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Topic: Is it just me or what? I don't understand
Kenny84's photo
Sun 01/03/10 08:42 AM
Just wondering about something.
I have been on this site for quite awhile now and have e-mailed several people but never get any response.
I will admit that I am not prince charming,I am not the best looking guy on earth but I do have a good heart and I love taking care of my lady.
I just wish so many people would not go on just "looks"
I do have a big heart and I just wish I could find someone that would be willing to share their heart with mine.

I guess I'm just maybe looking for some advice.

TxsSun's photo
Sun 01/03/10 08:45 AM
All I can say is, join us in the forums. That is how people
get to know you. If nothing else, it will pass time and you
will make many friends.

johncarl's photo
Sun 01/03/10 08:45 AM
just talk in the forums they will get to know you and take it easy the lady's will talk to you in time.try just being a friend with them and hey if it works out to be more great. but what is the worst thing you have lots of good friends.flowerforyou

FETTS61's photo
Sun 01/03/10 08:46 AM
come in to the forums more often and post. get to know people in here and we will get to know you too. good luck and welcomedrinker

silly's photo
Sun 01/03/10 08:48 AM
Welcome & enjoy just post more in the forums and ppl will get to know u more.

delilady's photo
Sun 01/03/10 08:50 AM
I only email with people I have met in the forums so that may be what you are experiencing with the people you are emailing. Like everyone says, post in the forums and I think you will see a difference. Good Luck!

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Sun 01/03/10 08:57 AM
What kind of emails are you sending that aren't getting replies?

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 01/03/10 09:02 AM
I look at it this way

if you get a cell phone and start calling women and leaving voice mails, how may of them would reply?

mingling in the forums is a good way to see and be seen

TxsSun's photo
Sun 01/03/10 09:03 AM

I look at it this way

if you get a cell phone and start calling women and leaving voice mails, how may of them would reply?

mingling in the forums is a good way to see and be seen


It works for Scoundrel laugh

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Sun 01/03/10 09:18 AM
This website is not the best. You pretty much have to manually find matches like it were just a social networking site but instead it's slightly leaned towards relationships. Invest some other time in other dating websites.

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Sun 01/03/10 09:21 AM

This website is not the best. You pretty much have to manually find matches like it were just a social networking site but instead it's slightly leaned towards relationships. Invest some other time in other dating websites.


You're complaining about having to find matches on your own? You don't want to put any work into it? No wonder it isn't working for you. laugh

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 01/03/10 09:21 AM
you get out what you put into it

there is no such thing as instant gratification without effort


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Sun 01/03/10 09:22 AM
Edited by michiganman3 on Sun 01/03/10 09:23 AM
Chat Global, Date Local.
Post Early, Post Often.
Above All, Have Fun.



Oh yeah, stick with your thread awhile and chat with the people that have responded.laugh

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Sun 01/03/10 09:37 AM

Chat Global, Date Local.
Post Early, Post Often.
Above All, Have Fun.



Oh yeah, stick with your thread awhile and chat with the people that have responded.laugh


Hi MichiganM and Happy New Year!! Agree people need to stay with their threads.

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Sun 01/03/10 09:39 AM


Chat Global, Date Local.
Post Early, Post Often.
Above All, Have Fun.



Oh yeah, stick with your thread awhile and chat with the people that have responded.laugh


Hi MichiganM and Happy New Year!! Agree people need to stay with their threads.
waving

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 01/03/10 09:40 AM
Behold the power of Mutual Match. ride the wave of romance today!

Click, pick & date!:smile:

Kenny84's photo
Mon 01/04/10 12:22 AM

What kind of emails are you sending that aren't getting replies?


I am never sure what to write when e-mailing so I usually will write
"Hi,just wanted to send a note to say Hi and wanted to know if you would like to chat,Hope to hear back from you"


I do want to thank you all for your replies,all of you have helped me.

Happy New Year to all of you.

Kenny

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 01/04/10 12:25 AM
Kenny,

Maybe if you include something on her profile. That way she will know you took the time to read it.

But like others have said...post in the forums. You can learn a lot about others here.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 01/04/10 05:56 AM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Mon 01/04/10 05:57 AM

Just wondering about something.
I have been on this site for quite awhile now and have e-mailed several people but never get any response.
I will admit that I am not prince charming,I am not the best looking guy on earth but I do have a good heart and I love taking care of my lady.
I just wish so many people would not go on just "looks"
I do have a big heart and I just wish I could find someone that would be willing to share their heart with mine.

I guess I'm just maybe looking for some advice.


Dude, I have sent out over 1000 emails and gotten maybe 30 replies. Out of those I've met face to face with 7 women. Only two went beyond that first meet up.

During the same time I went out and chatted women up in real life and got over 100 dates. My point is I'm a cool guy and women like me and I still can't get a date online.

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Mon 01/04/10 05:57 AM


What kind of emails are you sending that aren't getting replies?


I am never sure what to write when e-mailing so I usually will write
"Hi,just wanted to send a note to say Hi and wanted to know if you would like to chat,Hope to hear back from you"


I do want to thank you all for your replies,all of you have helped me.

Happy New Year to all of you.

Kenny


That may be why. You're not giving them anything to respond to. Start reading profiles and sending emails based on what you've read. Try asking questions that they can answer.

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