Topic: what does a guy do?
carlos2342's photo
Tue 01/12/10 07:43 AM


when he flirts? i seriously dont really know.. i dont get flirted with much... today i thought maybe i did so i came home and told my roommate.. he said the guy was flirting with me.. so what kinds of things do u guys do < in person> when flirting? and what do you expect the gal to do back in return if she is interested?

its the funniest thing.. im not shy.. but when it comes to a guy who interests me for a potential date i am the most timid person i think i know... i have come to the conclusion that dating scares the hell outta me.. though ive gone on a few dates..just something im not good at.. probabaly why im single..


An example of what I might do:

on an elevator look her in the eye, ask her name then say without breaking eye contact...it was a meet to pleasure you.


Elevator? Although eye contact is okay, too much is dangerous from a man or creepy, and elevators? Now you sound like you are in a fiction movie my friend. "You had me at hello, you had me at hello!" lol

Zack931's photo
Tue 01/12/10 09:38 AM

smile, make small talk, generally if a guy stikes up(or is trying to strike up a converstation) with you(if you are a complete stranger) then he is interested...if you want to show you're interested back just smile,

quick eye look, look away. let them catch you checking them out, but pretend you didn't want them to catch you...


okay just to clarify, thats really annoying and complicated and confusing. dont do that. not all guys are mind readers

soufiehere's photo
Tue 01/12/10 11:07 AM
i've got hot dog's and a 5th of mad dog ....how about it !bigsmile

Would you like to dance and buy me a drink baby?

I've got $50 get in the car b!tch

i've got hot dog's and a 5th of mad dog ....how about it !


I salute these masters of flirting.
They know humor works the best.
Serious turn on.
Try it :-)

no photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:04 PM
Just go up to the guy in the raincoat.

If he opens it up and he doesn't have any pants on...

HE'S FLIRTING WITH YOU!

blushing

Roco's photo
Tue 01/12/10 07:46 PM
..next time...if you receive/perceive a flirt...just stare at him..perhaps smile a little..then go outside..smoke a cigarette...even if you don't, pretend to..if the guy's interested..he'll go up to you and talk to you some more...

...i think that dude at the grocery store would have

roko

buttons's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:24 PM
laugh i have a date... so are u guys telling me to stop the elevator on the way up to the resturant?laugh laugh and stare at him lol!

Totage's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:26 PM
That might work. laugh

Goofball73's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:27 PM

laugh i have a date... so are u guys telling me to stop the elevator on the way up to the resturant?laugh laugh and stare at him lol!


You should totally go down on him!shocked rofl rofl rofl

Totage's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:29 PM


laugh i have a date... so are u guys telling me to stop the elevator on the way up to the resturant?laugh laugh and stare at him lol!


You should totally go down on him!shocked rofl rofl rofl


But what if the elevator goes up? Then should she go "up" on him? laugh

buttons's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:30 PM
im scared to death!!!!!!! talked to him a few times on the phone for over an hour.. and then some.. i know he is safe cause i know someone who went out with him a few times... hes handsome so im nervous... taking me to dinner and some of that 18 dollar bottle of beer he drinks.. im sure ill be fine after i drink that huh?laugh

buttons's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:31 PM
Edited by buttons on Fri 01/15/10 09:32 PM


laugh i have a date... so are u guys telling me to stop the elevator on the way up to the resturant?laugh laugh and stare at him lol!


You should totally go down on him!shocked rofl rofl rofl
that would be after dinner to get back to the streetlaugh best not step outta the resturant with out taking it down to the first floor!

Goofball73's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:32 PM
There will be alcohol involved???? Oh my.....yup....you will go down on him.tongue2 rofl rofl rofl

Totage's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:33 PM

im scared to death!!!!!!! talked to him a few times on the phone for over an hour.. and then some.. i know he is safe cause i know someone who went out with him a few times... hes handsome so im nervous... taking me to dinner and some of that 18 dollar bottle of beer he drinks.. im sure ill be fine after i drink that huh?laugh


Sounds like you'll atleast have a nice night out even if it doesn't work out, but I hope it works out. flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:33 PM
sorry but he is far from a sleezy guy...:wink:

buttons's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:35 PM


im scared to death!!!!!!! talked to him a few times on the phone for over an hour.. and then some.. i know he is safe cause i know someone who went out with him a few times... hes handsome so im nervous... taking me to dinner and some of that 18 dollar bottle of beer he drinks.. im sure ill be fine after i drink that huh?laugh


Sounds like you'll atleast have a nice night out even if it doesn't work out, but I hope it works out. flowerforyou
i think so.. hes fun to talk to on the phone...

Goofball73's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:36 PM

sorry but he is far from a sleezy guy...:wink:


Yeah...we all say that on the first date...until we get tipsy and our natural whoreness comes out.:tongue: laugh

Kidding...hope this all goes well for ya Buttons.flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:38 PM


when he flirts? i seriously dont really know.. i dont get flirted with much... today i thought maybe i did so i came home and told my roommate.. he said the guy was flirting with me.. so what kinds of things do u guys do < in person> when flirting? and what do you expect the gal to do back in return if she is interested?

its the funniest thing.. im not shy.. but when it comes to a guy who interests me for a potential date i am the most timid person i think i know... i have come to the conclusion that dating scares the hell outta me.. though ive gone on a few dates..just something im not good at.. probabaly why im single..
Hell...............I don't remember...........


I have been accused several times by ex g/f's that I flirt a lot.

I really have no clue what they are talking about.

buttons's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:38 PM
again i know a gal who went out with him 3 times quite some time ago.. so that isnt the way he is..they didnt even kiss any of the dates..laugh

Totage's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:40 PM
Well, maybe she just wasn't as hot as you. :tongue:

buttons's photo
Fri 01/15/10 09:41 PM
like 2 months ago he said we should go out sometime.. then this time he mentioned it i got ballsy!! i didnt not let him set the place to go. but he wants me to call him on when to go.. and i will..