I do, the guy I was writing was cool until last weekend, then got really
nasty and vulgar. Were some flags I guess, we used to joke around, but
nothing serious, just kidding, but he took it real serious last weekend.

I always look for flags, but you can't always tell either, they will
write them to make them sound perfect, takes awhile to get to know the
real person.

I talk to most anyone, have run into some real jerks, but made some
really good friends too.

You have to come first then others, otherwise how can you help anyone?
One's mind needs to be at peace to help another.

hey my mamma taught me well Im not sure I listened!!!!!

I did read his profile as well and he sounded like a normal guy.....

Yes true.......I dont want to hurt feelings but when they piss me
off...............watch out!!!!!

That is true Jade.

Heck, we all started out as strangers. I always answer e-mails I get
and have really met some neat people on here. Have weeded out some too,
but you do that in real life too.

I guess I thought he wasnt such a pig.......

Weather you feel he had a clue or not, some things should not be done
sweetie. and if you told him that you were uncomfortable,that right
there should of gave him a big clue. trust me he new what he was doing.
Think about it this is the net

Well then you sometimes can never tell. One time I had emailed with a
guy for months then decided to meet him. In a public place even. When we
met all he could do is kiss me and kiss me and kiss me. Finally, I told
him to quit I was embaressed he answered he knew what I needed. Needless
to say I was gone in a second and took the long way home. That was the
scariest of all the meetings I have had. I learned to be very careful.
Like you both said he did not let on any of these traits. Boy what a
jungle out there.

Yes I know......and by far......Im not the stupidest chicka on the net
if ya know what I mean but geeeeeeez why do they ......idk lol I guess
if they were in person they would do the honk honk on my
B**bies!!!! lol sometimes its harder on here I
guess....

its funny.........ask any man, and they tell you that men are
pigs........hmmmm wonder why they say that????

It can be, because you write with someone and think you know them. And
like shadow said we really don't. We take chances in real life too, it
is just there are all kinds of people every where and you will run into
them now and then. The most important part is to always protect yourself
first. That is why I really love JSH because we get a chance to hear
about other experiences and compare it to our own.

Well Put Jade.....

Ok Im gonna pack now!!!!


<----knife in her boot and a gun in her purse

lets not forget the cell phone.....


Oh yes I can do ninja flips If need be as well

hiya daleray

any thoughts????

I think as time goes by and the more experiences you come upon, you grow
a thicker skin and become better at reacting to others for own needs and
safety.

Yeah I have tomgive you that. Women have it rough on here sometimes.
it's hard at times to know some one a little bit on here untill you
actually talk to them. Well if there on the forum, look at there actions
and how they are around other people . That might help a little

Hi Delray

Sorry, Daleray Hi