what do i not have that a women wants?
bein for real im honest loving and yet seem to find my self only finding gurls who want me for sex am i just at that age were more is not what i should be looking for ?

Oh man...I hate when they only want sex from me too Your young and love is over rated

Guys want something else other than sex????

i dunno i belive love is over rated but also i mean here im good looking in the army and a magicain i do not have problem getting ladies but i seem to only get ladies who fathom them selfs and belive im going to wait on them hand in feet like no one tought them how to be strong them selfs
i dont understand how i can not find a strong sexy gurl out here mebey i just look to young or have the wrong out look on life

when you have had it enough times to know its the same thing every time you tend to relize you now want more why wake up wondering how to get her out of ur bed when you can wake up and wonder how can you sneak away make her breakfast with out her waking up

U R sooo FUNNY!

I'm thirty years PAST ya man,,,and have FELT the same as you here..so,,,,NO,,,ITS NOT YOUR AGE,,,lol
WHATS that tell ya,,,lol

If you are looking for a more meaningful relationship then just a roll in the hay... show it! Act like a gentleman... don't jump into bed with fems. And don't get discouraged and don't settle.

HI and welcome

You are young and you don't know yourself yet. You are probably dating girls who also don't know themselves.

A little hint: if you truly want a strong, intelligent woman -- work on your grammar and writing skills. To some women it's a turn off to read items written by adults that are less than a 7th grade level. Your spelling, grammas and lack of punctuation is criminal.

You used the word "fathom" out of context. Fathom is to comprehend. Your sentence: “ …i seem to only get ladies who fathom them selfs and belive im going to wait on them… “

If you are only meeting ladies who “fathom” themselves that would mean you only meet ladies who understand themselves which is complete contradiction to your tirade. I think you meant to use another word because the syntax is waaay off.

I am not trying to be mean; I am being honest. An autonomous, intellectual woman would not be interested in someone who cannot use the English language properly. You will get women but not the type you seek.

Raise your standards and stop dating chicks that will jump in bed with you right away! Take responsibility, pull up the big boy pants, and just say "no"! Date a woman with class.
Best of luck and be patient. You have a lot of maturing to do before anything makes sense -- and even then it won’t in most cases.

well most men on here have not been in the army and been blown up its hard but noted :)

I have a lot of friends in the military and many have served in Fallujah. I don't see the correlation of high risk jobs vs. poor English skills. One does not negate the other. The military provides schooling! and, you went to school before the military, right? Completed high school?

Thanks for serving our country nonetheless.

Some of us do.

< shrug >

Well im not gunna fight online, good point but im a meat head :)
My life has been wrestling, MMA and now army.

Meh, excuses!!

We are fighting; we are debating. There's a difference.

That's cool if that's the way you want to live your life but you may not attract the type of you woman you mention if you don't strive for more in your life.

I hope you find what you are looking for and have fun on the site!