Topic: Why do so many women flirt back, but don't wanna talk?
Dan99's photo
Sat 12/19/09 12:28 AM




Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Not all women are as classy as you though.

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Sat 12/19/09 12:28 AM





Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Not all women are as classy as you though.


True.:angel:

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Sat 12/19/09 12:29 AM
Edited by normalweirdo on Sat 12/19/09 12:30 AM
Maybe they had some interest in the beginning, and they've simply pursued it to it's natural end. I doubt it's malicious for most. Some, sure. But not most. If you've flirted with more than one, consider that they must, too. We can't run off into the sunset with every single person that sparks our interest.

Casual flirting is an efficient and socially acceptable way to find out more about someone. The odds of adoring everything you find out are slim enough that accepting the process seems like the best way to have fun meeting people without feeling disappointed. Another way to look at it: Maybe be thankful to them for the opportunity to polish your own flirting skills in preparation for the right one.

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Sat 12/19/09 12:31 AM

Maybe they had some interest in the beginning, and they've simply pursued it to it's natural end. I doubt it's malicious for most. Some, sure. But not most. If you've flirted with more than one, consider that they must, too. We can't run off into the sunset with every single person that sparks our interest.

Casual flirting is an efficient and socially acceptable way to find out more about someone. The odds of adoring everything you find out are slim enough that accepting the process seems like the best way to have fun meeting people without feeling disappointed. Another way to look at it: Maybe be thankful to them for the opportunity to polish your own flirting skills in preparation for the right one.


Very well said.flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Sat 12/19/09 12:32 AM

flowerforyou my thoughts are that when a guy blows a kiss flowerforyou hes waiting to see if i return the kissflowerforyou if i did he might mail me flowerforyou

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Sat 12/19/09 01:14 AM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Sat 12/19/09 01:15 AM




Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Now that is just damn goo...err, erhm...well...err...not that I know or anything...err, just, erhm, what I hear...yeah...

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Sat 12/19/09 01:15 AM





Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Now that is just damn goo...err, erhm...well...err...not that I know or anything...err, just, erhm, what I hear...yeah...


Don't be shy, you know it's love.:wink:

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 12/19/09 01:18 AM






Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Now that is just damn goo...err, erhm...well...err...not that I know or anything...err, just, erhm, what I hear...yeah...


Don't be shy, you know it's love.:wink:


Sorry, was off grabbing some Nice Guy Fingers...just fried them up, it's funny...they are nice guys physi...err...

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Sat 12/19/09 01:19 AM







Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Now that is just damn goo...err, erhm...well...err...not that I know or anything...err, just, erhm, what I hear...yeah...


Don't be shy, you know it's love.:wink:


Sorry, was off grabbing some Nice Guy Fingers...just fried them up, it's funny...they are nice guys physi...err...


Ugh, aren't they tough and bitter? And greasy? Or does dipping them in sour cream help?what

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 12/19/09 01:22 AM








Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Now that is just damn goo...err, erhm...well...err...not that I know or anything...err, just, erhm, what I hear...yeah...


Don't be shy, you know it's love.:wink:


Sorry, was off grabbing some Nice Guy Fingers...just fried them up, it's funny...they are nice guys physi...err...


Ugh, aren't they tough and bitter? And greasy? Or does dipping them in sour cream help?what


I use a lot of spices in my recipe of Nice Guys Fingers...

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Sat 12/19/09 01:23 AM









Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Now that is just damn goo...err, erhm...well...err...not that I know or anything...err, just, erhm, what I hear...yeah...


Don't be shy, you know it's love.:wink:


Sorry, was off grabbing some Nice Guy Fingers...just fried them up, it's funny...they are nice guys physi...err...


Ugh, aren't they tough and bitter? And greasy? Or does dipping them in sour cream help?what


I use a lot of spices in my recipe of Nice Guys Fingers...


I just love a man who can cook.....and one who is soo creative with it.....oh my......smitten

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 12/19/09 01:26 AM










Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.


I prefer the human skull on the headboard, now that shows love.:thumbsup:


Now that is just damn goo...err, erhm...well...err...not that I know or anything...err, just, erhm, what I hear...yeah...


Don't be shy, you know it's love.:wink:


Sorry, was off grabbing some Nice Guy Fingers...just fried them up, it's funny...they are nice guys physi...err...


Ugh, aren't they tough and bitter? And greasy? Or does dipping them in sour cream help?what


I use a lot of spices in my recipe of Nice Guys Fingers...


I just love a man who can cook.....and one who is soo creative with it.....oh my......smitten


I try...

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Sat 12/19/09 01:29 AM
drool drool drool drool drool drool love

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Sat 12/19/09 01:58 AM
i failed to make easy mac once, the cheese to easy ratio was slightly off

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Sat 12/19/09 01:59 AM

i failed to make easy mac once, the cheese to easy ratio was slightly off


Same thing happens in online dating.smokin

XenomorphEyez's photo
Sat 12/19/09 08:21 AM



Sending nudges does not constitute flirting, i have absolutely no idea why anyone would think it does.
people do think thatflowerforyou


It is the lowest form of flirting at best.

Leaving a horses head in her bed is a step up.

Bingo! We have a winner!!!

If someone nudges me, I send a kick back.

papersmile's photo
Sat 12/19/09 09:00 AM
maybe some of them just want the ego boost of making a guy pant over them?

funguymd's photo
Sat 12/19/09 10:39 AM


I have flirted, nudged emailed. Women flirt back, then I go to chat or email, nothing!! why bother flirting back when you're not interested?
Are the women playing by "The rules"? ya know, wait til the guy calls you 3 times before you answer him--you know, the reason why so many women who go by the rules are single.


And I thought I was analytical...why does it matter? I'm serious here, so what if some play by these so-called "rules"? There are surely some that don't care about these "rules", I mean, with a population figure of roughly 150 billion you would think there is at least 100 million. Logic is fun, I think, it just isn't fun when it is twisted into some sort of pity party for someone or when you form such ridiculous rules in your own head to validate why something isn't happening to you without considering that perhaps...just maybe...you are in fact doing it wrong.

Cheers.smokin


f*** youlaugh

actually, you're right. i wasn't asking for a pity party though, I was asking for why. and I believe I got some answers. your answer is a non-answer, as in, there is no reason. but I don't know how you can do flirts wrong, or a nudge wrong? an email, yes, you could say something that just completely turns the other person off, but a nudge, or I like your photo or something? but, in any case, thank you for putting this into perspective

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 12/19/09 10:41 AM
just keep on keeping on drinker

funguymd's photo
Sat 12/19/09 10:44 AM

Maybe they had some interest in the beginning, and they've simply pursued it to it's natural end. I doubt it's malicious for most. Some, sure. But not most. If you've flirted with more than one, consider that they must, too. We can't run off into the sunset with every single person that sparks our interest.

Casual flirting is an efficient and socially acceptable way to find out more about someone. The odds of adoring everything you find out are slim enough that accepting the process seems like the best way to have fun meeting people without feeling disappointed. Another way to look at it: Maybe be thankful to them for the opportunity to polish your own flirting skills in preparation for the right one.



good point. i suppose if I had expected internet dating to be any different than going to a bar, I was wrong, some people just flirt to flirt. however, the wider you throw out your line, the more fish you should be able to catch. but i suppose it depends where you throw the line... throw it in a dead lake, you wont catch a thing