In this world, in these days where we live nowadays. We are so busy with
job, worries, etc.
We lack of time for our family, for our significant person, our friends,
and worse than that we don't have time for ourselves.

Sad reality....

Regards.

TLW

yep

I don't agree Miguel...although I know your world incredibly busy.

Choices...we all have choices in setting priorities...and in those
choices we sometimes make sacrifices...some more significant than we
first realise.

We have the power to make our decisions, and choices in life, and when
we face these realisations, that some parts are out of balance in our
life, then we have an opportunity to correct those inbalances.

We all have choices.

so true jess

but he did not mention the choice

and most do not realize there is a choice

maybe someday they will see what is really important

How r u my sister?
I agree with u we have choices.
And every choice means a sacrifice.
I'm sacrificing my own sake to get a goal at the end of this year.
Hopefully, next year everything would be more relax.
Because three years ago i chose to come to this country, and since there
I've been literally surviving, but it was my own choice. AS i said
before my sake is being jeopardized.

REgards

TLW

All is well here Miguel,

Sun is shining, a public holiday today, (celebrating the Queen's
birthday), so a quiet Monday morning spent working on some reports on
the deck, watching a calm blue ocean, listening to the birds doing their
thing, and to my children lost in their imaginations, in the bushland
beside the house.

and wandering in to here every so often, to read, and learn, and
ponder...

good to know my sister

Well...Sometimes when life gets in the way...Such as working etc to
survive...We do have to make choices...BUT those choices may involve
deciding that becasue of the busy place we are at in our lives that we
don't have time for a relationship!!!

I have been there and made sure every second of my time was taken up
with evening meetings...committiee work etc...as well as my regular job.
I was sooooo stressed at one point in my life that I had to make the
choice of what was more important and weeded out the non-neccessities in
my life and got things to a manageable point.....Now I choose to live a
quiet..non-hectic life....BUT sometimes there is no choice when the
business is our jobs, schooling and just a mere matter of
survival!!!!!!!!!!

Learned the hard way, we make time for what WE want to.

All of life is a choice, really think on that.

YOU CHOSE everything you do.

i agree- we have to decide what is important and make the decision to
give it the time it needs

different times in your life u will have different needs and goals
...life is about changing... i did my time of working 55-70 hours a
week... that was 2 yrs ago still really burned out from it... yes i got
somewhere... where i wanted to be at that time.. now its somewhere else
i want to go.. and it involves time with my bf... although im having a
urge to set new goals too.. and moving forward to something new... not
that i dont want to spend time with him.. but for other reasons...just
want to better myself..

I found latly after lossing friends and relatives at an early age, I am
making more time for me, I spend more time with my dog walking and
taking time to smell the roses cause ya never know when tommorow may not
come for u or a loved one!

I agree with Sage, we make time for what's important to us. I always
make time for chocolate and doing kinky things with Esteban's blistered
bum...

why does bettering oneself mean sacrificing time with ur love ones?

I agree with Jess, it is all about choices, priorities and deciding what
is important to you.

Hello TLW

Time is not a love killer

We kill love by not using our time on this earth properly.
You are responsible for you & all you do; NO EXCEPTIONS

That is the bottom line.

Well it all depends how you direct your life. What do you consider a
successful life??? Is success being a powerfull CEO, living richly,
advancing, spending every minute living & breathing work? Or is your
success family focused, leaving a career to become a stay at home
parent? etc. Truth is either lifestyle may be appropriate for either
person. It is our choice, our well being is measured by our success &
accomplishments amoung other things. So if we measure our
accomplishments as being a devoted father, mother, husband, wife,
doctor, lawyer...then devoted we shall be, as what we prioritized as
being "most" important. What we choose determines where our time is
spent.