, even just to go shopping is a must! Have a dear friend who is very light skinned and has had it a few times. He was my neighbor and lived directly on the beach for years in Florida, will pray for you and your calm.

You are in my thoughts and prayers Red. You are stronger than you know, have faith.