Hello everyone. And how are you doing today? Any advice for someone just getting started. So many beautiful woman. Not sure what there looking for? Or what kind of vibe to send out. Help ladies.

Vibe? A respectful one ... Send out what you want to get back...


Welcome and good luck ... post in the forums - you'll meet a lot of great people.

Stalk them...they like it

Hi and welcome! Respect always and a sense of humor helps. the best way to meet people and get yourself known is to post often in the forums. Also it is great fun! Good luck and hope to see you in the forums.

Hi and welcome!

Create a profile that is a true reflection of you. Be complete though. Don't use phrases like "just ask" or "I like everything".

Use good CLEAR pix that are not dark.

Read the profiles of those that catch your interest. Don't just look at the pictures. If you are seriously wanting to meet someone and get a vibe about them -- read about them! Most women are not that hard to figure out; the problem is some men just don't pay attention.

Have fun and happy dating!

Join in the forums and get to know people

hello and welcome

treat us ladies the way you'd like to be treated.

Karma - ya get what you put out there

Join the forums, meet more people, share ideas, laughs, jokes, and have some fun!

Hello and Welcome.
As the rest have mentioned,Respect always is a good start.And post in forums helps others get to know you.

pretty much what everyone else has said....

If you advertise yourself like a player...you'll get the players.

Be yourself, tell it like it is...and you should be fine.

Welcome to mingle and good luck!

Hi and Welcome!

If U ask them for a neked pic, and they respond U are ONE lucky guy!!

Be honest about what you want. If you're looking for a serious relationship, say so. If you want casual fun, make that obvious as well.

Thank you for all the replys. I am logging it in my brain. lol. What do you all think of long distance relationships? Are they possible? There some amazing woman out there. But most are very far away.

there are actually members in LDRs and they are very happy. So, it is possible if both are willing

As long as both people have integrity and commitment then LDRs can work.

Unfortunately, the poison of instant gratification –- and Tiger Woods -- has ruined it for everyone!

LDR's for the most part don't work....integrity and commitment being common. I've found its just easier to walk into a bar, store, or church and meet a local person then try to commit to someone 2000 miles away. I'm not clear on how people fall in love over the internet but to each there own

You don't fall in love on the net.

Meet online; fly to each other and meet in person; schmaybe fall in love; and then rack up frequent flyer miles until someone moves.

I did that for a year with a guy in Tenn. He moved to Cali and we stayed together 6 years. Best damn time of my life!

It can happen!

Fall in love without meeting in person? NO way!

Local talent is only good for the "urges"!

Oops! Too much eggnog!