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was cheating on you would you want to know? Yes I would want to know BUT , having been there-had it happen to me , as spoken earlier , pretty sure I would know and Iwould be GONE in blink.... :) |
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So if you know someone is cheating--- should you tell? what if the person doing the cheating is a friend?? I have that situation. I stay out of it. None of my business. |
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No, I wouldn't want to hear it from someone else unless they had undeniable proof, ie photos or something. Too many relationships are ruined by assumptions and half truths. I would not even get into it if I saw something happen, think about it. What would you have to gain? Then think what you will more than likely lose. hiya handsum - love the new pic - best to you and Angel in 2010 quick question, do all your actions bring you gain? |
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I dont think I could be the one to tell the bad news to a friend. I would fear the consequences.
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Yes, I would want to know. I've been in a number of polyamorous relationships and am open to discussing some form of openness with a partner, so I'd be really upset that he didn't come to me before he started cheating to talk openly with me about it. The dishonesty would bother me far more than his being with another woman.
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Yes I would want to know and yes I would respect my friend and the relationship enough to tell them
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Edited by
ArtGurl
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Sun 01/10/10 07:10 PM
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sorry ... mouse trouble
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Edited by
ArtGurl
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Sun 01/10/10 07:11 PM
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yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Without a doubt and I would dump them.
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Yes, I'd want to know. I'd also be upset if a close friend of mine knew I was being cheated on and didn't tell me.
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Yes, I'd want to know so I can stop wasting my time with them.
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So if you know someone is cheating--- should you tell? what if the person doing the cheating is a friend?? NO WAY!! I have been in this situation and I actually lost a friend from telling. I say stay out of it and it will come out sooner or later!! Let someone else tell, you keep the friendship!! |
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yes, and i found out anyways, now im single hahah! but yeah
i would want to know |
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If I told a friend she/he was being cheated on and it ended the friendship, at least I told the truth and warned. What the friend chooses to do with the information is his/her business and I would support him/her either way. But if the friendship ends for being truthful, it wasn't much of a friendship to begin with, and my purpose was served.
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If I told a friend she/he was being cheated on and it ended the friendship, at least I told the truth and warned. What the friend chooses to do with the information is his/her business and I would support him/her either way. But if the friendship ends for being truthful, it wasn't much of a friendship to begin with, and my purpose was served. I had a married friend who was sleeping with a woman we both knew from work. I knew his wife too, she was a kind woman, and a good looking woman. However, as a friend, it is not my business to get inbetween people's private affairs in life, my experience has shown it usually destroys the friendship on all grounds. Your best bet is to not participate in it or activities where they are with this person as it is your right, but otherwise I would not recommend saying anything. |
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If it were two of my friends id stay out of it, If its me, Id want to know, then I would bite her face and take the low road
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I don't know.....................
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I can't very well bury anyone under the stoop if I don't even know they were cheating on me... hahahahahahaha |
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So if you know someone is cheating--- should you tell? what if the person doing the cheating is a friend?? be a friend and stay out of it. |
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