Topic: Would you date someone still living with their ex?
TexasScoundrel's photo
Wed 01/06/10 10:01 AM
Times are tough. If she told me it was over, I'd date her. Love is nothing without trust.

morgannicole's photo
Wed 01/06/10 10:38 AM
No.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Wed 01/06/10 10:43 AM
No. I would be thinking it was a setup for a threesome. Eeew.

Zack931's photo
Wed 01/06/10 11:57 AM
hell no, you never know if people still have feelings for their ex's, and personally if she were still close enough to be living with her EX, I wouldnt invest any real feelings into the deal. Might hook up and screw around but sorry hunny not gonna be any more invested in you than just a bit of fun.

MotherTucker43's photo
Wed 01/06/10 12:31 PM
noway No, I would not date someone that is still living with an ex. Why continue to live with someone that you don't want to be with? Finish up with the one relationship before trying to start a new one.

Oh, and yes there has to be trust in a relationship but why add unnecessary doubt to a new relationship?

Obviously there was or is feelings between them and thier ex. People reunite daily and if they can stand each other after a relationship to remain living together than I'd say that they have a chance to get back together.

mscherbear's photo
Wed 01/06/10 01:08 PM

No and hell no! noway shocked


My thoughts exactly!

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 01/06/10 01:11 PM
No way!

no photo
Wed 01/06/10 01:21 PM

Say someone is legally divorced but they are still living with their ex-wife/husband would you still date them?
NO!!!!!!!!!!!

because,,,THERE IS,,,,an ISSUE there....:wink: trust me...

plk1966's photo
Wed 01/06/10 01:22 PM
I have a friend who is divorced from her husband and they live in the same house so that the children do not have to be shuffled back and forth between them. They both say that the house belongs to the kids so they have comprised, they converted the basement into an apartment for Daddy and the kids can go freely between Mommy and Daddy's. They have rearranged their work schedules so that they see each other very little while at home.

They both date other people and it seems to work for them

msharmony's photo
Wed 01/06/10 05:14 PM

I have a friend who is divorced from her husband and they live in the same house so that the children do not have to be shuffled back and forth between them. They both say that the house belongs to the kids so they have comprised, they converted the basement into an apartment for Daddy and the kids can go freely between Mommy and Daddy's. They have rearranged their work schedules so that they see each other very little while at home.

They both date other people and it seems to work for them



Exactly, I could have gone on living with my sons father after the split because I still cared deeply about him as a friend,,,he just wouldnt work,,,

isaac_dede's photo
Wed 01/06/10 06:02 PM

I have a friend who is divorced from her husband and they live in the same house so that the children do not have to be shuffled back and forth between them. They both say that the house belongs to the kids so they have comprised, they converted the basement into an apartment for Daddy and the kids can go freely between Mommy and Daddy's. They have rearranged their work schedules so that they see each other very little while at home.

They both date other people and it seems to work for them

and mommy and daddy are free to go back and forth to the each others bedrooms....or at least that would be my thoughts....

msharmony's photo
Wed 01/06/10 06:46 PM


I have a friend who is divorced from her husband and they live in the same house so that the children do not have to be shuffled back and forth between them. They both say that the house belongs to the kids so they have comprised, they converted the basement into an apartment for Daddy and the kids can go freely between Mommy and Daddy's. They have rearranged their work schedules so that they see each other very little while at home.

They both date other people and it seems to work for them

and mommy and daddy are free to go back and forth to the each others bedrooms....or at least that would be my thoughts....


yeah, you really have to know and trust that person is the bottom line.

I was free to visit my ex husbands bed, this is true, but I had NO DESIRE to and never would have. Because our relationship was never built on physical desire in the first place but on a deeper emotional tie for which the physical was just an extra.

Once the trust was completely broken, the physical desire was destroyed. Anyone that trusted and knew me would probably have understood that, but the hesitation or even the exclusion from dating someone living with an ex is understandable.

michiganman3's photo
Wed 01/06/10 06:52 PM
That would't work for me...

no photo
Wed 01/06/10 10:22 PM
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Oh wait, this was a serious question? In that case, **** no.


drinks

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 01/06/10 10:32 PM

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Oh wait, this was a serious question? In that case, **** no.


drinks


I concur.smokin

EquusDancer's photo
Wed 01/06/10 11:43 PM

Heck, I live alone, but I will still show you the divorce papers if ya want!!flowerforyou

Should I snail mail it, fax, digital or just bring them along on a first date?? :laughing:

I can also bring the papers that I am current on my shotsbiggrin


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no photo
Wed 01/06/10 11:53 PM


Heck, I live alone, but I will still show you the divorce papers if ya want!!flowerforyou

Should I snail mail it, fax, digital or just bring them along on a first date?? :laughing:

I can also bring the papers that I am current on my shotsbiggrin


rofl rofl rofl


Stop laughing, I'm serious:tongue: laugh

EquusDancer's photo
Wed 01/06/10 11:57 PM



Heck, I live alone, but I will still show you the divorce papers if ya want!!flowerforyou

Should I snail mail it, fax, digital or just bring them along on a first date?? :laughing:

I can also bring the papers that I am current on my shotsbiggrin


rofl rofl rofl


Stop laughing, I'm serious:tongue: laugh


Well, minus the divorce part, I can second the shot papers...

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msharmony's photo
Thu 01/07/10 12:00 AM



Heck, I live alone, but I will still show you the divorce papers if ya want!!flowerforyou

Should I snail mail it, fax, digital or just bring them along on a first date?? :laughing:

I can also bring the papers that I am current on my shotsbiggrin


rofl rofl rofl


Stop laughing, I'm serious:tongue: laugh


Actually, I first went on a vacation with my second husband while his ex still lived at home. She filed the divorce and he showed me the papers,,there was nothing between them but he had always supported her and was giving her whatever time she needed to find someplace. It was difficult to do because they both happened to live on the same block their WHOLE lives and it was where family and friends were.

hmdaily1228's photo
Thu 01/07/10 12:14 AM
yes