Topic: Anyone here really looking for a relationship?
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Mon 01/11/10 03:28 AM

there IS someone right



No..that's why I'm still hopless...bigsmile

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Mon 01/11/10 04:24 AM


Or do you just want to play silly games?


Ok let me give you a point of view, based on my observations.

There are 3 categories here on mingle 2

1. Very active women on the forums, who talk and chit-chat, but they aren't really looking for anyone.

2. There are the ones who are looking for the "one". Of course the person they are looking for doesn't exist. They are really looking for either Brad Pitt or Matthew McConaughey, but one day perhaps they realize, that those sort of people don't really look for dates on a free-for all mingle dating sites. Some of these also belong to either group number 1 (above) or group number 3. (below).

3. And then you got this massive amount of women, who never post anything on the forums, or maybe once or twice at most. For them, you can type your fingers off or send 10 thousand nudges, they won't respond. If you have seen the movie "I am Legend" with Will Smith, they are pretty much like those mannequins he put into the DVD store to talk to, or the Chinese clay army, who line up and all have a face but you would have a similar success trying to make them talk.




And then there are those people who do like to chat in the forums, but are also open to meeting new people. There needs to be a 4th category :wink:.

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Mon 01/11/10 10:16 AM


Or do you just want to play silly games?


Ok let me give you a point of view, based on my observations.

There are 3 categories here on mingle 2

1. Very active women on the forums, who talk and chit-chat, but they aren't really looking for anyone.

2. There are the ones who are looking for the "one". Of course the person they are looking for doesn't exist. They are really looking for either Brad Pitt or Matthew McConaughey, but one day perhaps they realize, that those sort of people don't really look for dates on a free-for all mingle dating sites. Some of these also belong to either group number 1 (above) or group number 3. (below).

3. And then you got this massive amount of women, who never post anything on the forums, or maybe once or twice at most. For them, you can type your fingers off or send 10 thousand nudges, they won't respond. If you have seen the movie "I am Legend" with Will Smith, they are pretty much like those mannequins he put into the DVD store to talk to, or the Chinese clay army, who line up and all have a face but you would have a similar success trying to make them talk.




I fall into category 4. I'm not looking for any kind of relationship and just sign on for the forums. If there was a talk/email category on the pull down menu, Ii would of chosen it. But there is not so I chose friendship. Blame the site for not giving more choices. It lacks in a lot of categories as far filtering out why someone is here and who they want to converse with.

As far as all the women looking for Brad Pitt, I want to know what he ever did to the men on a dating site that bring him up constantly???? Do you know him? Did he personally do something to you? Poor guy gets blamed for so much because of the men that can't find a date on a dating site. I personally, wouldn't date him because he has a litter of small children and he looks like a billy goat lately. So please, stop blaming Brad for you not getting a date or a response.

BTW, you mention nudges, they are stupid. That's why nobody is nudging you back. Hope this helps.

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Mon 01/11/10 11:23 AM
Edited by TallandSlender on Mon 01/11/10 11:58 AM



Or do you just want to play silly games?


Ok let me give you a point of view, based on my observations.

There are 3 categories here on mingle 2


2. There are the ones who are looking for the "one". Of course the person they are looking for doesn't exist. They are really looking for either Brad Pitt or Matthew McConaughey, but one day perhaps they realize, that those sort of people don't really look for dates on a free-for all mingle dating sites. Some of these also belong to either group number 1 (above) or group number 3. (below).

3. And then you got this massive amount of women, who never post anything on the forums, or maybe once or twice at most. For them, you can type your fingers off or send 10 thousand nudges, they won't respond. If you have seen the movie "I am Legend" with Will Smith, they are pretty much like those mannequins he put into the DVD store to talk to, or the Chinese clay army, who line up and all have a face but you would have a similar success trying to make them talk.




And then there are those people who do like to chat in the forums, but are also open to meeting new people. There needs to be a 4th category :wink:.
Well I'm no Brad Pitt But I do Stand ins for Tim McGraw, with a little make-up and my Dumb hat I pull it off pretty well. The Guitar helps too.

Brad Pitt???, I'm the Country versionbigsmile

You meet the nicest people on "FREE" sites

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Tue 01/12/10 01:21 PM


Or do you just want to play silly games?


Ok let me give you a point of view, based on my observations.

There are 3 categories here on mingle 2

1. Very active women on the forums, who talk and chit-chat, but they aren't really looking for anyone.

2. There are the ones who are looking for the "one". Of course the person they are looking for doesn't exist. They are really looking for either Brad Pitt or Matthew McConaughey, but one day perhaps they realize, that those sort of people don't really look for dates on a free-for all mingle dating sites. Some of these also belong to either group number 1 (above) or group number 3. (below).

3. And then you got this massive amount of women, who never post anything on the forums, or maybe once or twice at most. For them, you can type your fingers off or send 10 thousand nudges, they won't respond. If you have seen the movie "I am Legend" with Will Smith, they are pretty much like those mannequins he put into the DVD store to talk to, or the Chinese clay army, who line up and all have a face but you would have a similar success trying to make them talk.




Regarding item #2 -- if they meet 'the one', and all of their emotional and physical needs are met then that person DOES exist! It might not be some other girl's "Brad Pitt" but he is HER Brad Pitt. winking

I doubt all people use a dating site as their only source for meeting people; however, I understand your point. flowerforyou

BTW, Brad Pitt is ickie!! :angel: He is a massive breeder now too. slaphead surprised So is Matthew McConaughey.

I'll take a Travis Fimmel though or a Brett Scallions! smitten

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Tue 01/12/10 02:01 PM



Or do you just want to play silly games?


Ok let me give you a point of view, based on my observations.

There are 3 categories here on mingle 2

1. Very active women on the forums, who talk and chit-chat, but they aren't really looking for anyone.

2. There are the ones who are looking for the "one". Of course the person they are looking for doesn't exist. They are really looking for either Brad Pitt or Matthew McConaughey, but one day perhaps they realize, that those sort of people don't really look for dates on a free-for all mingle dating sites. Some of these also belong to either group number 1 (above) or group number 3. (below).

3. And then you got this massive amount of women, who never post anything on the forums, or maybe once or twice at most. For them, you can type your fingers off or send 10 thousand nudges, they won't respond. If you have seen the movie "I am Legend" with Will Smith, they are pretty much like those mannequins he put into the DVD store to talk to, or the Chinese clay army, who line up and all have a face but you would have a similar success trying to make them talk.




Regarding item #2 -- if they meet 'the one', and all of their emotional and physical needs are met then that person DOES exist! It might not be some other girl's "Brad Pitt" but he is HER Brad Pitt. winking

I doubt all people use a dating site as their only source for meeting people; however, I understand your point. flowerforyou

BTW, Brad Pitt is ickie!! :angel: He is a massive breeder now too. slaphead surprised So is Matthew McConaughey.

I'll take a Travis Fimmel though or a Brett Scallions! smitten


Travis is drool

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Tue 01/12/10 02:05 PM

Or do you just want to play silly games?


As much as I would like to find a relationship, there just doesn't seem to be any "relationship material," so to speak.


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Wed 01/13/10 02:56 PM
hi yes i am looking for that date as i feel life is to short and time is ticking and also i have just gone thorough a divorce and am free and i want to fall in love again as i lost a lot of years sorry you don't want to hear that do you
huh I'm sure many are seriously lookinghuh

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Wed 01/13/10 03:44 PM

I know I'm seriosly looking, but He may not be seriously looking for me!!laugh laugh laugh
so soon to tell

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Wed 01/13/10 04:00 PM
I wouldn't call it "looking" it's more like trolling. O wait that was plenty of fish!slaphead

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Wed 01/13/10 04:02 PM
Edited by buttons on Wed 01/13/10 04:10 PM
.oops that went into the wrong forum sorry:wink:

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Wed 01/13/10 06:10 PM
Edited by Tomorrow22 on Wed 01/13/10 06:11 PM
I have no idea what I am doing here........kicking people in the butt mostly. LOL.

And look, my first post on a forum! And I've been here a year or so!!


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Wed 01/13/10 06:15 PM

I have no idea what I am doing here........kicking people in the butt mostly. LOL.

And look, my first post on a forum! And I've been here a year or so!!




Well, it's about time!

shades

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Wed 01/13/10 06:18 PM
I'm not

I'm just a silly silly girl!:heart: bigsmile :wink:

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Wed 01/13/10 06:20 PM
laugh I'll try to do better in the future!!! laugh

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Wed 01/13/10 06:22 PM

laugh I'll try to do better in the future!!! laugh


OK, we're going to send you a schedule next week. Please try to post 900 times a day for 63 consecutive days.

Hey, I think there are people who have actually done that!

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Wed 01/13/10 06:22 PM
I know who/what I want....Just gotta smile

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Wed 01/13/10 06:23 PM


laugh I'll try to do better in the future!!! laugh


OK, we're going to send you a schedule next week. Please try to post 900 times a day for 63 consecutive days.

Hey, I think there are people who have actually done that!

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so glad we have Lex to make schedules laugh

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Wed 01/13/10 06:24 PM



laugh I'll try to do better in the future!!! laugh


OK, we're going to send you a schedule next week. Please try to post 900 times a day for 63 consecutive days.

Hey, I think there are people who have actually done that!

shades




so glad we have Lex to make schedules laugh


I need something to do while I'm between chapters....!

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Wed 01/13/10 06:25 PM


laugh I'll try to do better in the future!!! laugh


OK, we're going to send you a schedule next week. Please try to post 900 times a day for 63 consecutive days.

Hey, I think there are people who have actually done that!

shades




We do bigsmile

Not me though :tongue: