i got an x tht literally stalks me. i was with her for 2 years and have been broken up for a year yet i see her everywhere i go at the randomest times or places last time i saw her she she was in disguise it really creeps me out, any advice?

restraining order?

Wow... Im still with my future Crazy Ex... So what ever works, feel free to share the knowledge!!!! Good Luck!

Wear shades and a hat. Mix up your routine a little. Maybe start hanging out with a rough crowd.

Has to agree, restraining order, especially if she is wearing disguises!! Ugg what a broad!!

exactly. Although someone crazy might not pay attention to it...at least you have something to use.

I had to get one once, but it was enough to shake him up to stay away. he had a HUGE jail phobia

okay, you can't just dial 10 digits on your phone and instant R/O. Really, it's a PITA. Pain in the A**. And costs money. Better to just avoid the person, and throw so many random cards at her she doesn't know where you're gonna pop up. Be the better spy.

huh

you guys are cool thnx for your help

If you play your cards right you might be able to get a piece of @$$,your dishes and laundry done every week...

huh what? You've never shaked off a stalker? You need to go to spy school, maybe watch some James Bond movies.

ive tried every card in the deck man shes nuts u must not understand this type of woman. obsessd and uses marine tactics to track me

well this guy was a bit more than just a nuisance

I'm gonna guess that you're not talking about me. I don't know you, other than you have a gold box around your account so you must be a mod. Now if a guy is a nuisance. What to do? Cell phone calls? Ignore. E-mails? Delete/trash. Is that so hard?

lol no silly. an ex in real life that got a little too crazy. changing my number, block him from emails, etc...I did. But it got out of hand like stalking in the OP but a bit more fatal attraction thing.

I said huh to you because you quoted me and I didn't get what you were saying

She might be saying the same things about you if you are seeing he at random times or places. When you saw her in disguise, was she at a Halloween party? Or are you sure it was her? You didn't say that she was calling you all the time, so that's good.

My advice: ignore her. If she shows up at your home, threaten her with a personal protection order. Nobody likes the embarrassment of having to even go to court, over one of those.

Ditto..................

no it wasnt at a halloween party and obviously i knew it was her or i wouldnt post it

take her on a hunting trip

Restraining Order? Yeah.... they are a lot of help. I had the great fortune of witnessing how great they work here in Philly. It didn't stop the crazy X husband from emptying a full clip into her, their daughter and the new boyfriend. If you can get one,the judge has to beleive you not her, you have to call the police when you see the person and they have to still be here when the police show up in order for anything to be done. Best thing to do is just ignore her,it might take a while but she will go away.